During the summer vacation, Guo Jingjing was invited to attend the Hong Kong Book Fair. Not only did his lover, Ho Chi-gang, and his three children appear together, but his father-in-law, Ho Chi-ting, and , also came to support him. The scene of three generations living together is very warm.
Although he is wearing a mask, a happy smile has always been hanging in Guo Jingjing's eyebrows and eyes. Huo Qigang also called her lover through social platforms: This is the first time my wife told a story to children in public, and our family specially supported her .
We have been married for 10 years and have 3 children. The relationship between the two is sweeter than their first love, making their lives prosperous. Why is the town girl Guo Jingjing so popular with the Huo family?
Guo Jingjing was born in an ordinary family in Hebei Province. Her parents are dual employees, so Jingjing has lived with her grandmother since she was a child.
Although they are busy with work, they have never relaxed their education for their daughter. Perhaps it was because she inherited her father's personality. The young Jingjing was the kind of child who would not give up easily if she recognized something. This personality became more obvious after she became an athlete.
In order to give her picky daughter a good health, her parents sent her to the base for physical exercise. Who would have thought that coach Li Fang would like this talented girl at first sight, so the 7-year-old Guo Jingjing started her athletic career.
Although he is talented, Guo Jingjing's physical condition is poor. The protruding kneecap seriously affects the beauty of the diving shape.
So she asked her father to sit on her lap and press down forcibly. Even though she was so painful that she burst into tears, Guo Jingjing never said she gave up.
When Guo Jingjing joined the team, Fu Mingxia was already the world champion.
Facing the halo of her senior sister, Jingjing was not only looking up to her but also envious, so she worked harder. The training intensity of the diving team is already high, and Guo Jingjing is still constantly increasing her goals.
In 1995, in the 9th World Cup diving competition, Guo Jingjing won four gold medals in one fell swoop, which can be said to be becoming famous in one battle .
The next year, 15-year-old Guo Jingjing participated in the Olympics first. She was highly expected and only won the fifth place in the women's double 10-meter platform. After
, Guo Jingjing was depressed. The house was leaking and it was raining overnight. Her tibia and fibula were severely fractured during training and she needed to rest for 10 months.
At that time, the 8th National Games competition was imminent. For athletes, suspending for 10 months and training would be like starting over again. In order to catch up with the competition, Guo Jingjing only cultivated for five months and then devoted herself to rigorous training.
In order to achieve the best state, she either practiced in the venue or used her lunch break to run against the sun.
efforts will eventually pay off. Guo Jingjing won the second place in the women's 3-meter board in the National Games , which is not easy for an athlete who has recovered from serious injury. In the years after
, she has become a calm and calm veteran in the arena, winning countless gold medals with her excellent skills.
, but things didn't go as expected. At the Sydney Olympics, Guo Jingjing lost to her senior sister Fu Mingxia and only won two silver medals. Her second Olympic journey in her life still ended with regret.
The shadow of her defeat in two consecutive Olympic Games was lingering in her heart. In addition, her teammates who were similar to her age retired one after another. For a time, Guo Jingjing fell into serious self-doubt for a while.
Looking at a group of younger brothers and sisters on the training ground, she also had the idea of retirement.
coaches and team leaders are reluctant to let go of this good seedling. In their opinion, Guo Jingjing can continue to participate in training with her physical condition.
So with the encouragement of the coach and the team leader, Guo Jingjing gradually got out of the trough. During the training, she focused on how to do good moves and improve her strength.
The heavens live up to the hard work. Finally, the 23-year-old Guo Jingjing successfully won the championship with her perfect performance and realized her dream of Athens. The two jumps of
also allowed her to firmly sit in the top spot of the Chinese diving " Dream Team " and be promoted to the core main force of the national team. The love between Guo Jingjing and Huo Qigang also began this year.
Ho Kit-kang is the eldest son of Ho Zhenting, a Hong Kong family of Ho, and the eldest grandson of the business legend Mr. Ho Ying-tung.
As one of the key figures in the development of China's sports industry, Ho Ying-tung's contributions cannot be underestimated. At that time, our country lacked the right to speak in the international sports world, and it was Mr. Ho Ying-tung who led Ho Zhenting to make a strong appeal in major competitions.
With the efforts of the two, China has been recognized by many international sports organizations in just a few years.
In order to revitalize the sports industry, Ho Ying-tung donated money to set up a foundation, host events, and build venues. At the time of death, he handed over all the results of his struggle to Huo Zhenting. As the eldest son, Ho Chi-gang is not inferior. Graduated from , Oxford University, he did not directly take over the family business, but instead founded a consulting company with his friends, committed to providing services for the expansion of inland enterprises and the introduction of funds.
Although he has not been engaged in sports-related work, it does not mean that he does not care about the performance of his motherland in sports events.
He was watching the Olympics in 2004 and was attracted by Guo Jingjing on the field. In order to see the girl he admired, Ho Kit-gang appeared with his father at the dinner where Olympic athletes visited Hong Kong.
"Can I take a photo with you again?" This is the first sentence Huo Qigang said to Guo Jingjing alone.
At that time, Guo Jingjing didn't know who this man was, but because he was wearing glasses, he had some impressions. "Didn't we take a photo just now?" Guo Jingjing asked back.
"That photo was taken by someone else, I may not be able to get it, so I want to take another photo with you." So Ho Qigang successfully got the first photo with Guo Jingjing.
Since then, Ho Kit-gang has completely transformed into Guo Jingjing's "little fan". Whenever there is a competition where Jingjing participates, he will not only cheer on the spot, but also use the camera to record every exciting moment of the competition.
In order to catch up with the girl he liked, Ho Kit-gang traveled to Beijing many times during that period, and gave her a lot of delicious food to his teammates in the name of seeing her.
is unreliable and the friends who accept the feeding become Lobbyists of Huo Qigang and persuade Jingjing to cherish this relationship. After all, not everyone has the opportunity to marry into a wealthy family.
Guo Jingjing felt that Huo Qigang's approach was too exaggerated, so she responded domineeringly: "What about the wealthy families in ? I am still the world champion! "
But Huo Qigang did not intend to give up. In order to communicate smoothly with Guo Jingjing, he began to add Mandarin and also learned pinyin. In Guo Jingjing's words, "Qigang made rapid progress during that period."
For Huo Qigang, , the best way to prove that I love you is that I am infinitely approaching you, and you just need to be yourself.
Finally, under his fierce attack, Guo Jingjing let go.
It is OK to fall in love, but three rules must be made: One is not allowed to interfere with training; two is not allowed to visit the shift privately; three is not allowed to get married before retirement .
Looking at the three "overlord clauses" Huo Qigang agreed without saying a word, so the two began to fall in love secretly.
paper can't keep the popularity behind the scenes. "Jinggang Love" was discovered by the media. For a time, news about Guo Jingjing dating with a wealthy young man was flying all over the world.
Public opinion did not put pressure on Guo Jingjing, who is preparing for the 2008 Beijing Olympics . She still eats, rests and trains on time. On the contrary, Ho Kit-gang is "pressed" and this pressure comes not only from netizens, but also from Guo Jingjing's parents.
The old couple did not agree with this relationship, not to mention that Ho Ki-kong was plagued by scandals at that time, which made the two elders feel that this person was unreliable.
Ho Kit-gang personally called his future father-in-law and mother-in-law to clarify the scandals one by one, and the two old men gradually felt relieved.
Finally, with strong psychological quality and strong technical skills, Guo Jingjing successfully defended the women's single 3-meter board and women's double 3-meter board championship in
At the same time, she is also the first female athlete to win 6 gold medals in the Olympic diving event, and " Diving Queen " was born.
At that time, Guo Jingjing, who stood on the championship podium, never expected that the person who presented the award to her would actually be her future father-in-law.
The warm applause at the scene not only contained the joy of winning the championship but also full of blessings to Jingjing. Huo Zhenting, who had always been serious, also showed a loving smile when facing his daughter-in-law.
More than a year later, Ho Qigang said to his lover: "If you can't win the gold medal in the Beijing Olympics, I will definitely be scolded by others."
In the subsequent East Asian Games held, Guo Jingjing defended her title again with her stable performance.
At this time, Jingjing was nearly 30 years old. As an elderly athlete, her long-term training caused irreversible damage to her body. In addition to fractures and waist injuries, her retina had signs of falling off because she had to keep her eyes open when entering the water. After weighing the trade-offs, Guo Jingjing announced her official retirement in 2011 with reluctance. In Guo Jingjing's career, she won a total of 77 gold medals, 14 silver medals, and 4 bronze medals, with a total of 95 medals. At this point, the era of "diving queen" has come to a successful conclusion.
In August 2011, Guo Jingjing officially accepted Huo Qigang's proposal, but they were not in a hurry to hold the wedding. Huo Qigang feels that Guo Jingjing's long-term tense nerves need to be adjusted and relaxed.
So he said to his lover, "I think you can go out and have a look, because there is not only diving in your life." After saying his own suggestions, Huo Qigang did not interfere with Guo Jingjing's choice.
Since the two decided to live together, he never thought of tying his wife to his side and becoming his own accessory. In Ho Qigang's heart, the best manifestation of my love for you is to respect every decision of my lover.
In the end, Guo Jingjing chose to study in the UK. Although the two were not together during that time, they would share their lives with each other and take each other to see the beautiful scenery. Distance in their hearts will not alienate their feelings, but will instead make them love deeper.
In November 2012, the two ended their 8-year long-distance love run and entered the palace of marriage.
In order to show respect for his daughter-in-law, the wedding invitation specially wrote Guo Jingjing's name on the top. When giving a speech to the newcomer, the first thing my father-in-law Huo Zhenting said was: " Thank Jingjing for marrying the Huo family. "
Yes, it is true that he is "marrying" rather than "climbing".
Mother-in-law Zhu Lingling also loves Jingjing very much, and the whole family is honored by Jingjing's joining.
The 12 sets of dresses and each piece of jewelry at the wedding banquet are very valuable, and the pair of crystal wedding shoes under your feet cost as much as 7 million yuan. But this is just the least worth mentioning of this wedding.
In order to reassure the daughter-in-law, the Huo family arranged a special car to pick up and drop off for Guo Jingjing's parents and asked someone to accompany her.
The 1,800 guests invited to attend were also star-studded.Well-known people such as Stanley Ho , Li Ka-ki , Jackie Chan , Andy Lau , etc. were all present to witness the happy moments of the two.
Deng Yaping once asked Guo Jingjing: "Do you think it is important to be a good match?"
Guo Jingjing said without hesitation: "It's not important. We are happy together, I don't think there is any problem." The firm answer was exactly the same as the domineering attitude he had when he looked down on a wealthy family marriage.
And this firmness in love and trust in each other have also created their sweet married life.
In life, they are no different from ordinary families.
Media repeatedly encountered two people wearing sportswear worth hundreds of yuan and walking in the supermarket together. Occasionally, they would park in front of the shelves to figure out how to buy it to make a better deal.
ended the purchase, and the two went home with big bags of "trophy" of small bags to cook together.
In order to accommodate Guo Jingjing's "northern stomach", the Huo family replaced the representative food of the New Year's Eve radish cake with dumplings. Even the aunt also knew the methods of cooking northern dishes.
Such a strong contrast made netizens shout, "This is not a fake wealthy family, right?"
But the couple felt nothing about this, " This is what we look like in our lives. My wife is not a young grandmother. We also need to wash clothes and cook like everyone else. "
The second year of marriage, Guo Jingjing gave birth to the grandson of Huo's parents, Huo Zhongxi, . When the media asked about the gender of the child, the in-laws said that they hoped that the child's parents would share with everyone, and the two elderly people also fully respect the wishes of the couple.
, who have been upgraded to parents, Huo Qigang and Guo Jingjing will implement the thrift and thrift in the end.
Someone once found that Guo Jingjing, wearing sportswear and sneakers, walked into a mass children's clothing store. After some picking and choosing, she chose a shirt for her son that was priced at 20 yuan.
Faced with why she didn't choose famous brands, Guo Jingjing's answer was quite down-to-earth: "Children grow fast, and the clothes they bought this year may not be able to wear next year. Moreover, the clothes in these stores are of good quality now, and my son likes them very much."
She once posted a video of her renovating her schoolbag for her eldest son to the Internet. In the video, Guo Jingjing skillfully sewed the buckles on the old schoolbag to the new schoolbag.
This rich couple, who lived the most "stingy" family, donated 70 million yuan of supplies in the most difficult time in Wuhan, and later donated 10 million yuan to Hong Kong for medical research.
is not that it doesn’t cost money, it just needs to be spent valuable.
Two people teach their children what the correct values are in a practical way.
In life, Guo Jingjing not only teaches her children to save resources, but also gives correct teaching in time and in doing things.
Once, grandfather Huo Zhenting wanted to take his grandson out to play. Huo Zhongxi, who was doing homework, just as he thought of getting up, his mother pressed him back. It is not that he does not give face to his father-in-law. Guo Jingjing hopes that the child can distinguish between the primary and the secondary and develop good habits.
Although Huo Qigang is busy with official business, even if he only has 20 minutes, he will choose to go home to see his children. Children such as
are gradually growing up, and Ho Kit-gang frequently appears in major charity activities with his wife and children. For couples, charity activities can not only help others, but also cultivate children's love, killing two birds with one stone.
Although he has become a mother, Guo Jingjing has not given up on improving herself.
2020 Winter Olympics , Guo Jingjing became the referee of FINA .
On the eve of going to the arena, in order to ensure his wife's safety, Huo Qigang prepared a box of hand sanitizer. Before leaving, he even gave his wife many instructions.
Then, Huo Qigang, who shared his daily life on social platforms, pointed to a very vague figure on TV and said that this was his wife Guo Jingjing.
Only then do people realize that true love will overcome the passage of time and become more intense and intense.
Conclusion:
Some people say that the unhappy marriage of wealthy families is because they have not met someone of equal status, but in Chai Shu No matter how suitable the "favorable" is, is not as good as "even-match".
Marriage is a fuel-up agent for family life. In a loving family, husband and wife will achieve each other, and their children will gradually grow up in love and equality, becoming as outstanding as parents.
Dulas once said: "Love is an immortal desire, a heroic dream in a tired life."
This is how Guo Jingjing and Huo Qigang are. Even though the years change, love is the same as the first meeting.
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[Text | Ten Eucalyptus ]
[Editor | Yu Fei Nian]
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