When it comes to Wang Xinling, everyone is probably familiar with it. Because of her pure appearance and sweet sound quality, she has sung countless popular songs and played the heroine in various Mary Sue dramas, and was named "Sweetheart Leader".
Although Wang Xinling's career became popular, his love life has been unsuccessful. When she was 17 years old, she met her ex-boyfriend Fan Zhiwei . Fan was very fickle and cheated and domestic violence during her relationship. Wang Xinling couldn't bear it anymore and finally broke up. However, after the breakup, Fan uploaded the intimate photo of the two on the Internet and also revealed to the media that Wang Xinling is not a virgin.
Ex-boyfriend Yao Yuanhao When living together, Wang Xinling has no male responsibility, which has always been accused of being a mistress. She took her private photos without her consent, causing the photos to leak out. Wang Xinling asked Yao Yuanhao why she wanted to take them, and the other party said that she thought she was cute in sleeping, so she took the photos, but I don’t know why they leaked.
The two have been together for 4 years, and they broke up due to differences in personality, few separations, the man is not active enough in his career, and his mother's opposition. Two years after the breakup, the photo of Wang Xinling taking a nap was leaked on Facebook again. The photo showed that she was sleeping on the bed wearing white pink underwear, looking very charming. According to investigation, the accident was also caused by Yao Yuanhao. It was not his own hands and was also indirect. In the end, he did not come out to take responsibility.
Several popular online farces had a great impact on Wang Xinling's image, and she quickly disappeared from the list of first-line actresses. The two boyfriends were exactly the same. They fell from a pit again, of course, because Wang Xinling himself was also the reason. Netizens gave her a nickname called "Scumbaby Harvester".
See similar reports, all parents with daughters will inevitably feel a sense of crisis: a modern woman with a strong personality and a successful career is ruined by scumbags every minute, so how can ordinary girls escape?
In fact, in reality, there are many girls who frequently encounter scumbags, which lead to their love frustration and failure in marriage, and thus cannot extricate themselves from the quagmire of pain. These girls have encountered scumbags again and again, and it seems that she has the characteristics of attracting scumbags. The reason for investigation is actually related to the girl's original family.
Parents have the following practices, it is easy for their daughter to develop a "slack" physique and their marriage and life will be ruined.
does not care about her daughter, which leads to the child’s lack of love since childhood. On September 5, 1982, Wang Xinling was born in Hsinchu County, Taiwan Province. Her family is very poor. When she was five years old, she learned to feed her younger brother. It can be said that she was like a nanny. When she was in the fourth grade of elementary school, her parents divorced, and Wang Xinling lived with her mother.
Mother suffers from depression because she cannot bear the blow of divorce. She often loses control of her emotions and always beats and scolds Wang Xinling for no reason. Therefore, Wang Xinling has to ask for leave and take care of her mother at home. There was a time when my family was so poor that one bento was eaten by three people. Because they had been renting a house, Wang Xinling had made up his mind to make money to buy a house since he was a child, so that the whole family could have a safe haven.
A person who grew up in a family that lacks love, when he reaches the age of falling in love, he feels a little warmth from others and feels moved. Most scumbags don’t have the ability to send umbrellas in the rain, talk phone calls at night, and do a good job in their mouths. Wang Xinling and others also mistakenly regard this concern as love, which leads to the fact that no matter how the scumbags change their faces later, they always deceive themselves with these warmth, thinking that they all love her because they are not good enough.
Fathers disrespect their mother and often make remarks that belittle women
Girls’ gender establishment is largely related to their father’s words and deeds. Because the father is the first man his daughter has come into contact with, his evaluation of women will directly affect the child's view of himself.
The child grew up in a family where men are superior to women. His mother's status has always been very low. He works hard to take care of his children. He is often scolded for "not making a penny, and he can't even do this well" and "You are still a woman." Since childhood, children will naturally believe that women have a low status and serve men. She will implement this theory into her love or marriage. A humble girl will not easily win the other party’s respect, and will make the other party break the bottom line again and again, and her body and mind will be destroyed.
randomly judges and attacks adolescent daughters, causing low self-esteem
Adolescence is an important period for children to establish their values. At this time, girls will feel unconsciously ashamed of their physical development, and some girls will also be troubled by acne on their faces and gain weight. If parents evaluate their children at home, especially fathers, who always think that their daughter is fat and ugly, it will cause their daughter to have a lower self-evaluation and become a low self-esteem personality. When a girl like
always feels that I am not worthy and I am not good at it, so she especially pleases the other person. If the other party is raised step by step, it will become self-inflated, thus not cherishing it, which will lead to the girl’s marriage and love that is difficult to be successful.
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