In the past few days, everyone is recalling their own 2022. Most of them seem not to have gone smoothly, and most of them have had a very difficult time.
At least in the circle of friends I know, there are people who have done a lot of business, but still say that they have not made any money.
Some people say that they have looked for many jobs but still have no job.
Some people said that they thought they would not be yang-positive if they did not go out, but they still got yang-yang. On the tenth day, I was still lying in bed moaning.
Many people are crying about poverty, and many people are lamenting their lives.
Human nature is like this, we always want to live a better life than others.
In fact, those who live the worst life will not talk to others; those who live the best life will not attract anyone's attention.
So the good or bad you can see may not be real.
It’s just that some people love to express themselves, while others are not good at words. Whether
is good or not, for everyone, the measurement standards are different, and the feelings are also different.
For example, I got sick twice this year in 2022. It was my first time to be hospitalized in the hospital. Due to the epidemic, the hospital did not allow visitors.
At first I felt miserable. I am over 40 years old and this was the first time I was hospitalized alone without anyone visiting me.
It would be great if my parents were in Changsha. They would definitely stay by the bedside and think of ways to make delicious food with me every day.
But they are far away in Beijing and I don’t want them to know. Come to think of it, they are also in their seventies. Even in Changsha, aren't they still being tormented by me? It seems that it is better not to stay in Changsha.
I cried bitterly during those nights and felt like I was abandoned. My husband is so busy every day that the phone at work never stops ringing.
As a result, I saw the girl in the next bed. Not to mention someone to chat with, there was no one to deliver food. She had to go to work after the dialysis injection the next day.
After work in the evening, she rushed over and continued to be hospitalized for intravenous injection.
Sometimes, whether it is miserable or not, lucky or not, is just a comparison.
My husband always brings lunch and dinner dishes on time every day. Although he cannot take care of me all the time, he still comes to deliver this and that. There is a big cabinet full of things.
’s son also calls to greet her from time to time every day. Although it is not a big help, it is also a psychological comfort.
The most fortunate thing is that the enthusiastic patient Xiaolin in the next bed ordered breakfast from the hospital staff cafeteria for me.
Although non-immediate family members are not allowed to visit, I was so lucky that the patient in the next bed, Xiao Lin, turned out to be a senior nurse in this hospital.
not only enjoys the loving breakfast she ordered for me from the staff canteen every day, but also refuses to accept my WeChat red envelope, saying that the card issued by the hospital cannot be used up.
I can still recall the refreshing aroma of wontons and rice noodles, but it was completely different from takeout!
was able to arrange a phone call from Xiaolin and give priority to the hospital rehabilitation examination, which was even more VIP than VIP.
When I felt forgotten by the world, God suddenly sent an angel beside me.
Often when I was asleep, she would find that my sling bottle was out of medicine, and she would ring the bell for me to call the nurse to change the medicine.
Because she is a veteran employee of the hospital, her colleagues rushed to visit her, and naturally she received a large number of loving gifts.
As a matter of course, she shared my daily fruit snacks with me.
During those seven days of hospitalization, a girl in the left bed took a sling bottle and went to work every day, as strong as a female warrior. An angel in white on the right side of the bed took care of me as lovingly as a sister.
Originally I thought I was so unlucky. Not only was I sick and uncomfortable, but I couldn’t have anyone to accompany me, and no one was allowed to visit.
However, I discovered that in this world there is also an independent girl on my left who has the same disease as me but is a hundred thousand times stronger than me, and a kind-hearted patient Xiao Lin on my right who constantly brings me warmth and surprises.
So those seven days were not so much that I was in the hospital, but my mind felt like I was in paradise, which gave me great spiritual comfort.
In addition, Xiao Yingying suddenly ran in to visit me later. This guy has always been known as a strong woman, but he didn't care about the epidemic or not, and he actually carried his things directly to the inpatient department.
I don’t know how she got in, but I only know one thing, that is, if you really want to see someone, even if you are not allowed in, you can still find a way to get in!
Well, finally someone came to see me! Tears still rolled down unsatisfactorily.
are tears of sadness and happiness!
My parents and sister who are far away in Beijing will not be able to come for a while. I didn’t expect that sick people really want someone to care so much.
In fact, what is even more chilling is that there are so-called friends who knew that I was hospitalized, but they did not mention anything about coming to see me.
felt quite sad at the time, thinking that even a few polite words would be heart-warming. But they even skipped the politeness. Regardless of
, aren’t there many things and many people just exercising your little heart? There will only be more and more people like this in the future.
Everyone can make a profit when it is beneficial, and everyone can be safe when it is not beneficial. If you're really sad, it's really not worth it.
Another illness this year was the recent COVID-19 infection. Although I was prepared to welcome it, I was still overwhelmed and it was a bit ugly.
High feverSore throat, dizziness, cough and runny nose...all the symptoms came to crush my body.
There were really a few nights when I felt like my worldview was about to collapse!
Compared to those who are hospitalized, become pneumonia , and need to be put on a ventilator, I am much luckier, right?
Until now, I still feel that life is missing a little bit of flavor.
But fortunately, it is still getting stronger every day. When you have a good time, you will forget the pain. People always have to create a new life in good days.
Fortunately, I have a strong husband at home who is as strong as an ox. After the infection, he only had a cough and he could take good care of me.
But he never stopped working every day at home. He even worked overtime until two in the morning on two nights!
was so scared that I scolded him into bed. He was still not convinced and even cursed at me.
I really can’t think of anything more important than my own body. It really pissed me off!
Many people have the same feeling as a pony crossing a river. When they ask Grandpa Niu, he says it’s okay, but the river is still a long way short of water.
asked squirrel his brother, but he said, don't believe it, the river almost drowned him!
Now, I finally understand that I would rather trust Brother Squirrel than Grandpa Ox, because there are still only a few people with a body like an ox!
2022, it’s over after all! I am grateful to those who have illuminated me and given me warmth and help when I was most vulnerable!
is also grateful to those so-called friends who made me strong and brave when I was most looking forward to it.
People's feelings actually come from period to period. The grievances you suffered in this period will definitely be released in the next period.
If you feel good in this section, you may not be as lucky in the next section.
Seize the good feeling and cherish the people in front of you. There is no comparison, no harm, no contrast, and no happiness.
Hello! 2023! Good things come to good people!
