"Wow, there are actually twenty dishes in China for treating people to a meal."
A young beauty with long hair exclaimed at her husband.
"We Vietnamese can only have four or five dishes at most."
It turns out that this is a Vietnamese beauty, and her husband is an authentic Chinese. This Vietnamese wife rejected the Vietnamese rich man but married a poor Chinese guy.
What is going on?
The young man came to meet beautiful women more and more, fell in love with many rivals
After graduating from high school, Zhao Xiang, a young man from Hunan, did not continue to study, but chose to work on the construction site.
Later, due to the high pressure of domestic work competition, Zhao Xiang decided to find another way and planned to work at a construction site abroad, so he went to Vietnam.
In April 2017, Zhao Xiang met the boss’s wife Liu Yuwei in a coffee shop in Vietnam.
is called a "coffee shop", but in fact it is just a simple shed, and a few tables and chairs are placed as a place to drink coffee.
Liu Yuwei is from Nha Trang, Vietnam. The two of them communicated through translation software at the beginning, and then they learned their own native language.
After the two met and got to know each other, Zhao Xiang visited Liu Yuwei's home for the first time, which shocked him. Unexpectedly, the owner of the coffee shop was so poor.
The place called "home" can only be considered as tiles covering the roof. There is no electric light at home. You can only use kerosene lamps at night. When you sleep, you just need to use a cool mat on the ground.
He learned that Liu Yuwei also came out to work very early. After earned 20 million Vietnamese Dong (equivalent to RMB 6,000), opened a coffee shop on the Sino-Vietnam border. Therefore, Zhao Xiang felt pity for Liu Yuwei.
The two young men and women gradually got together, but they had to face a very important problem - the rival of love.
Liu Yuwei was young and beautiful at the time and was also good at dressing up, so many local men came to drink coffee with the purpose of pursuing them.
Faced with the courtship of many men, Liu Yuwei always greeted her with a smile. When Zhao Xiang asked why she didn't refuse directly, Liu Yuwei sighed and explained the reason.
"I also know that those people have bad intentions, but in order to make money, they can only endure it and fool it."
Zhao Xiang felt even more distressed Liu Yuwei after hearing this, and said that when he encountered such a thing in the future, he would come forward. But he forgot that he was just a foreigner who was unfamiliar with the place.
Once, a man secretly gave a gift to Liu Yuwei, but Zhao Xiang found out and quickly declared his sovereignty.
But unexpectedly, a few days later, the man found a group of younger brothers to settle the score with Zhao Xiang. Zhao Xiang was helpless, but Liu Yuwei cursed the man by verbally.
This kind of thing has happened more than once, and Liu Yuwei will come forward for Zhao Xiang every time.
In addition to men who like to provoke trouble, there are also some rich people who surround Liu Yuwei. There was once a man who used a house and a car as a temptation to express that he would give Liu Yuwei huge wealth every month, asking Liu Yuwei to go back to , Ho Chi Minh City with him.
Zhao Xiang knew that Liu Yuwei's family was poor, and he could not give her such a good life as her beloved woman. If Liu Yuwei chose to be with a rich man, he would never blame her.
Unexpectedly, Liu Yuwei expressed her unwavering sincerity to him: "I have rejected that rich man. Being rich is different from whether he is good to himself."
Zhao Xiang did not expect that even if he was not Monkey King , he would meet his Zixia Fairy . So after that, I used the nickname " Zixia " to call Liu Yuwei.
The two continued their sweet and happy life, but unexpectedly, they encountered the next difficulty: both were unemployed.
Even if you don’t have money, you have to be together. After suffering disaster, you will get married.
Since Zhao Xiang and Liu Yuwei were together, those men who are greedy for their girlfriend’s beauty have gradually stopped coming to the door. The business of the coffee shop has also been greatly reduced, and the door is deserted.
In the end, in order not to suffer too much loss, Zhao Xiang suggested that his girlfriend close the store. He was also very uncomfortable when he looked at his girlfriend's lonely eyes.
But Zhao Xiang couldn't take care of himself. His colleague learned that he had a beautiful girlfriend and thought he was not doing his job properly, so he reported it to his headquarters far away in China.
Headquarters evaluated from a comprehensive perspective and believed that Zhao Xiang was worried that he was lingering in Vietnam for too long and that the job allocation would not be easy at that time, so he decided to quit him.
Zhao Xiang, who had no work, had no reason to stay in Vietnam and was forced to return to China. After that, the two started a foreign relationship.
After returning to China, Zhao Xiang's parents were very angry when they heard that he had found a Vietnamese girlfriend and wanted to go to Vietnam to find her again. They even secretly took away his passport and visa.
Zhao Xiang knew that his parents were afraid that they would be fascinated by love, but when he thought of Liu Yuwei who was unemployed, he felt mixed feelings and was worried that she would be bullied.
Under Zhao Xiang's constant persuasion, his parents finally understood the importance of Liu Yuwei to him, so they agreed to Zhao Xiang go to Vietnam again.
After returning to Vietnam, the young couple finally met again and cried with joy. But what they have to face with it is the question of the source of their lives.
Unexpectedly, the saying "Damage is the basis of good fortune, and good fortune is the basis of bad fortune" was fulfilled again to Zhao Xiang.
The scene where Zhao Xiang was deported to the country and Liu Yuwei shed tears at the airport was photographed by netizens and earned a wave of traffic online.
Zhao Xiang saw this business opportunity and started a live broadcast online with Liu Yuwei. Although his income was meager, at least he had a source of income, and the two finally breathed a sigh of relief.
In early 2018, Liu Yuwei was diagnosed with pregnancy in the hospital. After Zhao Xiang learned about it, he hoped to take Liu Yuwei back to China to get the marriage certificate .
Their living conditions were not good at that time, and they didn't even hold a wedding. They just had to invite Liu Yuwei's family to have a meal.
During the meal, Zhao Xiang was afraid that his father-in-law and mother-in-law would not agree with their marriage, but he did not expect that his mother-in-law said to Zhao Xiang: "Zhao Xiang, Yuwei is very bitter, you must take good care of her!"
The man doesn't cry easily, but Zhao Xiang was crying at this moment. He was very grateful for his wife's family's tolerance. Knowing that he was good to his wife was the best result.
So, before the child was born, Zhao Xiang had been running around in China and Vietnam, and it was very hard. In the same year, Zhao Ziyin, the crystallization of their love, was born, giving their parents a touch of sweetness in their hard-working lives.
However, after the child is born, the expenses will be even more. Zhao Xiang finally took a breath and had to keep working hard to make money. With his children, he wanted a family of three to live in China.
In December 2019, after a year of hard work, Liu Yuwei finally got a visa to China. The two came to China happily and got a one-year-old marriage certificate in China.
The couple who were immersed in happiness did not expect that they almost made a big mistake because of a mistake.
almost broke the law due to a mistake and finally got a visa
2021, Liu Yuwei, who has lived in China for two years, has already become fluent in Chinese, , and Zhao Xiang's self-media platform has also made a lot of money. The couple is in their hometown in Hunan. Life finally settled down.
However, one day in August, Zhao Xiang suddenly received a call informing Zhao Xiang and his wife: "Liu Yuwei's visa has expired."
Zhao Xiang was very surprised. He remembered that Mingming's wife's visa was still one year away? I quickly opened my passport and found that it had expired for 20 days!
This made the couple panic and hurried to the police station. In China, it is not that easy to get a green card, and you must first obtain a series of visas.
Take Liu Yuwei as an example only. The first visa is 30 days, the second visa is six months, and the third visa is one year, which is the time when she expires.
According to normal procedures, the fourth visa is five years. After five years, Liu Yuwei will have the opportunity to apply for a green card and be able to work in a formal work unit and enjoy medical insurance.
However, because of this mistake, Liu Yuwei almost lost the opportunity to have a fourth visa. Fortunately, they made timely remedies and paid a fine so that they would not be able to break the law.
This through this incident, the couple also realized that they should be cautious when doing anything and should not forget some important information.
In September 2021, seeing the visa in hand, the couple breathed a sigh of relief and felt relieved. The visa expiration date this time is 2023, and they can finally do other things without distractions.
Life is much happier after marriage, and material conditions are getting better
Liu Yuwei has told Zhao Xiang more than once: China is a good place where you can make money by working hard, and This is also where she likes China.
So, Zhao Xiang encouraged his wife to start her own business, such as purchasing Vietnamese specialties on behalf of others. With Zhao Xiang's help, Liu Yuwei began to wholesale goods from her hometown to sell them in China, and sometimes she would work as a car model to make money part-time.
In order to make your wife more integrated into China, Zhao Xiang often gives his wife science to her traditional Chinese culture.
Once, Zhao Xiang's cousin's son celebrated his birthday, and the couple went to the banquet. The hotel was ancient and ancient. As soon as Liu Yuwei entered, she opened her mouth wide and asked, "Husband, is this a tourist attraction?!"
Zhao Xiang Liu Yuwei couldn't believe it: "You all have the places where you film Chinese costume movies are here, right?"
Seeing his wife in the hotel, she couldn't help but take one left and one right shot in the hotel, Zhao Xiang felt that She is very cute and deeply understands her wife's love for traditional Chinese ancient style .
After attending the table, the wife showed a surprised expression again. He asked his wife what was wrong, and his wife said: "There are 20 dishes for a meal in China?"
Zhao Xiang was used to it and didn't care. Liu Yuwei explained to Zhao Xiang the habits in their hometown: the maximum number of treats to a table is only four or five dishes, and one dish is served only after one dish is finished.
This confused Zhao Xiang very much and felt that it did not conform to the traditional thinking of Chinese people treating guests. He also told Liu Yuwei that this kind of banquet expressed respect for the guests.
After hearing Zhao Xiang's explanation, Liu Yuwei sighed: "It's great for Chinese people to treat you!"
Looking at his wife's innocent face, Zhao Xiang sighed: His wife went to China, but he never did anything for his wife.
As material conditions improve, Zhao Xiang also decided to make up for some of the regrets of that year.
So on October 20, 2021, it is Women's Day in Vietnam. Zhao Xiang specially bought a bouquet of flowers for Liu Yuwei on this day and also made the Chinese food she likes to eat for Liu Yuwei.
During this period, Zhao Xiang confessed all the letters he wrote carefully, making Liu Yuwei cry on the spot.
In 2022, due to the epidemic, Liu Yuwei was unable to receive the supply from her hometown, so the small business completely died.
In order to be able to further start a business, Zhao Xiang and Liu Yuwei made a bold decision: return to the countryside.
the two decided to do a project in the countryside to help local elderly people start businesses. They hope to help the elderly connect with the outside world through their young people's sensitivity to the information age, so that their efforts and labor can be known to more people.
This project is still developing, but Zhao Xiang and Liu Yuwei are not afraid of difficulties. They have faced many difficulties and survived them one by one. This time is also a brand new challenge.
The interaction and union of the multinational couple Zhao Xiang and Liu Yuwei has refreshed the stereotype of many people about Sino-Vietnam marriage . In this couple, there are few frictions caused by cultural collisions.
On the contrary, they strive to overcome different difficulties, allowing people to see the unforgettable and commendable love.
The most important thing is that Liu Yuwei always has the concept of loyalty to love, which is rare in modern people and also allows people to see the shining points of human nature.
Reference:
[1] Social account: Vietnam Zixia; Vietnam Zixia couple