At 2 a.m. on March 8, 1935, after attending a colleague's party, Ruan Lingyu returned home and poured three bottles of sleeping pills into the eight-treasure porridge prepared by her mother and swallowed it one by one.

At 2 a.m. on March 8, 1935, after attending a colleague's party, Ruan Lingyu , after attending the gathering of colleagues, he returned home and poured three bottles of sleeping pills into the eight-treasure porridge prepared by his mother, and swallowed them one by one.

html At nearly 12 noon on March 8, Ruan Lingyu was sent to the Chinese and Western Nursing Home by her boyfriend Tang Jishan for emergency treatment. Unfortunately, 10 hours have passed since she took the medicine, and even if Hua Tuo is alive, she is unable to make up for the situation.

In fact, given the medical conditions at that time in Shanghai, as long as you send the hospital to the hospital in time within 4 hours after taking the medicine, you can be rescued. But Ruan Lingyu was discovered by her family half an hour after taking the medicine. Why was she sent to the hospital 10 hours later? What is hidden behind this?

Ruan Lingyu is known as the queen of silent films in China. Her roles in "The Dream of the Old Capital", "Handle and Flowers of Wild Grass and Flowers ", "Handle Goddess ", and "New Women" are all milestones in the history of Chinese films. In that silent era, she relied on expressions and body language to vividly interpret each character.

Ruan Lingyu and her ex-boyfriend Zhang Damin When she broke up, the money she had in Zhang Damin's account alone was 200,000 yuan. Lu Xun bought a yard in Shanghai for only 3,000 yuan, and her value was imaginable.

But it is such a rich, beautiful and capable woman who was frantically exploited by her ex-boy Zhang Damin. She was obviously alive, but she was forced to get married in a mourning hall. She was cheated on her friend by her boyfriend Tang Jishan and treated her as a plaything, and finally got to the dead end step by step.

Why did Ruan Lingyu meet scumbags repeatedly? What is the secret behind her suicide? Let us travel through the tunnel of time and walk into Ruan Lingyu's sigh-won tragic life.

1, lost his father at the age of 6, and met the "lovely" young master at the age of 16. Her mother planted the "cause" of tragedy in her heart‍

910, Ruan Lingyu was born in an ordinary working family. At the age of 6, her father died of illness. Her mother He Aying had to take her to a large family surnamed Zhang in Shanghai as a servant.

With the help of Mr. Zhang, Ruan Lingyu entered Hai Chongde Girls' Middle School. Although she has excellent grades and is quite accomplished in dance performances, her mother would remind her every time, "Don't let people know that you are the daughter of a servant, they will look down on you."

The classmates still knew Ruan Lingyu's life experience. During a stage play performance, the classmates laughed at her as the daughter of a servant and were not worthy of playing the noble protagonist at all.

After returning home, Ruan Lingyu cried to her mother about her experience at school, and He Aying could only sigh: "This is your life!"

An unfortunate childhood has to be cured for a lifetime. His father died early, and his life under someone else's roof made Ruan Lingyu feel extremely insecure. The outside world's contempt for her identity made her deeply in inferiority, but the biggest influence was her mother's attitude.

He Aying constantly instilled in her the idea that being a servant daughter is shameful, which made Ruan Lingyu unable to identify with herself from the bottom of her heart. This is also the most important reason why she was led by men again and again.

If the mother's education planted the "cause" of the tragedy for Ruan Lingyu, Zhang Damin's arrival was the beginning of this tragedy.

Zhang Damin is the fourth young master of the Zhang family. He was originally in an unknown university outside. He accidentally saw Ruan Lingyu when he went home and was so moved that he couldn't sleep at night. At the age of 16, she already has a graceful look, especially her eyes, which are breathtaking.

Zhang Damin actively showed goodwill to He Aying and also inquired about Ruan Lingyu's preferences and whereabouts. Immediately afterwards, he came to the park where Ruan Lingyu often went and created a romantic encounter. He also revealed that he admired the dancer Duncan . Ruan Lingyu felt more and more that the two were in love because his idol was Duncan.

Then, the two often walked and chatted together, and soon the incident reached Zhang Damin's mother's ears. Of course, Zhang's mother would not allow her son to have a relationship with the servant's daughter.

Faced with her mother's obstruction, Zhang Damin's rebellious mentality became stronger and insisted on being with Ruan Lingyu.

Not long after, Zhang's mother drove Ruan Lingyu and his daughter out of the Zhang family on the grounds of "theft". Zhang Damin also said, "Even if he cut off contact with his family, he will still be with Ruan Lingyu." Then he ran away from home.

Zhang Damin used private money to rent a house for Ruan Lingyu and her daughter, and came to the door every few days to show her kindness. Ruan Lingyu was only 16 years old at this time, and she was also confused about the relationship between men and women and did not express her opinion.

But He Aying felt that if he missed Zhang Damin, his daughter would probably find a better home. So, under the persuasion of his mother and the coaxing of Zhang Damin, Ruan Lingyu dropped out of school and lived with Zhang Damin.

When they first lived together, Ruan Lingyu, who had received a new education, still felt that it was inappropriate, but her mother said firmly: "Can there be a better way out? Such a good family can't even ask for incense." In the early stage of living together, Zhang Damin took his private money and took Ruan Lingyu to dance together, feeling the bright lights and wine of Shanghai together. They used the shortest time to burn passion and romance. As Zhang Damin's private money became less and less, the contradiction gradually emerged.

Ruan Lingyu and Zhang Damin in film and television dramas

First of all, the two have very different family backgrounds and it is difficult to integrate into each other's lives. Zhang Damin no longer pretends to be a literary youth. He likes to go to the horse farm to vent, go to the dance floor to get drunk, and go to the casino to squander, but Ruan Lingyu only likes to read books quietly.

What is more obvious is the economic contradiction. Although Ruan Lingyu and her mother are very frugal, Zhang Damin's expenses are very high. After spending all the money in private, she had to go home and ask her mother for it. On that day, he went home to ask for subsidies, but was ridiculed by his mother.

Zhang Damin was very depressed. When he returned to his residence, Ruan Lingyu happened to ask him for living expenses.

Zhang Damin suddenly broke out: "Money, are you debt collectors? I don't have money either." After that, he left.

This is the first time the two of them quarreled head-on. Ruan Lingyu was angry and cried, but she was simply thinking that Zhang Damin was just worried about the economy, and as long as the situation was good, everything would return to its original state.

But not only did Zhang Damin not work and earn money, he wanted to change the status quo through gambling, but as a result, all the few money lost. After that, Zhang Damin began to stay away from home all day.

The two have huge differences in their identities and personalities, and such a combination was a mistake at the beginning. Although the times have changed and there is no class difference between master and servant now, this relationship still has many reference significance for young girls.

One: Whether it is in love or getting married, it is not advisable to be too early‍

More than a year later, Ruan Lingyu regretted and sighed: "At that time, I was too young. After I met for a while, I couldn't stand his deception, so the two of them lived together."

6-year-old Ruan Lingyu didn't understand what a man and woman's relationship was. All decisions depend on the attitude of her mother.

No matter whether you are in love or getting married, you should not be too early, because at that time, you did not have the ability to think independently, and your world outlook and values ​​were not formed, and you were likely to make a wrong choice.

Second: Don’t make any decisions during the passionate love period‍

The handsome and rich young master falls in love with the humble girl, and the two have endless common topics to talk about. Ruan Lingyu is naturally moved by such a man. But she didn't know that these were all Zhang Damin's "disguise". Zhang Damin showed his true face after living together for less than a few months.

During the passionate love period, everyone will intentionally or unintentionally "disguise" and try to show their own advantages and even virtual advantages to the other party. Therefore, people in the passionate love period must not rush to make decisions, and they must be slower to get married and live together.

2. Ruan Lingyu tried to regain her relationship, but was ruthlessly exploited by Zhang Damin‍

After thinking about it, Ruan Lingyu felt that the reason why Zhang Damin changed a lot was because she had no money and because the two had not yet got married, so she made two decisions.

One is to find a job.Zhang Damin’s eldest brother Zhang Huichong is one of the partners of the United Company. Seeing that his younger brother was so miserable, he introduced Ruan Lingyu to a celebrity company. Only then was Ruan Lingyu able to star in the movie "The Nominal Couple".

Ruan Lingyu and actor Jin Yan

Then, she starred in some movies. Although she has always been lukewarm, her salary can support the family.

2. It is a proposal to Zhang Damin to get married and have children, but Zhang Damin is unwilling to do so. Ruan Lingyu didn't give up and adopted a daughter on her back, trying to influence Zhang Damin with the warmth of her family.

Although Ruan Lingyu tried every means to save her relationship, Zhang Damin was still immersed in the casino. In the middle of the night that day, Zhang Damin finally went home. After a few simple greetings, he asked Ruan Lingyu for money.

Ruan Lingyu tried hard to persuade: "Can you stop betting?"

One sentence made Zhang Damin angry: "Do you think it would be awesome to make a movie? I don't even want my family for you. Now it depends on your face?" Ruan Lingyu felt guilty and still gave him money.

The next year, Ruan Lingyu participated in the movie "Meilinyuan" and was refrigerated for offending the director.

At this time, Zhang's father passed away. In order to obtain a huge inheritance, Zhang Damin took Ruan Lingyu to his father's mourning hall. He held a kowtow ceremony and became a marriage. Because at that time there was a regulation that you could not get an inheritance without getting married.

What’s more excessive is that he began to separate from Ruan Lingyu after he got the inheritance. He rented a yard to raise horses, was addicted to gambling and dancing every day, and soon squandered all his inheritance and owed huge debts.

At the end of his life, Zhang Damin found Ruan Lingyu again. He changed his tough attitude in the past and even cried and recognized his mistake. Ruan Lingyu was soft-hearted and not only gave him money, but also proposed to get back together. But not long after, Zhang Damin owed another few hundred yuan in gambling debts.

Career setbacks, and her boyfriend repeatedly squeezed him. Ruan Lingyu, who was fragile inside, took sleeping pills one night. Fortunately, Zhang Damin discovered it in time and was sent to the hospital, which saved her life. Waking up in the hospital, Ruan Lingyu looked at her mother and daughter and decided to become strong. After she was discharged from the hospital, she switched to Lianhua Company. In 1930, Ruan Lingyu finally waited for the right time, place and people. The "Spring Dream of the Ancient Capital" and "Wild Grass and Flowers" starring her were extremely popular, and Ruan Lingyu became the most popular actress in one fell swoop.

As his fame grows, Ruan Lingyu's pay has also soared, approaching the first-tier price. Zhang Damin often seeks money in different ways. If Ruan Lingyu doesn't give it to him, he threatens: "You are so famous now, aren't you afraid that I will mess with you?"

At this time, the news of Hu Die and her husband being sued was a hot topic. Zhang Damin said proudly:

"Hu Die's scandal has become a joke in the whole of Shanghai. If you tell me about your living with me at the age of 16, and then tell the story in detail to those tabloid reporters, how much do you think you can sell?"

Ruan Lingyu was so angry that she trembled all over, but she could only compromise because she knew that she didn't have the courage to face the dilemma like Hu Die.

She dragged Luo Mingxin, the chairman of Lianhua Company, found a job for Zhang Damin, with a salary of 120 yuan, three times that of ordinary people. Later, she dragged her fellow villager Fan Qiwu to find a fatal flaw for Zhang Damin in Fujian. In this way, Ruan Lingyu briefly got rid of Zhang Damin's entanglement.

Zhang Damin's scum is unquestionable, but the failure of a relationship is bound to be a two-way choice. Ruan Lingyu's various actions just indulge Zhang Damin.

First: There is a problem with the relationship, and you cannot passively escape ‍

After living together for several months, Ruan Lingyu found that the two were not suitable, but she was unwilling to face the problem, trying to avoid the problem by improving the financial situation, getting married and having children, and finally even escape by committing suicide.

This is very similar to our current state in marriage.After getting married, we found that the relationship between the two has changed. Everyone would advise ourselves to have a child, but after the child is born, we face more problems. At this time, we would say that it would be better if the child is older.

In fact, those problems of passive escape will explode exponentially one day. When encountering problems, the easiest way is to solve the problem.

Second: Beware of "emotional blackmail" in intimate relationships‍

In close relationships such as lovers, couples, many people habitually want to control each other, and the most commonly used form is "emotional blackmail". One party will make the other party surrender to himself by threatening, pretending to be pitiful, and playing the victim.

Zhang Damin knew that Ruan Lingyu valued fame the most, so he threatened it with it. He blamed Ruan Lingyu for being in a dilemma, making her feel guilty and eventually obeyed her orders.

If an intimate relationship always makes you feel uncomfortable, or you gradually lose yourself, you should be wary of whether the other party is "emotional blackmail" on you.

3. Meet the married wealthy businessman Tang Jishan, and once again treats the man as a life-saving straw, but falls into a darker abyss‍

Ruan Lingyu finally got rid of Zhang Damin, thinking that she could finally live a few days of comfortable life. But in the second year, in 1931, when the Japanese army attacked Shanghai, Ruan Lingyu had to take her daughter to Hong Kong. Afterwards, Zhang Damin also went to Hong Kong to join her.

In Hong Kong, Zhang Damin was addicted to gambling again, and Ruan Lingyu was very lonely inside. At a dance party, she met the wealthy businessman Tang Jishan. This elegant middle-aged rich businessman has not only got married, but has also fallen in love with many actresses.

Tang Jishan

On this day, Tang Jishan took his lover Zhang Zhiyun to attend the dance, but was attracted by the cold temperament Ruan Lingyu. He ignored his lover's side and actually showed great attentiveness to Ruan Lingyu. Ruan Lingyu, who has been injured once, will naturally not be moved easily. But Tang Jishan is a veteran in love, and Ruan Lingyu is like a sure-win prey for him.

Not long after, Ruan Lingyu was worried about her mother and returned to Shanghai alone. Tang Jishan knew that this was a once-in-a-lifetime opportunity, so she quickly abandoned Zhang Zhiyun and returned to Shanghai.

Tang Jishan is a shareholder of Lianhua Company. During Ruan Lingyu's filming, he often took advantage of his position to visit, and he would send a bouquet of flowers every time, and would also write "Don't be too tired" on the card.

Not only that, Tang Jishan often talks about her business philosophy in front of Ruan Lingyu, like a pride in the business world, which adds a bit of favor to Ruan Lingyu, who has been exploited by Zhang Damin for a long time.

Then, the two often went to and from the dance hall together. After the tabloid reporter discovered their movements, he added to the jealousy that the two were dating. Ruan Lingyu was very upset when she saw the newspaper, but Tang Jishan hugged her: "Why don't we really be together?" Soon, Tang Jishan bought a three-story villa for Ruan Lingyu, and the two of them lived together.

On the other hand, after Zhang Damin returned to Shanghai from Hong Kong, he found that Ruan Lingyu had already been thrown into Tang Jishan's arms. The man was rich and powerful. He dared not offend him, but he refused to give up. He shamelessly asked Ruan Lingyu for breakup fees.

Finally, under the witness of the lawyer, Ruan Lingyu and Zhang Damin signed a breakup agreement. Ruan Lingyu paid Zhang Damin 100 yuan a month for two years. The two voluntarily ended their cohabitation relationship. From then on, men and women had nothing to do with marriage.

Ruan Lingyu and Tang Jishan were also very sweet at the beginning. It was the happiest day in Ruan Lingyu's life. Her most famous movies "Goddess" and "New Women" were both filmed at that time.

But how could a man who obviously already has a family and is dating multiple female celebrities outside love Ruan Lingyu only?

Soon, Tang Jishan started to stay away at night. Smelling the strong smell of powder on her boyfriend, Ruan Lingyu became suspicious.That night, she secretly followed her boyfriend out. Tang Jishan hugged her left and right after entering the dance hall. The one who was closest to him was her friend and neighbor Liang Saizhen.

Ruan Lingyu returned home in a daze, but when Tang Jishan came back drunk, she didn't even have the courage to ask him why, and only advised him not to come back too late in the future.

But Tang Jishan became even worse. Although he came back late, he asked Ruan Lingyu to go home on time. If it was too late, he would lock her out of the door.

During the filming of "Xiangxue Sea", due to the tight construction period, Ruan Lingyu sometimes could not go home in the middle of the night. At 12 o'clock that night, when she knocked on the door, no one answered for a long time.

Mother He Aying was about to open the door, but Tang Jishan stopped him: "If you dare to open the door, go out with her."

Ruan Lingyu knew that it must be Tang Jishan who would not let her go in. She cried and begged: "Please, let me come in, I have no place to go." It was winter at that time, and she was trembling with cold, but Tang Jishan didn't let her in until the early morning.

Not only that, in life, once Ruan Lingyu is a little unhappy with her, Tang Jishan will fight and even attack in front of outsiders.

Li Minwei once wrote in his diary: "That night, I was inviting guests to dinner at Xinghualou . Tang Jishan somehow beat Ruan Lingyu in public."

Tian Han also sighed: "I don't understand why Ruan Lingyu married such a person like Ximen Qing!"

If he was blinded by feelings at the beginning, why did he endure it again and again after facing his boyfriend's cheating and domestic violence?

On the one hand, when he was a child, Ruan Lingyu was the daughter of a servant who had been cursed by the eyes. When she grew up, she was despicable and exploited by Zhang Damin. With the mature and steady Tang Jishan, she gained an unprecedented sense of security and love. Even though he knew that the other party was a married man, Ruan Lingyu still refused.

On the other hand, the reason why Ruan Lingyu is willing to accept Tang Jishan is because she thinks that Tang Jishan, who is rich and powerful, can help her completely get rid of Zhang Damin.

In addition, Ruan Lingyu was too concerned about face and cared too much about other people's eyes. At that time, everyone knew that they were lovers. Ruan Lingyu felt that if she really had a fall, it would only damage her reputation.

The most important thing is that Ruan Lingyu is still too naive in love. She knows that Tang Jishan is a scumbag, but she always hopes that she is the most special woman, and hopes that she can influence him and make him a good man.

But in fact, a man's attitude towards women and feelings is mostly a reflection of his character. A person who has no sense of responsibility for marriage and wife must be selfish, and no one can truly influence him.

3. Two boyfriends sued him one after another. Ruan Lingyu committed suicide due to pressure. ‍

It was raining all night. Here, Ruan Lingyu and Tang Jishan had many conflicts. On the other side, when Zhang Damin saw Ruan Lingyu becoming more and more popular, he actually proposed to increase the monthly living expenses of 100 yuan to 150 yuan and pay for life.

Ruan Lingyu was unsure of her idea, so she went to Tang Jishan to discuss it. Unexpectedly, the other party said coldly: "Whatever you do, I won't pay a penny anyway." Ruan Lingyu's heart was like falling into an ice cave. But before she could recover, she received a letter from Zhang Damin's lawyer: she sued Ruan Lingyu for privately engraving Zhang's seal and stealing property to Tang Jishan .

Ruan Lingyu originally wanted to settle the matter, but Tang Jishan was instantly angry when she learned that she was involved in the lawsuit. On the one hand, he asked Ruan Lingyu to enter the newspaper to declare that the two had no economic relations, and on the other hand, he also sued Zhang Damin first for fabricating facts.

Of course, Tang Jishan's series of operations were not to help Ruan Lingyu, but to maintain his reputation, but unfortunately he lost the case.

After tasting the sweetness of a lawsuit, Zhang Damin accused Ruan Lingyu of adultery with Tang Jishan on the grounds that his marriage relationship with Ruan Lingyu, or the cohabitation relationship has not been terminated.

Now, Ruan Lingyu was even more panicked because the lawyer who had formulated a breakup agreement for the two had committed a crime and his lawyer's license was revoked, so the breakup agreement lost its legal effect.

In addition, Ruan Lingyu starred in a movie called "New Women" at that time. The film criticized newspapers and magazines for their malicious behavior of disregarding facts and maliciously fabricating news. This made many unscrupulous media people hate Ruan Lingyu. Zhang Damin sued twice, which was the instigation of reporters, and even reporters spent a lot of money to hire a good lawyer for Zhang Damin.

Before the trial began, various newspapers began to fabricate Ruan Lingyu's various erotic articles. For a time, Ruan Lingyu was labeled as "relying on men to take office" and "indiscretion in private life".

Ruan Lingyu has always cherished her reputation. The two lawsuits left her face to face the public and the media, and her emotions were very unstable. But Tang Jishan, the person next to her, not only did not comfort her, but became the last straw that broke the camel's back.

Before the trial, Lianhua Company held a colleague's party. Everyone thought Ruan Lingyu would not attend, but she brought Tang Jishan to the party happily. That night, she pulled Tang Jishan to dance wildly. After that, she hugged and said goodbye to every colleague, which would not have happened before.

But Tang Jishan didn't care about his girlfriend's abnormality. On the way home, he repeatedly told Ruan Lingyu to consider the arguments in court.

Ruan Lingyu said lightly, "I'm tired." Tang Jishan instantly became angry. You must know that Ruan Lingyu never rejected him before. He angrily scolded, "He harmed others and yourself."

Ruan Lingyu did not respond. After returning home, she went upstairs with a cold face. Tang Jishan grabbed her and grabbed her. , yelled and said, "Where did you get your temper?"

Ruan Lingyu replied coldly, "I have always had a temper. Don't worry, I will definitely protect your face in court, and I will bear all the mistakes by myself."

Tang Jishan's face turned green and she raised her hand to prepare to hit. Not only did Ruan Lingyu not hide, but instead leaned over: "You hit me, just beat me to death, or if I go out, you lock the door again?"

"Bang". Tang Jishan slapped Ruan Lingyu a few steps back. Ruan Lingyu didn't cry, looked at her boyfriend with a smile, and then went upstairs.

This was 12 o'clock in the middle of the night on March 8, 1935. Two hours later, Ruan Lingyu wrote her suicide note and swallowed 3 bottles of sleeping pills with the porridge. Half an hour later, the mother found out that Ruan Lingyu had taken sleeping pills and immediately called Tang Jishan.

There are two best hospitals in Shanghai near Ruan Lingyu's residence, Guangren Hospital and Noer Hospital. But Tang Jishan did not send her girlfriend to these two hospitals, but instead drove for two or three hours to a Japanese hospital.

Unfortunately, there was no doctor on duty in this hospital at night. Ruan Lingyu's condition was already very critical at this time, but Tang Jishan still sent her to a private hospital. The doctor saw that the patient was in a critical condition and did not dare to take the patient.

In desperation, Tang Jishan called Li Minwei, the boss of the joint company. Under Li Minwei's insistence, Ruan Lingyu was finally sent to the Chinese and Western Nursing Home for emergency treatment. But it was almost noon and the doctor was unable to turn things around. At 6 pm, the first generation of actress Ruan Lingyu died.

After Ruan Lingyu's medical experience was exposed, Tang Jishan claimed that she wanted to protect Ruan Lingyu's face and seek medical treatment far away. He also forged two suicide notes, placing all the blame for Ruan Lingyu's suicide on Zhang Damin, and newspapers and magazines that maliciously smeared Ruan Lingyu at that time.

Half a month later, Liang Saizhen said that her previous suicide note was forged by Tang Jishan, and published the real suicide note written by Ruan Lingyu to Tang Jishan in a local newspaper in Fujian: "Without you love Liang Saizhen, without you hit me last night, and hit me again tonight, I would not have come this far."

If Zhang Damin's shameless exploitation and malicious slander of newspapers and magazines are the fuses of Ruan Lingyu's suicide, then Tang Jishan's cheating, domestic violence and indifference are the last straw that broke the camel's back.

at the end:‍

Ruan Lingyu's life is more exciting than most people. She has enviable beauty and unique acting talent. She enjoys the most luxurious life and is regarded as an idol by countless people. Even after her death, 12 bigwigs in the film industry carried her coffin and saw her off 300,000 movie fans off.

But these legends of Ruan Lingyu are completely based on the achievements of light and shadow, and they all go with the flow. She herself has no courage to go against the wind. In other words, she lived too weak and too passive.

When she encounters difficulties in her life, she always habitually relies on external forces to change her destiny. Zhang Damin was chosen to change the fate of the servant's daughter, and Tang Jishan was chosen to get rid of Zhang Damin's entanglement.

can rely on external forces to change destiny, just like a big gamble. In this bet, Ruan Lingyu bet on youth, feelings and even life, but in the end she lost.

The most reliable thing to really change your destiny is to seek inward. If Ruan Lingyu had not dropped out of school, she might have been able to find a stable job after graduation, and everything would be a different ending.

Ruan Lingyu has been inferior and lacks love since she was a child, which has led to her sensitivity and fragility in adulthood and lacks a sense of security. Such people will fly into the flames as long as they see a little light.

Ruan Lingyu once said to a friend: "I can't stand the love that others are good to me. If someone treats me well, I will really love him like crazy!"

So, even though she knew that the love given by Zhang Damin and Tang Jishan was as hot as charcoal fire, she still had to hold it tightly in her hand. Because it is better to be hotter than hunger and cold, when she was burned to the point of being exhausted, she had no strength to let go.

The two men in Ruan Lingyu's life are indeed not good men. One treats her as a money tree and the other treats her as a plaything, but even if she does not meet Zhang Damin and Tang Jishan, her life will be difficult to be happy.

Because in that era, Ruan Lingyu, who had been instilled with feudal ideas by her mother for a long time, could not truly be spiritually independent, nor had strong self-identity ability. Her joys, anger, sorrows and happiness are all determined by the men around her. No matter how perfect a man she meets, it will end up with a tragedy.

So, what made Ruan Lingyu meet scumbags frequently and finally got into a dead end was the times, the education of her mother, and even more so.

Finally, I would like to remind all women to always be sober, maintain independence, and increase their sense of self-identity. At any time, they must have the courage to stop losses in time and the confidence to turn and leave.