"A Yuan" unilaterally announced on the 11th that he had officially broken up with his boyfriend Mi Lu, who had been dating for five years, ending this long-term relationship. They used to show off their long-term news in the community. The sudden news also stunned the fans who have been following them for a long time. For this reason, both parties expressed their feelings in their communities, and explained the whole story with the fans, "I have done my best in the past five years, and I believe the other party has also tried their best." The conversation between the two has also attracted a lot of attention.
Inconsistent pace between the two parties is the prelude to the end of the relationship
0 The end of a relationship has never been a problem for a single person. In the video uploaded by Milu on the 13th, it said that for him, A Yuan accounted for one-sixth of his life. Apart from thanking, she actually didn't know how to face the next life. "She felt that my relationship with her would not be better, and she couldn't go to the next stage. If she delayed it, it would only make the relationship worse. In the end, even friends could not do it. I hope that each other would be better after separation. She felt that YouTube's career now would cover up others' impression of me and stayed at "A Yuan's other Half, she felt that I needed my own achievements. "
In order to maintain the relationship, she chose to compromise
After the ex's video of breaking up, A Yuan chose to express her position through limited-time dynamics, explaining the reason why she took the initiative to break up, saying that she always looked at her ex with admiration for two years before dating, hoping that she could catch up with the other party one day, and resolutely went north to work hard. But during the dating, her boyfriend's attitude made her feel that she didn't seem to care or take care of her, and was afraid that she would lose her boyfriend. When she felt wronged, she chose to hide it in her heart and not say it. It was enough for the other party to be good.
There were several quarrels during their work or love. "After that, whether it was work or travel, I was burdened by air tickets, accommodation and diet... I started to live a life of spending as much as I earned, which made me feel very uneasy." The man's promise of getting married or financial sharing was not fully fulfilled, which made her feel more and more tired. "Why is my heart tired? I thought hard work would change everything, but I was getting more and more painful."
If you don’t love, learn to let go
After reading it, A Yuan admitted the scars he suffered in this relationship. Mi Lu wrote from a distance that he was not able to understand his ex’s thoughts in time and the other party’s sacrifices and difficulties. "I’m sorry and regretful, many things cannot be saved." In the process of love, there will be times when we need to sacrifice and cooperate with each other, but if one party chooses to focus on himself, no matter how much love he loves, he will be tired.
When the two cannot continue, how to "separate well" is more important than anything else. Leave beautiful memories in each other's hearts. Even if there is unhappiness, you might as well admit like Milu that you have not understood each other's thoughts. Faced with such regrets, I am really sorry.
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