Many people, like me, have no hope of reorganizing their families with the children left behind in the last marriage. When you reach middle age, you are accompanied by the wind and frost on your face and the vicissitudes of marriage psychologically. Remarriage is just about livin

Can a second-marriage girl still gain the same happiness as an original first-marriage family?

Many people, like me, have no hope of reorganizing their families with the children left behind by their last marriage. When you reach middle age, you are accompanied by the wind and frost on your face and the vicissitudes of marriage psychologically. Remarriage is just about living with your needs.

Remarried for ten years, full of love. After reading this divorced and remarried woman, she felt a lot of feelings about her ten years of marriage life. I wonder if you will be touched after reading it?

1. A woman uses the money from her divorce to pay for remarriage and buy a house down payment

The remarried husband is a pure family, a man, a daughter, and a job, but he does not have the capital to rebuild his love nest.

The ex-wife is a cheating partner, but she is unreasonable and lets her ex-husband start over again. This is not obvious that the man suffers a great loss! Some women know that they have such a willful ex, so they may just stop moving on! How should a relationship like

continue? A grown man has lived for half his life and has no financial foundation. Remarried? Why can’t I afford to get married if I can’t afford a house? Why should I make a contribution and be a free nanny?

The attitude of the in-laws is exactly the same as that of men. They are all people who were injured by their last marriage. They are also worried that their son would fail to remarry and their hard-earned money will be wasted again.

and his ex-husband couldn't go back, but they wanted to match their son's growth with the company of their male idols. The woman took out the property she had obtained from the divorce and paid the down payment, giving herself and her son a home to shelter from the wind and rain.

We envy her for being married for ten years and being loved by her remarried husband as always. Finally, I understand that both a happy marriage and a successful life require courage. If you cannot take this step that determines the direction of marriage, you can only envy others from afar of happiness.

2. He said that he owes a woman

If a man can actively admit that he owes his wife, he will have full affirmation and recognition of the woman's efforts. Otherwise, women think they have paid a lot, and men owe her a lot, but men just don't think so.

There is an invisible ledger between husband and wife, which is particularly important for remarried couples. If we continue the pattern of getting along with each other in the last marriage, we will continue to overdraw our relationships and move towards the understanding of the marriage.

The mother-in-law was hospitalized, and just as her husband was on a business trip, the woman took over everything; she bought a gift for her son, and she also wanted to buy one for her stepdaughter, so that the feelings accumulated in the account book would become deeper and deeper.

The husband took the initiative to make the decision to transfer his job. It turned out that even his ex-wife was nagging, he could not force the man to submit. The man who was influenced conveyed his sincere sincerity for this marriage by working harder and making more money.

Whenever he makes a fortune outside, he will call his wife. The money he gives to his wife is far more than the down payment that year, but he still keeps the words "I owe you" in his mouth.

From the time when I always felt that my ex-husband owed her, to now I always consider doing something for the other person, from being angry and forcing a man to submit, to retreating and advancing, two people who failed in their marriage, finally made changes in their second marriage and became better partners for each other.

3. A good marriage is not as simple as marrying the right person

Life is getting better and better, and the ex-wife also frequently asks men to meet on the grounds that their daughter misses her father. No matter how happy a reorganized family is, the ex and children are obstacles that they can never avoid.

can only get a happy ticket by doing your best. Summarize the lessons of the failure of the last marriage. When getting along, women learn to show weakness and express their demands and dissatisfaction reasonably, rather than taking off their anger and getting angry in a fancy way like they did in the last marriage.

Changes have always been an adjustment for both husband and wife; happiness is also the two people working together in a common general direction.

For men who really cannot refuse to invite their ex-wife to meet under the banner of her daughter, they will take their current partner to go together. Once this move is made, more women who are proactive and thick-skinned will retreat.

How many disturbing people are to the current one? It is because men cannot do this, they are confused and have no sense of boundaries, and they blame the current one for making unreasonable trouble.

The happiness of remarriage is not only as simple as marrying the right person, but also not being able to gain deep emotions by giving one-sided efforts. On the basis of marrying the right person, use the correct skills to match his preferences and give the other party the love that hits the bull's eye.