"Jane Eyre" is the work of Charlotte Bronte, a British female writer critical realism in the 19th century. It takes the growth experience of the heroine Jane Eyre as the main line and tells the story of her bravely pursuing equality, freedom, and ultimately reaping happiness in a

"Jane Eyre" is the work of Charlotte Bronte, a British female writer critical realism in the 19th century. It takes the growth experience of the heroine Jane Eyre as the main line and tells the story of her bravely pursuing equality, freedom, and ultimately reaping happiness in a patriarchal society that advocates wealth and status.

Jane Eyre is an orphan. She is humble from a humble background and ordinary appearance, but she does not despise herself, but actively and bravely pursues the happiness she wants. Some people say that Jane Eyre deserves praise, but some people think that Jane Eyre's behavior is unconventional. In particular, many people think that it is pretentious and even unnecessary to come back to find him after leaving Rochester .

But in fact, this approach is not an unnecessary move, but just allows us to see that Jane Eyre does not sacrifice freedom and dignity, and strives to pursue the valuable qualities of equality and independence in marriage and love. If you don't believe it, we can listen to what Jane Eyre said herself.

1. The resistance factor in my bones makes me yearn for equal marriage and love

Hello everyone, I am Jane Eyre, born in England in the 19th century. Everyone who knows me knows that I have lost my parents since I was a child and am an orphan. I thought that as long as I stayed well at my uncle's house, I would get a little warmth. But my aunt and cousin couldn't tolerate me at all. From childhood to adulthood, I was often beaten by my cousin, but what made me even more painful was my sister's indifference, my aunt's aid to evil, and my servant's prejudice.

I am very scared, but they will not show mercy to my subordinates just because "I am afraid", but they will become even worse. So, I decided not to endure it anymore and decided to resist to the end because I wanted to have an equal life. It was from this time that I had a factor of "resistance" in my bones. It was from this time that I decided to pursue equality and have the right to have equal dialogue with others.

Many people asked me why I left Rochester at that time and then went back to find him. So today, I will tell you. First, let me tell you why I left.

·I am not the bride of Rochester, this is part of my pain, waking up from the most beautiful dreams and discovering that everything is empty and futile. I can tolerate this horror. But I must leave him decisively, immediately, completely, which is unbearable and I can't do it!

I love Rochester, he loves me, we could have lived together happily. But, things are unpredictable, Rochester is already married. I can't convince myself that when her ex-wife does not exist, I can't accept Rochester's love with peace of mind. Because it is not fair to me, to his wife, to Rochester. I was very broken and even wanted to go over and die.

In fact, when I first walked into Thornfield Manor, I was so uncomfortable that I was swept by a gloomy air. The hellish sounds made by the woman in the attic made in the hellish voices made every day made me even more creepy. On the eve of the wedding, in my hazy sleep, I saw a detestable woman wearing my wedding dress in front of the mirror. I took a breath of cold air, and an ominous premonition arose. At the wedding, Rochester was accused of bigamy, and I realized that the woman was his legal wife.

The woman is Bertha, and she has been locked in the attic. Rochester never told me about him and her. Now, although Rochester kept saying that she was a crazy woman, I was very confused at the time and couldn't listen to Rochester's words.

I remember Derrida In the debate with Foucault, he mentioned: Madness is not a strictly essentialist concept, it is the objectified object of social force. In different eras and different rational backgrounds, madness obtains its meaning and meaning based on different external forces.

In other words, in our patriarchal era, those who hold the right to speak can label all dissidents as crazy. Rochester is this person who has the right to speak. Under his narrative, Bertha is an "ugly monster" and a "crazy devil".Regardless of the authenticity of these words, in my opinion, Bertha is just a woman who was exiled and lost the right to defend herself in a patriarchal society.

Because of Bertha's appearance, Rochester and I stood on the opposite of inequality again. No matter whether Bertha’s business is true or not, she has become an obstacle to my marriage with Rochester. I need to calm down, so I have to leave.

2. Bertha is the factor of my inner mania and an obstacle to my independence and freedom. After leaving the manor, the pastor St. John took me in and gave me a job as a rural female teacher. Although life is very hard, I am more determined, that is, women must be independent and self-reliant, otherwise they will never be able to obtain equality in marriage and love. I long for equality and a life of independence, so I rejected Rochester's jewelry before marriage, and even though I knew there were many difficulties, I had to leave Thornfield Manor. But, I love Rochester, this is also the fact that I can't deceive myself.

·The bright spring is shining around me, I can't appreciate it... My voice is out of control; the words disappear in sobs... It was a good May weather, the sky is clear, the sun is bright, and the breeze is gentle.

The bright spring sunshine is shining, but my heart is covered with dark clouds every day because I miss him like a demon. Maybe you will ask, since you love so deeply, why leave for resistance and for equality? That's the fear you don't understand. In fact, Bertha is the suppressed self deep in my heart. Every time Bertha appears when I am unconscious.

Freud believes that personality can be divided into three levels: self, self, and superego. The self is suppressed for a long time and will only relax its vigilance in a hazy dream and release its self.

Bertha burned Rochester's bed tent and tore my wedding dress apart. She was like an impulse factor deep in my heart, so manic that she couldn't help herself. When I see her, I feel like I am deep in my heart. It seems that only when she dies can I put aside the part of my inner self and even calm down the contradictions and mania in my heart.

Japanese feminist critic Soko Mizuda is right: Jane and Rochester get married and realize that Jane’s incarnation is Bertha with Jane’s inner manic aura, so she must destroy it.

So, if I had lived in the manor all the time, the entanglement of the crazy woman would never stop; if I could not get rid of the material life given to me by Rochester, I would not have the ability to gain true independence and freedom. So, I have to leave, because only in this way can I truly break free from Rochester's shackles in the name of love, truly calm the inner mania, and become a good wife.

After leaving Rochester, I lived a life of displaced life. But what is even more difficult is that the love for Rochester is becoming stronger because of the distance. St. John proposed to me, but I didn't love him. I knew that he chose me because I was more suitable for being a pastor's wife. I cannot accept a loveless marriage, nor do I want to succumb to religious constraints, I just want to hold happiness tightly in my hands.

3. Unequal love cannot gain dignity; unindependent love does not deserve freedom

Do you think I am penniless, unknown, mediocre, thin, and have no soul or heart? My heart is as rich as you, and my heart is as fulfilling as you! If God gave me some beauty and abundant wealth, I would make you as hard as I am now. I am not talking to you according to customs, nor even flesh and blood, but my soul is talking to you, just as if we were walking through the grave, standing at the feet of God, and equal to each other—that was it!

I remember the last time when Rochester was about to marry another woman, I said the above passage to him. Haha, I'm really impulsive when I think about it. I refused to be arranged by him, insisted on being a tutor, tried to remain independent in front of him, and desperately wanted to get an opportunity to have an equal dialogue with him.However, I have neither the beauty of the country nor the lady born in a wealthy family. Equality was simply a fantasy to me in that money-first and patriarchal society at that time.

Now, because I love Rochester deeply, I decided to go back to the manor to see him; but the reason why I really gave me the strength to embark on the road back was the legacy of my uncle during his lifetime. I inherited a legacy of my uncle. Although this legacy in is not much, it gave me enough confidence to allow me to be financially independent and to talk to him equally.

But even so, I am still full of concerns about marriage. I am afraid that I will become a man's plaything because of my love for him and lose my dignity as a human being. However, after returning to the manor, I realized that the original manor had been destroyed, Bertha was dead, and Rochester was injured and became a disabled person. In the blink of an eye, things change. But Rochester's love for me is as always.

I sympathize with Rochester's experience and understand that there are many objective factors in the combination of him and Bertha. Now, although Rochester has become a disabled person, I feel a little happy in my heart and I also feel unprecedented equality. That's why I said to him, "I love you more now than before. Now I can really be useful to you. In the past, you were in a proud and unreliable state. Apart from being a rewarder and protecting people, I disdain to play other roles."

There is no doubt that I love him, but I don't want to lose my dignity and freedom in order to love him. In the past, he was proud and conceited, giving me a sense of inferiority complex; now he is "rife with holes", but it makes me feel at ease. So, I decided to hold hands with Rochester and be together for a long time.

4. Only love that does not sacrifice freedom and dignity can bring about equal and independent happiness in old age

Unequal love cannot gain dignity; love that is not independent is not worthy of freedom. Although Jane Eyre is ordinary, she is not mediocre. In love, she always maintains her rationality, does not sacrifice freedom and dignity, and strives to pursue an equal and independent view of love, which is still worth learning from all women.

In "Jane Eyre", Jane Eyre does not sacrifice freedom or give up dignity, and eventually gains economic independence and equality in marriage. In reality, Milk Tea Sister Chapter Zetian is independent and self-reliant. She has never given up her dignity and freedom because of love, and has firmly grasped her happiness in her hands.

After grandma and sister married Liu Qiangdong, they did not become a woman who was dependent on her husband and had no dignity as rumors outside. During her pregnancy, she learned financial knowledge by herself through her own efforts; when she gave birth, she also obtained an online certificate for the "Private Equity and Venture Capital" course at Boconi University in Italy. She worked hard to improve herself and make herself a better person, with the purpose of having an independent personality and having an equal dialogue with her husband.

In 2018, she ranked 16th in the 2018 "New Fortune" with her husband Liu Qiangdong with a net worth of 10 billion yuan, with a net worth of 65 billion yuan. After Liu Qiangdong was deeply involved in the scandal, she was even more generous, without breaking or complaining, but only strength and independence, so she returned to campus and went to study in the UK.

Yishu said: If the economy cannot be independent, there is nothing to talk about. Food, clothing, housing and transportation are all due to the gifts of others, but they always say that they are unwilling to be accessories. There is no greater love.

Facebook Chief Operating Officer Cheryl Sandberg once said: Whether men or women, they should have free choices, realize their potential, and create the greatest self-worth.

There is nothing more important in this world than being independent and powerful. Only when a woman is strong can she not be afraid and have the right to talk to men equally; only when a woman is strong can she be respected by others and have a ticket to happiness.

Whether it is Jane Eyre or Milk Tea Sister, the equality and independence they strive for at the expense of freedom and dignity make their lives brilliant and truly their masters.So, come on, I believe that every effort and persistence can bring you a bright future.