51 Lin Yanjun Tears reveal the shadow of single parenthood on New Year’s Eve FB asked parents: Why do we need a divorce!
151 Lin Yanjun has a lively and cute image on the screen, and behind the cheerful sunshine, there is an unknown dark side. On New Year's Eve, he suddenly burst out with negative energy. He broke down on Facebook and wrote about the difficulties faced by a single parent on the night of reunion. He asked his parents directly, "Why do people have to have children to bear the burden of divorce?" Unexpectedly, it resonated with everyone. It was rare for her to show her private vulnerable side, which made her fans feel distressed. They all sent their blessings and hoped that she would get better and better in the coming year.
▲151 Lin Yanjun has a lively and cute screen image and has many fans.
Lin Yanjun said through the post that her parents divorced in the sixth grade of elementary school, and the family was split in two. Since she was a child, she and her younger brother would run in both directions on New Year's Eve, because relatives on both sides regarded the day as a reunion event, and "robbing people" would be staged every year. She couldn't bear it. One year, she was so angry that she went to a classmate's house to celebrate the New Year, but the situation has not changed yet. 151 revealed: "Every year, my father's side has just begun and is about to end. I finally see him once a year, and I leave with a sense of guilt that I have to leave early. On the other hand, I keep urging, why is it so late, and I haven't gone home to celebrate the New Year."
▲ Lin Yanjun disclosed on Facebook that "New Year's Eve is very difficult for single parents," which unexpectedly resonated with many people.
Thinking of facing these things again on New Year's Eve, Lin Yanjun couldn't help but break down: "When I was a child, I didn't understand why adults had to bear the divorce, but children had to bear it. Why can't you be more mature? The cry of the sixth child is still made once a year! So don't do it again Ask me when will I get married?" After complaining, she returned to her usual cheerful mood. At the end of the article, she happily said that complaining was just complaining. In fact, she was very happy to be able to gather and chat with her family during the New Year. She finally wished everyone "can handle their elders well and have a good New Year!" which made many netizens laugh.
▲ Lin Yanjun said in reply to netizens’ messages that he was relieved.
Lin Yanjun also said afterwards that as he got older, his mentality also changed. He said, "Thank you, dad and mom, for letting me know that I am so popular." He admitted that he could not change the current situation, so he adjusted himself to accept the minor shortcomings of his elders. He said with a smile, "If one day they don't argue with me, I will feel sad, so I will accept their unreasonableness!" Gao EQ shared his experience and received a lot of praise.
