20-year-old Alexandra Shaposhnikova did not expect that she would eventually die from her boyfriend. Just a year ago, she was pleading with the judge for her boyfriend biting her nose, hoping that the judge would be able to speak out and not sentence him.

Original title: She was bitten off by her boyfriend but asked the judge to forgive him. She died a year later by his knife

Repeated tolerance for domestic violence is tantamount to suicide.

20-year-old Alexandra Shaposhnikova did not expect that she would eventually die from her boyfriend. Just a year ago, she was pleading with the judge for her boyfriend biting her nose, hoping that the judge would be able to speak out and not sentence him.

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According to the British " Daily Mail ", a 20-year-old Russian guy, Oleg Myshadaev, is a car washer (Editor's note: 20 years old in some Russian media reports), lives with his girlfriend Alexandra in Saransk, the capital of the Republic of Moldova, Russia.

In November 2017, he attacked Alexandra after being drunk at a party. At that time, he not only beat her to the point of bruising and swollen, but also bit her nose 0.75 inches (about 1.9 cm).

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At a later court hearing, he was described as suffering from ‘uncontrollable anger and jealousy’.

However, at the subsequent hearing, Oleg said that he was in a state of "fury and extreme jealousy".

Surgeons failed to sew the severed part back on her face, saying the damage was ‘not reversible’.

The surgeon revealed that Alexandra's bitten nose could not be sutured, and said the injury was "irreversible".

She later underwent complex plastic surgery.

Later Alexandra had to undergo a complicated plastic surgery to repair it.

(Via Russian woman who forgave boyfriend for biting off her nose in violent rage is killed ‘by same evil man in vodka-fuelled attack with hammer, knife and billion cue’/dailymail.co.uk)

Everyone thinks that Alexandra will definitely break up, otherwise will this kind of boyfriend still keep for the New Year? However, she really kept him for the New Year, and she spent two more years.

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Despite this, she ‘forgave him’ and continued to live with Myshadaev - who she had met at music college where they shared a desk.

Nevertheless, she "forgives him" and continues to live with him. The two met at the Conservatory of Music and formed a relationship because they accidentally sat on the same table.

Prosecutors demanded a lengthy jail sentence but she told the judge: ‘I have no claims against Oleg. I am asking the court to please not lock him up. ’

In court, the prosecutor asked the judge to sentence Oleg to long-term imprisonment, but she pleaded with the judge: “I don’t want to make any charges against him, and I hope the court will not sentence him to imprisonment.”

He was found guilty and given a suspended jail sentence of 18 months and this means he walked free from court.

In the end, Oleg was found guilty, and his 18-month prison sentence was suspended, which means he was released in court.

Time is coming to February 12 this year. That day, Oleg called the police and said he had killed someone. This person is Alexandra.

The 20-year-old woman’s body was found by police with hammer and knife wounds in the flat the couple shared in Saransk city.

Police found the body of the 20-year-old young woman in an apartment where they rented in Saransk, with multiple hammer and knife wounds on her body.

As well as these wounds, her back had been ‘pierced’ with a billion cue, said reports citing law enforcement.

There were reports citing law enforcement sources that in addition to these wounds, her back was also "pierced" by a billiard club.

She died at the scene from head wounds and he kept her corpse in the bathroom, local media reports state.

According to local media reports, she died on the spot due to head injury, while her boyfriend placed her body in the bathroom.

Then, because he was afraid of being discovered by the police, Oleg cruelly dismembered his girlfriend's body.

It is reported that the attack occurred in the early morning of February 9.The other female roommate who was sharing the lease with them was already asleep at that time, and there were five empty vodka bottles in the apartment.

Early the next morning, Oleg told the roommate that he and Alexandra had a quarrel. Unfortunately, the roommate did not realize that Alexandra had been killed and then went out.

This case shocked many people after media reports. While condemning Oleg's inhumane, many people also expressed regret that if he was imprisoned in prison for violence for the first time, this tragedy could have been avoided.

I guess the saying "I'm afraid of a rope after being bitten by a snake for ten years" is useless to her.

(Via twitter)

The country is easy to change and its nature is hard to change. It's so miserable.

(Via twitter)

shocked. Looking at a person is really not about what they say, but about what they do. If someone beats you or abuses you inhumanly, that's 100% of them. Run for your life, because nothing can save them from those horrible acts.

(Via twitter)

Currently Oleg has been detained and the Russian Commission of Investigation will initiate a murder investigation. If convicted, he faces up to 15 years in prison.

However, even so, Alexandra's flower season's life cannot be saved.

The Daily Mail also wrote at the end of the report:

Had the sentence not been suspended he would have been in jail when he killed her.

If the sentence was not a probation, then this tragedy would not have happened. At that time, he would serve his sentence in prison .

It’s a pity that there is no if.

Speaking of domestic violence, many people born in the 1980s and 1990s probably have a childhood shadow, that is, Feng Yuanzheng , played by An Jia and doctors in " Don't Talk to Strangers ". In

, Mei Xiangnan, played by Mei Ting and , has repeatedly tolerated her, but has not received any pity from An Jiahe. Instead, it has made him worse.

Some people may say that these are all cases of getting married, and those who are not married are not considered domestic violence.

is wrong!

The Anti-Domestic Violence Law does stipulate that domestic violence refers to physical and mental infringement between family members through beating, binding, murder, restriction of personal freedom, and frequent abuse and intimidation.

However, in real life, the phenomenon of unmarried cohabitation is more common. The Anti-Domestic Violence Law specifically points out in the annex: violent acts committed between people living together other than family members shall be implemented in accordance with the provisions of this Law. Therefore, the Anti-Domestic Violence Act can also be used when encountering violence when living together without marriage.

This is a typical example of Jiang Jinfu's domestic violence incident that caused a lot of controversy last year.

According to the latest report from the Australian news website, a woman in Australia is hurt every week by someone she knows, who is usually their close male partner or ex.

One in three women has suffered physical violence since the age of 15. In most cases (92% of the time) it’s by a man she knows.

One third of women have suffered physical violence after the age of 15, and in the vast majority (92%) of the perpetrators are men she knows.

Added to this, one-quarter of Australian women have suffered emotional abuse from a current or former partner. This occurs when a partner seeks to gain psychological and emotional control of the woman by demeaning her, controlling her actions, being verbally abusive and intimidating her.

In addition, one in four Australian women have suffered emotional abuse from their current or ex. These situations usually include: partners attempting to gain psychological and emotional control over them through verbal derogatory, restrictive movement, abuse and intimidation.

Physical and emotional abuse is not only distressing, it’s psychologically damaging and increases women’s risk of developing a mental illness.

Body abuse is not only painful, but also causes psychological harm to people and increases the risk of mental illness in women.

Women who have experienced domestic violence or abuse are at a significantly higher risk of experiencing a range of mental health conditions including post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD), depression, anxiety, substance abuse, and thoughts of suicide.

Women who suffer from domestic violence or abuse may have a range of psychological problems, including post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD), depression, anxiety, substance abuse, and even suicidal thoughts.

(Via How domestic violence affects women’s mental health/theconversation.com)

According to the "State State of Violence in China" statistics by the All-China Women's Federation in November 2016, 30% of married women in China have suffered domestic violence, and an average of one woman will be beaten by her husband every 7.4 seconds. Domestic violence kills more than 40% of the causes of women homicide. 157,000 women commit suicide every year in my country, and 60% of the cause is domestic violence.

However, it is worth noting that domestic violence does not only happen to women.

The British BBC released a documentary yesterday, detailing the incident of three men being raped by their girlfriends for a long time.

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The 22-year-old Alex ·Skeel was once domestic violence by his girlfriend Jordan Worth for five years, including beatings and stabbings, and often refused to give him food.

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Nowadays, recalling this experience still makes Alex frightened.

Of course, I was scared of Jordan and what she would do. I felt that, if I’d said anything, she could have killed me. I’d go to hospital and say I’d tripped and hit my head or that very hot water from the shower burned me. A neighbor called the police a few times when they heard shouting, and I’d make excuses for Jordan and lie. It wasn’t nice, but I did it to save my life. I had black eyes and all sorts. She’d put her makeup on me, because she wanted to cover up what she’d done.

Of course, I am very afraid of Jordan and what she will do. I think if I say a few words to her, she might kill me. So when I went to the hospital, I said I tripped, hit my head, or the hot water burned me in the shower. A neighbor heard my shouts several times and called the police several times, but after the police came, I would also make excuses for Jordan to lie. This is not very good, but I am also trying to survive. My eyes were swollen and all kinds of scars, and she would put on makeup because she wanted to cover up everything she did.

(Via I stayed with my abusive girl out of fear she would kill me/BBC)

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In the end, Jordan was subject to legal sanctions.

Jordan Worth, 22, subjected him to multiple physical injuries, denied him food and isolated him from his family, a court was told.

In court, 22-year-old Jordan Worth admitted that he had caused multiple physical injuries to Alex, refused to give him food, and isolated him from his family.

Pleading guilty to grievous body harm and coercive controlling behavior, she was jailed for seven-and-a-half years.

She admitted that she had committed serious physical injury and forced control crimes and was eventually sentenced to 7 and a half years in prison.

The prosecution is the UK's first conviction for coercive control involving a female offender, Bedfordshire Police said. Bedfordshire police said this is the first case of a woman convicted of forcing her to control and harm others in the UK.

(Via Alex Skeel: Domestic abuse survivor was ‘days from death’/BBC)

In recent years, domestic violence has become a hot topic of social concern. Many people say that domestic violence is only 0 times and countless times. When domestic violence occurs for the first time, you must not tolerate it. And you must realize that domestic violence is a crime, and tolerance of such behavior will only make the perpetrator go further and further on the road of crime, and will cause serious harm to yourself. Don’t regret it when things cannot be restored.