Occasionally chat with a group of best friends and talk about the topic of whether you will be with your current husband in your next life. At the beginning, everyone laughed and didn’t answer seriously, and they were all dissatisfied with their husbands and complained about them. They all said that they would not be with their current husbands in the next life.
Suddenly, a best friend said very seriously that he would not want to get married in his next life, not want to be anyone's wife, and not want to be anyone's mother, but just want to live for himself. So everyone was silent.
Everyone’s life has its own difficulties, their own compromises and tolerance. Women can work hard and suffer all their grievances to support their husbands' work, but they may not necessarily bring their husbands cares about their well-being and understanding. Therefore, the wife feels that sincerity cannot be exchanged for true love.
Some husbands also complain that their wives don’t understand them, don’t care about them, and will only make things difficult for themselves, and feel that life is very hard.
If both husband and wife can think from the perspective of others and understand each other's perspectives, there may be less wicked men and women in life, and there will be more happy and harmonious marriages.
People's hearts have never become colder every day. The accumulated compromises and endless life day after day will become every bit that consumes our passion, making our hearts slowly cooler and give up slowly.
This best friend who doesn’t want to get married in the next life was the object of envy of everyone at the beginning. My mother's family is well-off, her work is smooth, her husband is considerate, and she lives a happy life between them. Unexpectedly, slowly, the two of them drifted apart and they didn't talk much. In the end, the husband had an affair and the two ended in divorce.
When everyone first entered marriage, they were full of hope and longing for the future, and felt that their lives would not fall apart, and they would not become the person abandoned by marriage. However, life is long, and no one can predict what will happen tomorrow today. Only by managing today's life well and living the present well can the best life look.
No matter who you marry and live with, you will actually live with yourself in the end. Because only you are the one who has been with you for the longest time and will never leave you. If you have someone to accompany you, it’s comfortable to be together, so let’s walk hand in hand.
If you feel uncomfortable together, it will only add endless pain and troubles to you. It is better to let yourself go and make each other successful. forgetting each other in the world is also a kind of wisdom in life.
Life is short, and it is not worth wasting your own time for anyone, consuming your own life, and losing your own happiness. If you don’t love yourself, who else can you expect to love you and give you happiness?
No matter how old you are now or what your current situation is, you should not give up the right to pursue a happy life. No matter who you live with and how you live, you should not give up on yourself or happiness.
The next life is far and illusory. The most important thing is to live the present and manage the current life well. If you don’t pin your hopes on others, you won’t be disappointed and you won’t be hurt.
Be a self-reliant and self-reliant person. Both men and women should manage their own marriages and their own life well. Because, only when we become stronger and better can we be qualified to choose to live a better life.
There has never been a perfect person in the world, and there is no perfect life companion. A happy marriage is half sober, half confused, half serious, half forget it.
So, no matter in this life or the next life, it doesn’t matter who we are with. What’s important is whether we have the ability to make ourselves happy.
As long as we are excellent, no one can hurt us. No matter who we live with, we have the right to say no at any time and the ability to turn around and leave at any time.
So, making yourself stronger and better is the only magic weapon to live a happy life. Whether our happiness or not is only related to whether we have the ability, nothing else. No matter who we live with, we are living with ourselves. Only when we are good will our lives be really good.
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