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With the development of the times, women are becoming more and more independent, but marrying and having children is still a destiny for women. As the saying goes, men are afraid of entering the wrong profession, and women are afraid of marrying the wrong man. How to marry a good man is not only worried about mistakes in your vision, but also your parents are worried about their lifelong affairs.
However, no matter what kind of man you will choose, once you choose this, it will be difficult for your marriage to be happy.
Xixi and her husband met in college. They all have similar interests and hobbies. They think each other is good, so they got together.
Xixi studied accounting. After graduation, she did not return to her hometown, so she kept working hard to stay in this city in order to be with him. He studied medicine more than Xixi, and Xixi worked several jobs at the same time to support him in school.
Later, he finally finished his studies and successfully entered the provincial first hospital after graduation. Everything seemed to be getting better slowly, and Xixi could finally see the dawn of happiness. After working for three years, he bought a house and a car, and no longer had to live in a dilapidated rental house.
He proposed to Xixi, and Xixi agreed happily.
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After marriage, he revealed his true colors. Xixi had only met his parents once before. Her mother-in-law was kind and caring about her at that time, and she didn't look like a vicious mother-in-law at all.
A few days after getting married, she found that his family's living conditions were abnormal. So, she saw her mother-in-law giving her husband a loose clothes while feeding water to her husband, and her father-in-law didn't lift his head while reading the newspaper, which was obviously commonplace.
Usually, Xixi's husband told her that his mother would rub his back. Xixi was surprised at the time. Although her husband was the only child and it was normal for her mother-in-law to love her, he was so old now, and he was still helping to rub his back?
Xixi's husband saw her stunned and said proudly: "That's because my mother loves me. Don't your dad help you rub your back?" Xixi was speechless after hearing this. She didn't expect that this family was so weird, but there was no way. She got married and could only pretend to hear nothing.
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At their house, you must worship to give birth to a child before meals. That's all, Xixi also wants to have a child early, but later the mother-in-law also said, "Bless you give us a grandson, if you are a girl, don't want it."
At this time, Xixi was sad in her heart, and she seemed to be able to foresee how boring and miserable the days in the future would be. Xixi completely married an empty husband. Xixi is responsible for all matters at home. During pregnancy, their family took care of Xixi, but even her husband did not take leave to see her in the hospital during Xixi's due date.
After Xixi gave birth to her child, the whole family ignored her love and was surrounded by the child. No one cared about Xixi.
She felt her heart was broken. At this time, only her mother was by her side. Xixi said with tears in her eyes: "Mom, I want to divorce, I can't live this life."
Mom knew exactly the grievance she suffered and sighed helplessly. At this time, she didn't know whether to persuade or support her. After all, marriage is not easy. How can her daughter live after her divorce? What should the child do?
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