" Human World " author Liang Xiaosheng uses flesh and blood characters to create heroic feelings, and at the same time uses the torrential torrents of the times to wash out one by one. The most real thing is the sentence: gathering and separation and separation are finally sometimes, and mist and rain have never left people.
"If years will eventually be forgotten, remember you and me, love you and me, and it is worth it in the world."
The men and women in the book, Some people are cold, some are affectionate, some are generous, and some are unfaithful. Among these various men and women, the one that impressed me the most was the Guan Ling who did not appear in the TV series. But she has a hobby that is not accepted by the world and lingers among all kinds of men, including those with families and families. But she never let herself get into any trouble. Any relationship started in bed, and finally in bed, like a scene. But it is such a woman who makes the wandering sons in the book miss each other, including our ideal Cai Xiaoguang in the world. Why is this?
01 How can a woman who understands people’s hearts not be loved by others?
After Zhou Rong married Cai Xiaoguang, she ran abroad to find her daughter, and left Cai Xiaoguang alone in China for twelve years. But Cai Xiaoguang is a man after all, with normal development and normal physiological structure, and his androgens are particularly strong. He also needs what other men need, and even he is even more hungry. But my wife is not around, so what should I do? I can only look for it outside, and Guan Ling is just one of them.
But after all, he is a married man, and he is a kind of man of kindness. When faced with such things, he will feel guilty and feel sorry for Zhou Rong who has loved her for many years. But our understanding Guan Ling not only met Cai Xiaoguang's physiological needs, but also gave Cai Xiaoguang psychological care and comfort. Facing Cai Xiaoguang's self-blame, she said to Cai Xiaoguang:
"Do you want my sister Rong? She deserves it. Who told her not to come back for twelve years as soon as she goes abroad? What do people who know you two situations say? Whether it is men or women, it's too difficult for you. It's been twelve years, and it's too worthy of that person. Sister Rong! Even we women think you are too difficult, so what kind of guilt do you have? Let me tell you this way, we women form a jury for the moral court. As long as there are less than twenty women who have had sex with you in these twelve years, we will all acquit you and be sentenced to Sister Rong as a result of his own consequences. "
How can you not be moved when facing such a woman who is obviously doing something wrong but makes you feel as if you should do this for granted? If a man can find comfort in a woman, isn’t it just right to keep thinking about it?
02 Don’t have to be responsible, it’s the most responsible
We know that many men’s affairs are just on a whim. When you ask him to make a choice, they always choose the one at home. As for why, it’s very simple. Generally speaking, men without a certain status or money do not have the ability to cheat, which means that the higher the status, the more likely they are to cheat, but they have their own measurements about affairs. That is, once you will affect his status, or the price you have to pay is greater than his ability to accept, you will be kicked away without hesitation. This is the most realistic affair.
So what? In such a relationship, the person who wants to be promoted is often the abandoned one, and there is no ruthlessness, because you can't keep a man with your lower body, but money is OK and status is OK.
is precisely because of this, the benefits of shutting down the bell are revealed. This woman never pursues the upper hand. She pursues only fun and excitement from beginning to end. She never thought of destroying other people's families or wanting other people's things. Of course, if you want to give it to him, she will not refuse. She has handed over at least seven or eight men, but she has never caused any storm, and even no news has come out.
As Cai Xiaoguang commented:
People have no other ideas except for needing a feeling of comfort. This is something other women cannot do, and most women want to completely possess a man who is beneficial to them. Guan Ling is very independent and has no such intention at all. People want me very purely, it's just that kind of thing. So, she is a woman I want to be grateful for.
Yes, from beginning to end, Guan Ling pursues nothing more than that kind of thing. In a word, it is nothing more than what the ancients said: food, sex and nature.
Even to the end, Guan Ling was tired of playing and wanted to get married and found a foreign man to go abroad. There were still a lot of men rushing to see her off. A 50-year-old woman could still be so sought after, which shows how good the man she was dating this woman left in her heart.
is not just a man, but even her rival Zhou Rong was deeply impressed by her and even offered to attend the wedding of Guan Ling. Zhou Rong's high evaluation of this woman is seen from the words she said:
"After having so many men, more than half of them must be family, and no storm has happened! Moreover, when they married another woman, they all came to see each other off, and they were reluctant to leave. Some of them had red eyes when they broke up with her, and they all had feelings but no hatred. They were deeply in love and loyalty."
so knows how to make women who are so conscious of each other and are regarded as the harbor of their hearts by every man. Even women who can even make their rivals feel sympathy.
03 A honest woman, what is the most important thing about
? Of course, you are honest. If you are sincere to me, how can I be heartless to you? Of course, you can't guarantee that you meet bad people. But there may not be so many good people in the world, but there are not so many bad people. It is always good to be honest to others.
Guan Ling never taboos his past in his interactions with Cai Xiaoguang. Even after talking about a few relationships, he was bluntly speaking about his divorce because of his cheating. In a relationship, such frankness is often the easiest to attract people. Just as in our daily interactions, between men and women, the most annoying thing is nothing more than the suspicion between boyfriend and girlfriend or husband and wife. What is the cause of suspicion? It is nothing more than concealment from the past. Although this concealment is not necessarily due to some bad intentions, are there still few people in this world who have done bad things with kind intentions?
Guan Ling described her divorce with her ex-husband as calm and even felt complacent because she had not given birth to a child. She admitted that she had sex with seven or eight men, but emphasized that she was clean. She said:
"I am a doctor and attach importance to physical hygiene. I will never let unclean men dirty my precious body."
She just yearns for freedom, physical freedom and spiritual freedom. She wants it. The reason why she doesn't want to marry someone is that she can't control her nature of playing, and she doesn't want to wear shackles and guilt because of marriage, that's not fun. Cai Xiaoguang once moved and asked Guan Ling if she was not worthy of being his husband, but Guan Ling used such a sentence to make Cai Xiaoguang speechless. She said:
"No, everyone who knows you says you are so good and so good. I also think you are a good man. If we become husband and wife, I have to restrain my concerns and dare not cheat when I want to cheat, that is not too wronged myself? And once you are cuckolded, wouldn't you be too sorry for a husband with a good reputation?"
She never hides her thoughts and says whatever she thinks in her heart. As for what outsiders think, she never cares. She even said bluntly that when she is tired of playing, she has to find a husband and live a peaceful life.
How can you not be moved and never forget such a woman who can always treat each other honestly?
Conclusion:
Like Guan Ling, a bold, unique, and particularly gentle and considerate woman who failed to appear on the screen, which made me feel very sorry. It may be because she was too maverick and too difficult to accept that this character could only be vividly displayed on paper but could not appear in public. After all, China is a society that advocates monogamy, and such a woman is not accepted by public order and good customs.
But if a woman can be as considerate as Guan Ling, and knows how to advance and retreat, she will definitely be able to hold the man firmly.
This is an open society, but there are people like Guan Ling, or people like Cai Xiaoguang who cheated on four people for 12 years, but at least I don’t think it is right, but this is human nature. Human nature is not all about glory, but there is also a dark side. As for how to stick to it, it depends on the individual. The judgment of right or wrong is only on the individual.
I like a sentence from Teacher Yang Jiang very much:
Don’t touch a married woman, she is the face of a man;
Don’t touch a married man, he is the rest of his life for a woman.
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Author: Traveling to the East China Sea and the West Mountains
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