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When watching "The Stars and Hans Brilliant", after Qu Lingjun's husband Liang Shang died in a bad life, how many people, like me, think that she and the prince will reunite their relationship?
I thought that after two people missed it once, they would cherish the opportunity, but unexpectedly, Qu Lingjun turned around and married Liangzhou Mu, adopted son of the Liang family.
This ending slapped the Crown Princess Sun in the face, as if her years of competition and persistence had caused a waste.
In fact, the Crown Princess has always been herself. Seeing that the Crown Princess was demoted and imprisoned in the end, she felt that she was sad and hateful.
Whether it is the prince or Qu Lingjun, they have left their past in place since they got married. Only Sun clutched himself and dragged himself into the abyss.
Kazuo Inamori once said: "The biggest prison in the world is the heart of a person. If you can't get out of your obsession, you will be a prisoner wherever you go."
Why is the princess so persistent in the past of the prince?
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01. Care is the root of pain
The prince will marry the princess because when Emperor Wen was in trouble, he met the Sun clan and the two families decided to be a child.
Later, Emperor Wen became famous in his battle and became the current emperor, and his son became the current crown prince.
The prince’s marriage is a major national event, but Emperor Wen does not want to break his trust, and the prince is generous and kind, and would rather give up the young Qu Lingjun than marry the daughter of Sun.
At that time, Ling Buyi felt that the forced melon was not sweet, so he ran to the emperor and queen to persuade him, and later ran to the crown princess to persuade him.
But no one took his words seriously, and the Crown Princess finally married into the royal family as she wished.
Before getting married, the Crown Princess knew that the prince's heart belonged to Qu Lingjun, but she still married because she couldn't bear to give up this wealth.
Since I married into the royal family and enjoyed the wealth of the sky, I have obtained a high-quality script for the second half of my life. If she lives her life in a peaceful and self-satisfied manner, she will be just around the corner.
It’s a pity that she has too much greed in her heart.
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After marriage, the prince secretly swore to let go of Qu Lingjun and spend the rest of his life with Sun, but the princess didn't think so.
She didn't know when she had secretly competed with the prince. The person in the prince's heart was once Qu Lingjun. They had so many beautiful pasts, but these things had nothing to do with her.
However, she knew all these things before getting married, but why did she not care about them before marriage and compete after marriage?
For Sun, who was born in a farmer, married into the royal family, she had dreamed of marrying into the royal family. At that time, she was looking forward to wealth and living a good life. Love was just a luxury for her.
So, she would not care about how many childhood sweethearts the prince has and how many white moonlight there is in his heart. It is above everything else to be able to marry into the royal family.
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Later, she married the prince and enjoyed the honor she deserved. After the material world was satisfied, the spiritual world began to become empty.
So, she began to compete with Qu Lingjun's position in the prince's heart, and began to give Qu Lingjun a personal belonging in the name of the prince, trying every means to make Qu Lingjun's life not good.
Because only by doing this can she have some place to vent her dissatisfaction with the prince and feel a little balanced in her heart.
However, marriage is a matter between two people. When she encountered a problem, she didn't know how to solve it, but instead vented her anger on others, and her starting point was wrong.
No matter how much she cares about Qu Lingjun’s position among the prince, she should communicate with the prince first and then find ways to change the situation, rather than relying on suspicion and venting in stupid ways.
Many conflicts between people are caused by suspicion. As long as you say it, the doubts in your heart will naturally be eliminated.
It’s a pity that Sun used the wrong method and went further and further on the wrong road.
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02. Jealousy is to stab oneself in the sword
Queen's birthday party, and Qu Lingjun followed his husband to the banquet.
At the banquet, the prince missed his old friend and glanced at Qu Lingjun for a long time, but the princess saw it in his eyes. He was so jealous that she was crazy, but she did not dare to lose her temper at the prince. After the banquet, she sent someone to send the prince's handkerchief to Qu Lingjun, and spread a lot of ambiguous words in front of Liang Shang.
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After returning home, Qu Lingjun was once again abused by Liang Shang.
Two days later, Liang Shang died in a bad life. Mrs. Liang wanted to take the opportunity to frame Qu Lingjun so that her youngest son Liang Xia could inherit the position of head of the family.
But both the prince and Ling Buyi felt that the case was strange, and only the princess was secretly happy.
Because she was jealous of the White Moonlight for so many years, something happened finally. How great would it be if we took this opportunity to get rid of Qu Lingjun and break the prince's thoughts.
After some investigation, the case results surfaced and finally gave Qu Lingjun a clear innocence, and also exposed many problems.
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The prince finally discovered the true face of the princess. The reason why Qu Lingjun was framed was because the princess gave her a gift behind her back, which made Liang Shang misunderstand Qu Lingjun and gave others the opportunity to take advantage of it.
Because of your own selfishness and jealousy, Qu Lingjun suffered more than ten years of domestic violence, and his life was worse than death.
Sun thought it was Qu Lingjun who destroyed it, but she didn't know that she was destroying herself with her own hands.
Jealousy is a knife, and the one who is inserted into it in the end is not someone else, but your own heart.
When a person's heart is occupied by jealousy, her desires and dissatisfaction will become the root of pain.
If she cannot escape from jealousy, she will be eaten by jealousy.
If you want to live a relaxed and comfortable life, you have to be as Kazuo Inamori said: "Life is really hard, you can only save yourself, let go of your obsessions, let go of yourself, if your heart is happy, the world is without suffering, if your heart is light, the world is bright everywhere."
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03. Finally,
After all the truth was found out, the princess was imprisoned in the North Palace, and
The prince was demoted to the King of East China Sea due to the queen's request.
The relationship between the prince and the princess came to an end in the quarrel and tear.
The Crown Princess longs for attention and love, but lost everything because of care and jealousy.
People who don’t know how to cherish and be content are destined to be unable to hold the good luck in their hands.
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But Qu Lingjun married Liangzhou Mu, with two children, and followed him out.
Life has returned to normal, as if nothing had happened.
Some people say that it is obviously an opportunity to renew your relationship, why did Qu Lingjun not choose the childhood sweetheart prince, but marry Liangzhou Mu, who is twenty years older than him.
But I think Qu Lingjun’s choice is sober.
Since you missed it, don’t worry about it anymore. Let the beauty of the past be left in the past, perhaps the best blessing to each other.
Life is a journey, love is just a small part of the journey, why stop for love?
When you walk out and see all the mountains, rivers and seas, and the vast world, you will find that the things you once stuck in are not worth mentioning.
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