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These days, Sammi Cheng’s husband Andy Lau cheated on Huang Xinying has been hyped up.
After the incident happened, everyone was scolding Andy Lau for being so scumbag and disgusting, while waiting for Sammi Cheng's attitude.
However, Sammi Cheng did not make a public statement, but instead replaced the background image in her online platform account with black.
This action shows how much mental trauma caused by the cheating incident to Sammi Cheng.
Because this incident caused too much harm to Sammi Cheng, she quickly moved out of her home with Andy Hui and returned to her own home, and closed herself on her own, not eating or drinking, and she was even seriously dying and sleeping.
Just when everyone concluded that this marriage was going to be in a bad mood, Sammi Cheng unexpectedly chose to forgive. And he said such a statement of super generous and loving.
"In addition to the happiness and warmth given to each other, marriage also deeply contains each other's mistakes and forgiveness. We firmly believe that experience and lessons in marriage will definitely help you get back on track. We just hope that everything will calm down and return to peace."
Sammi Cheng's thought was quickly besieged by many people as soon as it was sent out. They believe that as a public figure, Sammi Cheng's thoughts are easy to mislead people, and it is wise to decisively dismiss from the scumbag.
Marriage is like drinking water, you will know your own warmth and coldness. Everyone handles cheating partners in different ways. As outsiders, we just choose to respect them.
After all, in every relationship, there is a deep affection hidden in others' indescribable.
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Maybe it was something I owe Andy Lau in his previous life, so Sammi Cheng was destined to be the only one in her eyes in this life.
rumored from the chorus "Actually You Don't Me in My Heart" in 1991, to the recent cheating incident, Sammi Cheng has been breaking up and Andy Hui for 28 years.
From the age of twenty to the age of forties, Sammi Cheng has only loved Andy Lau alone and has no other man.
and Andy Andy never seemed to have stopped. He and his assistant Pan Hengzhang and model Yu Delin are both in serious relationship.
In other words, if you leave Sammi Cheng, Andy Lau can still live with other women. But Sammi Cheng could not accept other men other than Andy Lau.
people, sometimes it is really strange. Why is the proud woman who is rich, beautiful and famous like Sammi Cheng, obsessed with the playboy Andy Lau obsessed with. There are probably three reasons for
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1. First love is always hard to give up.
1986, 14-year-old Sammi Cheng fell in love with Andy Andy on TV. In order to get close to her idol, two years later, at the age of 16, she participated in the Hong Kong Rookie Singing Competition and won the third place, successfully signed a record company, and became Andy Hui's junior sister.
In order to be worthy of Andy Lau, she began to lose weight, eating only vegetables and fruits every day, and then she maintained her figure for more than 20 years. Big S lost weight so harshly, but Xiao S was convinced when she met her and said she was a paper man.
2. Andy Andy is the man who can calm Sammi Cheng.
Once, Sammi Cheng had a rare power outage accident while holding a concert. She was frightened and helpless on the stage and shouted loudly, "An Zai, help..."
I saw Andy Hui in the audience without saying a word, and immediately rushed to the stage to protect the flowers, using his actions to prove his loyalty to love, even if he was crushed to pieces.
3. Neither of them will be willing to leave each other.
Since so many years, Sammi Cheng has only admitted Andy Hui alone.
Although Andy Lau has dated different women, his love is still Sammi Cheng. In 2010, Andy Hui broke up with Yu Delin. His assistant Pan Hengzhang said: "I am like his housekeeper. Yu Delin is just a fresh moment, and Sammi Cheng is his favorite."
In short, Sammi Cheng has long regarded Andy Hui as the only one in her life. Even though he cheated, she still cannot give up this relationship.
I hope Andy Lau will never let Sammi Cheng down, a good woman who loves her again.
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Everyone has different opinions and ways of handling cheating.
Some people choose to give up and never interact with each other when they are old; some people choose to forgive and continue to live their lives well; some people choose not to divorce but will not love each other again, and they live like a dead person.
In fact, whether it is to give up or forgive me, these are all wrong.
What I fear most is that the attitude of neither divorce nor forgiveness, which will make the rest of my life a mess.
There are many such women. After their husbands cheat, they have to continue living for their children or financially depend on each other. They obviously have no feelings for him, but they still have to continue.
Some emotional program has been to such a couple.
After the husband cheated, the wife did not divorce or forgive him, but did not let him get close to him for five years.
She said that if she hadn't had the ability to make money and needed to rely on her husband financially, she would have divorced him long ago.
That’s right, how many women have to compromise themselves because they are not financially independent. They would rather live without a husband and wife than continue to live with them.
Life like this is really frustrating.
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In this life, it would be nice to be able to manage yourself well. As for what others do, it is really not something you can control.
There are three things in this world: other people's affairs, one's affairs, and God's affairs. No one knows which one will come first,
, unexpectedly or tomorrow, and there is no need to think about it.
Taking advantage of the sunshine and the breeze is not dry, go out to see the flowers and plants. How great it is.
Do your best and leave your destiny. Live your life well, live a good life, make money well, and leave the rest to time.
Only by having the ability to make money can you have more initiative.
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