This week, I watched an American drama " Love Life (Love Life)" from HBO. 's streaming media platform HBOMax created by Warner Media was announced to be launched, and the first original work was launched simultaneously.
"Love Life"
The long-awaited first release original, neither has the grand production nor the big brands gathered to attract people's attention.
Although it is with the huge halo of the first HBO streaming work, this drama has not taken the edgy route at all and slowly tells the growth history of an ordinary girl. It's just an love light comedy that depicts the emotional life of ordinary people. Much like the single-player version of "Sex and the City", such works are actually more difficult to do well than TV series with eye-catching themes and big names.
Of course, HBO has also known in recent years that just "dirty" is no longer enough to attract audiences. This drama is not only "heart-to-heart" but also "heart-to-heart"!
A variety of tiger and wolf words and sports scenes often blushed after watching them for a long time...
It is not only a scale, it is also romantic, passionate, sweet, sexy, and real.
This is actually a drama rich in love philosophy.
got a rating of 8.2 on Douban as soon as it was launched, and it rose to 8.3 points after the first season was completed!
starring Anna Kendrick , joined Broadway musical at the age of 14, and won the New York Drama Commission Award and the Comedy World Award for its musical "Upper Society". He is the youngest Tony Award for Best Supporting Actress.
later also participated in "In the Cloud", " Perfect Tone ", "A Little Busy", etc.
35-year-old Anna plays a 20-year-old girl in her new drama, and there is no sense of incongruity.
This time, "Love Life", which cooperated with HBO in the field of television, is also her first American drama show.
"Love Life" involves a total of 6 relationships in the 10 episodes. The whole series is very fast, 30 minutes per episode, a total of ten episodes, but the heroine has to change to boyfriend in almost one episode.
episode, a boyfriend, a relationship. At first glance, it seems like a little genius in love, but it is actually heartbreaking.
TV series shows the audience a real love situation. After watching it, you will find that you may have experienced all the love experiences of the heroine. The theme to be summarized is very simple, only love .
At the beginning of the story, such a set of data is given.
In this world, a person will experience seven relationships on average before finding true love.
"People, before finding true love, will have sex seven times on average, usually two of which will be stable relationships, and the rest will be short-term relationships, not serious dates or one-night stands. On average, people will fall in love twice and will be heartbroken twice."
The heroine Darby Carter, whose parents divorced when she was a child, made her feel no sense of belonging and did not know how to establish a relationship with others during her adolescence. After that, she kept traveling back and forth to her parents' new homes.
Many times, Darby feels like a boarding passenger, checking out at 12 o'clock. During the holidays, other people's families are reunited. She is like a ball, sent by her parents.
Due to the lack of family warmth, Darby couldn't figure out what the relationship between men and women was for a long time. He could only be a bystander and imitate how others fell in love from friends, books, movies and TV around him.
When she grew up, in order to attract her parents' attention, Darby once enrolled in a school that was very far away from home, but what made her disheartened was that none of her parents tried to keep her.
Daddy doesn't love her mother. Over time, Darby becomes a pleasing personality and never wants to be loved. But in fact, deep down, she longs to be cared for and held in her palm.
While attending this school, Darby met a cool boy, Luke.
At that time, she was still an honest and kind brace girl, but that young man had reached the level of being able to wear clothes without buttoning when going out.
Dabie fell in love with him at first sight, and the two fell in love with each other that night and had a wonderful holiday together.
At that time, Dabi thought that she had finally found true love. The girl's ignorance and heart-willing made her briefly experience the beauty of youth.
But she didn't expect that after the holiday, Luke did not contact her again.
A few days later, Darby found out that his roommate had slept with Luke and cried on the spot.
What is more embarrassing is that in order to appear to be a cool girl who doesn't care, she actually short-circuited her brain and said to her roommate, "I cried because of cancer."
But the lies were quickly exposed, and her classic examples became one of the unforgettable events in the history of school gossip. Because she was too helpless, Darby applied to drop out of school a few days later.
This first love that was short for less than a week, was left with Darby's only pain of being released by Luke and the dark history that he didn't want to recall until he became an adult.
When he grew up, Darby's life was very interesting. But she often feels empty. She always worrys that she won’t really interact with people, but that is, she encounters the kind of love that can show her true self in front of each other.
Working hours are always on the same pace. After get off work, she will attend various parties or dinners with her best friend.
At the roommate’s birthday party, Darby met a new friend Aoji.
Aoji is a reporter serving politicians, and Darby can chat with him.
After the two met, sparks flew everywhere. After hugging, kissing and rolling the sheets that night, Darby was sinking. The silent heart was upset again. The next morning, I left each other's phone number, and Aoji left. Aoji promised to make an appointment again, and Dabi was looking forward to it.
The next scene, I believe many girls have experienced it.
She seemed to be back in adolescence, waiting for Aoji's news on her phone every day.
The first day, Darbi was extremely excited, and she felt like she was floating in the air;
The first day passed, and the phone was silent.
The next day passed, and Darbi began to feel disappointed and anxious.
The third day passed, and Darby was already in despair and deeply fascinated by him
When talking to her best friend about Aoji, her tone was full of excitement of getting married.
Obviously, this is what a little girl is like when she falls into love.
The fourth day did not contact, and Darby devoted herself to work.
On the fifth day, Darby was extremely excited about every phone prompt sound. She wanted Aoji to contact her too much.
The two best friends expressed different views when they saw Darby's situation at this time. Best friend A Why don’t you contact him on your own initiative?
Best friend B believes that you must not take the initiative, and the price will be reduced.
Love is like a game, and whoever speaks first is the loser.
But if you don’t take the initiative, will you miss a good boyfriend?
The fact is that when you really meet the right person, all the so-called rules will be broken. At that moment, you will only strive to be with the other person. As for who takes the initiative, it doesn’t matter at all.
Even if you were still sad and angry with him the second before, the moment you saw him, all your anger will disappear and you will only be happy.
Finally, after a difficult wait, Aoji responded and confirmed his boyfriend-girlfriend relationship. Darby began to feel the kind of relationship she had always longed for. It turns out that loves someone is like this.
Darby during the passionate love period, she is like being in a honey pot every day, and she is in love with Aoji.
But before I could show off my dog food, Darby's love faced a major challenge, and her boyfriend was about to move out due to work reasons.
This is a very important opportunity. My boyfriend doesn't want to give up, but he also likes Darby very much. Darby didn't want her boyfriend to give up this opportunity because she did, so she pretended to be brave, so she told the two not to think so much and enjoy the days together. After careful consideration, the two gave up the relationship and broke up peacefully.
How happy you are when you are together and how sad you are when you part. This kind of sadness always makes us think we will never love you anymore, but that is not the case
laid the foreshadowing in the ending of the first episode. Love will always come, but it is different from what Darby imagined...
As a love melodrama, the drama has a bed scene almost every episode, but it is always dedicated to exploring the issues of women's love and sex.
Darby has experienced several such sad feelings during the long years when she has gone from a girl to a mature woman who has divorced once.
She once had feelings for her boss, but the two of them were unable to get together because of differences in the circle.
also met Luke again and had a one-night stand, and refused a courtship from a young man.
Including several years later, she met Aoji again.
At that time, both of them became single again after going around, and their old love rekindled.
This time, the short-term impulse caused the lives of the two people to undergo earth-shaking changes.
Darby got pregnant unexpectedly and gave birth to a child.
And she also knew that despite being bound by the child, Aoji was just the child's father, but she was not the love for the rest of her life.
Watch this drama, you will feel that as the heroine, Darby is always sending a message to the audience-
She is pursuing true love.
Although she has experienced several incomplete love, she has witnessed the gradual extinction of the flames of love several times.
But she never gave up on this matter.
On the long road of love, two people with completely inconsistent personalities will be brought together, and two like-minded and in love will be separated.
But even so, it does not mean treating life negatively.
There are gains and losses, you can only live out yourself if you know how to choose, not be afraid of failure, and be brave enough to try. The opening passage of
is very realistic.
"Every 36 seconds, a couple divorces. Married people usually consider it for two years before they really get divorced. If they remarry, it will take nearly three years to get married again. Although these data are not optimistic, a large number of couples still decide to get married, step by step towards the red carpet with hope, hoping to win the bet of love."
Past emotional experiences have allowed her to have experience and no longer repeat the same mistakes.
In a failed marriage, she learned how to actively face the fact that feelings have gradually disappeared.
is useless to delay and avoid it constantly, and it will collapse in the end. If you give up earlier, you will be happy earlier.
Let go if it should be.
After a relationship ends, many people think they can never find anyone else. But they will actually find it. Darby didn't know that her person was there. Maybe she already knew her, maybe she didn't know her yet, but they were there, looking for her.
Darby is just an ordinary girl who wants some warm love, so are we.
In Christopher's book " Intimate Relationship ", pointed out:
"Your intimate relationship partner is to help you know yourself more, heal your trauma, and ultimately find your true self. Therefore, intimate relationship is the bridge to our soul."
Christopher believes that a partner should not be regarded as the source of love and happiness. A partner is not used to satisfy expectations or make yourself happy. A partner is used to awaken your true self.
No one is perfect, no one can reach your ideal lover level. If you give the right to be loved to others, want to gain a sense of security from others, and place your hope on others, then you will never be able to gain a sense of love and security. You will spend your whole life in anxiety and anxiety.
You must realize that you are originally a complete individual, and everything you need exists in your heart. So true love and security can only be given by oneself.
After suffering countless pains, they will grow up.
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