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This is one of the luckiest men in the world. He has an unparalleled beauty and figure, a happy family, and wealth easily crushes 99% of the people in the world.
This is also one of the most unfortunate men in the world. Because of his professional relationship, he is always paid attention to, and any disturbances are magnified countless times. At the age of 53, a world-renowned divorce case has made everyone know about his embarrassment.
Brad Pitt .
A man that almost all men want to be.
What did this man experience after divorced his wife Angelina Jolie last year?
The most important thing is, how did he get to this point?
Recently, an exclusive interview from GQ Style magazine tried to find the key to the heart of this character.
This is the first time that Pete disclosed the divorce in a media interview . In this interview, my cousin saw a turbid and real exhaustion.
Frankly, I love him even more.
" Brad Pitt talks about divorce, quitting alcohol, and rehabilitation from the new "
"GQ Style" interviewed Brad Pitt on a gloomy spring morning.
After the divorce rumors, he left the media headlines for a long time, and during the interview, his emotions were intermittent. Sometimes, I am completely immersed in a certain moment in the past, and the next second, I suddenly become anxious again. You probably know the most heart-wrenching story.
The specific situation at that time was -
Last September, the Petes and his wife took their six children to Los Angeles on a private plane.
Peter and Julie had an argument on a private plane, and
-year-old son Madox was involved in the "fight". When the plane landed, the quarrels did not stop, but instead became more and more quarrels.
This looks like another "star scandal", but this time, it is not the crisis that public relations can resolve -
Someone made an anonymous call, and the FBI and the Children's Protection Agency intervened in the investigation. Five days later, Julie filed for divorce.
The result of it was that when Brad Pitt was 53 years old, his life was broken and his wife and children were separated.
"US Weekly" Julie tried to convince Pete to take her child back to Los Angeles alone
Speaking of today, Pete said:
My current journey is done by myself. (self-inflicted)
Some people are born to sit leisurely by the river, some are hit by lightning, some are music, some are artists, some are buttons, some are Shakespeare, some are mothers, some are dancers...
from "The Strange Things of Benjamin Button".
Peter's identity is a star, a producer, a husband, and a father, but many people may not know that he is still an addict .
Note : The following content is translated and compiled from an exclusive interview with "GQ Style", and narrate in the first person
After graduating from university, I have been addicted every day.
Alcohol, marijuana, or dyed with something else, most of the time, it is cigarettes.
cigarettes are like pacifiers to comfort my baby. I slowly quit a lot of
. By the time I got married, the only thing I didn't quit was alcohol .
Over the past year, I have indeed suffered from alcoholism, which has laid the root of many things.
There is no way, I'm good (four tones) wine, it's really good wine. It is not an exaggeration to say that
is a professional player.
We have a winery, My alcohol content is so good that I can kill the Russians, so I will fight for their vodka.
In 2011, Pete Julie bought Chateau Miraval winery in southern France
Now my body has been overdrawn by alcohol.
It's time to ease it.
In the past six months of divorce, there have been bitterness and sweetness.
What’s sweet is that life is getting better - I started to do psychological counseling to quit drinking. After trying two psychological counselors, I finally found the right one.
fingers also recover perception from long-term alcohol paralysis.
Do you ask me if I miss the smell of alcohol—of course.
But if you want to quit -
I don’t want to live as much as before.
This may be a kind of challenge in life. You either escape for the rest of your life, or face it head-on and grow from failure.
The way to say goodbye to alcohol is to find something to replace alcohol.
My secret is cranberry juice and soaked water. I dare to guarantee that now my urinary system is probably the cleanest in the whole of Los Angeles!
Of course, this is the most terrifying thing.
addiction, I am still an addict.
I never left my cigarette back then, but later I was numb to drink it, but now I still don’t know how to control the juice and water.
I like this in everything, squeeze the other person dry, hold yourself to death, and then walk away.
This is my fault.
This is also my chance.
When I wake up, I understand and digest the feeling of feeling that I feel like I feel uncomfortable. The parts of me that I am not liked, every time I make mistakes, make me realize step by step.
I don’t like it, but I have to accept myself like this. The contradiction like
cannot be denied.
What is scary is not loneliness, but fear of loneliness
or "The Strange Things of Benjamin Button" .
In the view of "GQ", the Pete in front of him looks like a Samuel Beckett-like minimalist character (Samuel Beckett's most classic play is " Waiting for Godot "), asking about this empty world in the vast land.
Deutsche Theater "Waiting for Godot" stills
In the words, he tried to vaguely protect himself, but it sounded more meaningful.
During the meal, he only mentioned Julie's name once. For his wife who is drifting away, he only said that you should support her new movie, "They Kill My Father First: Memoirs of a Cambodian Daughter" filmed in Cambodia.
Last September, I just divorced and I didn’t have the courage to stay in this room.
I slept on the floor of a friend's house for a while, which was a cottage in St. Monica, and David Finch lived there, and his door was always open to me.
Later, entertainment magazines often sniffed around, and the situation was bigger than TMZ (American famous entertainment news network), and my friend’s computer was also hacked...
was really embarrassed to stay and had to move it back. The first feeling when I moved back to
is that I am not used to it.
In the past, the house was always noisy and ping-pong, and there was no peace for a moment.
But now, you listen -
has no sound.
My solution is to to make fire .
wake up every morning and make a fire. Go to bed and create a fire again. The fire will make me feel angry in the room.
If I don’t make any noise, I will imagine a heroic death countless times.
Everyone has a creative desire, and this idea has been in my heart for ten years.
I will go to a friend’s sculpture classroom and I am tired of it all day long.
squat there for a month, dealing with clay, plaster, steel wire and wood every day. At night, I cleaned up the mess and tomorrow, I continued to start in an orderly manner.
It is also beneficial to do more manual work. I often surprise myself, but it turns out that I can do this!
but the process is quite lonely.
Yesterday I was impetuous again, my mind was very messy, and I always thought about how we got to this point, and the things we made were messy.
But do you know, Even if things haven't happened in the past six months, I will sooner or later fall into the same situation.
Some people say that this mentality is part of the midlife crisis, but it is not -
In my opinion, the midlife crisis is a fear of old age and death. It will do things you don’t usually do, such as suddenly going out to buy an Lamborghini - to be honest, I also think Lamborghini is very good recently (laughs).
I am more inclined to regard this as a hurdle for me.
Looking back, there are many obstacles along the way that I am completely tired of myself, and this is the most difficult one.
When you are not happy, you can go crazy like a mad dog.
can curse and curse fate.
But in the end, I still have to let go
is still "The Strange Things of Benjamin Button".
I heard that before a person dies, he will not remember the achievements before his death, but will only remember the person he loves and the regrets in his heart.
family is really the first.
In fact, children need special care. Everything around them may affect them. They need someone to shake hands, talk about this and that, and they need someone to listen.
In the past, work occupied too much energy for me to be with them.
is even more inseparable now - it is still unknown whether you can get the visiting rights.
When the Children's Protection Agency came to my door, I felt forced into a desperate situation.
At the beginning, I wanted to resolve it in court. Later, I heard a lawyer say, "There is no winner in this kind of thing, it only depends on who loses worse."
Think about it, it's true. It took a year in court and stabbed each other's backbone.
We decided to negotiate privately.
You ask me if I am willing to give up, of course I am unwilling to give up.
But isn’t there an old saying, “Let go is also love.”
I can understand something now, not possessing or asking for rewards.
Frankly speaking, for me now, career is far less important than family -
I don’t feel that I am still an actor . The weight of the identity of an actor in my life is very small.
For the young me, movies are just a cheap ticket to enter the secret passage of deeper emotions.
After becoming a father, you don’t need it anymore.
If I draw a pie chart for my life now, the performance will only take up a small part of it.
The only thing that makes me feel exciting is the comedy performance.
It's more like a gamble, there is no fixed way to play. It's like my favorite movie, which may be the worst I've acted, "Hidden by the Sharpshooter " (2007).
but if I think it's worth it, it's worth it.
The opposite is this year's Oscar winner Casey Affleck
Sometimes, I'm cynical.
For example, I did design and sculpture, and it took me a long time to do it, and in the end it was a pool of dust. What is the meaning of
? I will also ask, what is the meaning?
If possible, I really want to change my name. For example, it is called P. Diddy, Puffy, Snoop Lion (all names of American rap players), etc.
In short, Brad is not suitable for me anymore, I just want to F*ck Brad now.
Note: It can be translated as "I think I should call stupid × Brad now"
You ask me about my future plans?
I've hit the bottom.
Everything is gone from scratch, just like the sculpture I made, clean up the mess at night, and tomorrow, continue to start in an orderly manner.
The above statements are translated and organized by my cousin.
Want to read the original translation, here -
Excerpt from the interview with "GQ Style" Translation
For the first time, Peter admitted that the past six months had been in chaos, and he said "it was a strange life."
GQ observed that Pete's emotions were temporary. Sometimes, he was completely immersed in a moment in the past, and the next second seemed anxious and helpless. He said that the path he is now doing is done by himself. (self-inflicted)
The most heart-wrenching part is a well-known story last September. The Pitts and his wife returned to Los Angeles on a private plane with their six children, where Pete had an argument with his 15-year-old son Maddox. Someone made an anonymous phone call, which attracted investigations from the FBI and other departments. Five days later, Julie filed for divorce.
For Pete, that was not as simple as a PR crisis. When he was 53 years old, he became alone. His wife and children left him, and life fell apart.
This gloomy spring morning, GQ interviewed Pitt at the turning point of his life.
Peter in front of him, like the Samuel Beckett-like minimalist character, in the vast land, asking about this empty world.
In the words, he tried to use metaphors to describe things and protect himself, but it sounded more meaningful. During this period, he mentioned Julie's name only once.To his wife who is drifting away, he only said that you should support her new movie, "They Kill My Father First: Memoirs of a Cambodian Daughter" filmed in Cambodia.
Question: What is the most comforting thing that gives you the most during the days.
Answer: Get up every morning and make a fire. When going to bed, create another fire. Because, doing this made me feel a little angry in the room. I just started to do psychological counseling. I liked it very much, and after trying two psychological counselors, I finally found the right one.
Question: Have you ever thought that if things haven’t happened in the past six months, you will face the same situation one day?
Answer: Yes. Sooner or later. Some people say this is a midlife crisis, but it is different. I see the midlife crisis as a fear of old age and death. I will do some strange things, such as suddenly going out to buy a Lamborghini. But to be honest, I think Lamborghini is very good recently.
Looking back, there are many hurdles along the way that I am completely tired of myself, and this is the most difficult hurdle. But these moments are the most powerful force that makes me change - since I graduated from college, I have been addicted to alcohol, marijuana, or something else every day. Most of the time, cigarettes are like pacifiers. I'm slowly getting rid of this feeling. It's much better now, I'm really happy. When I started a family, the only thing I didn’t quit was alcohol. But last year, my alcoholism was too serious and it laid the root of many things. Over the past six months, these days can be said to be bitter and sweet. It’s sweet that my fingertips have recovered from alcohol paralysis.
I think this is part of the challenge of life. You either escape for the rest of your life, or face it and grow from it.
Question: Do you miss the smell of alcohol?
Answer: We have a winery. I have a good wine, really good wine. But I had already overdrawn my alcohol, and it was time to ease it. But to be honest, my alcohol content was so good that I could drink the Russians, so I used their vodka. I am a professional player, and I am above level.
Question: How can you quit in an instant?
Answer: I don’t want to live as much as before.
Q: What do you use to replace alcohol?
A: Cranberry juice and soaked water. Now my urinary system is probably the cleanest in the whole of Los Angeles, I guarantee it! But the most terrifying thing is here, I always go to extremes. So I mess up a lot of things, and I don’t know how to do things in moderation.
Question: Is this a problem?
Answer: I am like this for everything. Squeeze it dry and walk away. (Isolate yourself)
Question: This is the feeling of soberness. You have to examine yourself and slowly count the things that are really important to you.
Answer: Yes. Those feelings that make you feel like you are feeling uncomfortable need to be understood and digested. Finally, I found out that I don’t like myself. What I don't like is also a part of myself and I have no choice but to deny it.
In fact, you have to embrace it - face it and handle it well. Because denying it, deny yourself. Every mistake I made me realize step by step. Sarcastically, this is a really good thing.
Question: Tell me where you live. For example, have you lived in this house since September?
Answer: At the beginning, staying in this room was too cruel for me. So I slept on a friend’s floor for a while and it was a cottage in St. Monica. My friend David Finch lives there, and his door is always open to me. Later, entertainment magazines often sniffed around, and I couldn't stay, so I moved back here.
Q: What has changed in your life?
Answer: In the past, the house was always noisy and ping-pong, and there was no peace for a moment. But now, you also see it, and there is a dead silence.
I can't explain it clearly, but everyone has a desire to create. If I didn't do some small creations or make some small noises, I would imagine heroic death in my mind countless times. You know, a terrible end.
So, I went to a friend’s sculpture classroom and was there all day long. To be honest, I squatted there for a month and digested my negative emotions there.
Question: So are you doing some small creations?
Answer: Yes.This idea has been in effect for ten years and is now implemented.
Question: What about it? What works are there?
Answer: Do everything. I have used clay, stucco, steel wire, and wood just to learn the raw materials. You know, it is also beneficial to do more manual work, I surprise myself, although the process is very lonely. Yesterday I was quite impetuous and confused, always thinking about where we have taken now, but the things we made were messy.
Question: Isn’t sculpture a Sisyphusian futile thing? Pushing a stone up the mountain, consuming life through physical labor?
A: It's exactly the opposite for me. Do this job, you clean up the mess at night and start in an orderly manner during the day. In my opinion, this is a good opportunity to reflect on yourself. Now I am very careful. I can't do anything too hard and don't isolate myself from others. I often separate myself, but I have to be closer to people, especially those I love.
Question: When you fall into your dark side, you will retreat and lose contact?
Answer: I don’t know how to answer. Of course I will defend myself layer by layer, wear a mask and escape. But now I think, this is me.
Question: What do you think of the past six months and how do you continue to move forward?
Answer: I learned that family ranks first. I heard that before a person dies, he will not worry about his achievements before his life, but will only care about the person he loves and the regrets in his heart. I say this because my work took up too much energy in the past. In fact, children need care. They will be affected by everything, and they need someone to hold their hands and explain things clearly. They also need someone to listen. When I get busy with work, I forget this. I want to do better in this regard.
Question: Do you know now when you will see the children?
Answer: Yes, it’s still negotiating.
Question: The visiting rights are still unknown now, and it should be even more difficult.
Answer: It was like that for a while. When the Child Protection Organization was called, I was so desperate that I felt bound. Later, I heard a lawyer say, "There is no winner in this kind of thing. Only who loses worse." Thinking about it, it's the same thing. It took a year in court, poking each other's backbone and hurting each other, and I refused. Fortunately, my partner made the same decision. It hurts the child too much and suddenly it breaks the family apart.
Question: Why did you tell your child?
Answer: I have to say a lot, and I need to help them understand the future, the present, and why, and also talk about some things that have not been resolved in the past. I hope that after this, everyone will be stronger and better, and there is no other choice.
Question: Then do you want to...
Answer: The first idea is of course not to let go.
Question: Then what?
Answer: Then it responded to the old saying, "There is a kind of love called letting go." Now I understand what that means, a kind of love without possessiveness and no return.
Question: After all, do you feel that being an actor is restricted? A: No, I don’t think I am still an actor. The weight of performance in my life is minimal. In my opinion, the movie is just a cheap ticket to a deeper emotion. But it no longer works, especially after I have children.
The only thing that makes me feel exciting is the comedy performance. It was more like a gamble, and there was no fixed way to play. Like my favorite movie, it may be my worst acting "The Death of the Sharpshooter" (2007). But if I think it's worth it, then it's the value.
Question: What proportion of performance accounts for on a pie chart?
Answer: A very small piece.
Q: What are your plans for the future?
A: I've hit the bottom, so everything starts from scratch, I cleaned up my mess at night and started in an orderly manner early in the morning.
Question: Another metaphor, but I understand.
The last one, let my cousin finish it with one of his favorite Pitt movies, which is also a classic line from "The Strange Things of Benjamin Button" mentioned many times above.
I hope you can see things that surprise you, I hope you can experience emotions that you have never had
I hope you can meet some people with different ideas, I hope you are proud of your life
If you find that you have not done it yet, I hope you have the courage to start again
00 start again
54-year-old Brad Pitt, you are actually as young as 25 years old.
We are still far from the end of the dust.
work hard together.
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