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01
Recalling the first time we met at a fellow villager dinner after the start of the college freshmen.
You asked my friend for dinner, she took me to attend, and you also brought your friend. Originally, you should have a good impression of my friend, but by chance, our fate quietly started because of this dinner.
But in the six months after the dinner, you and my friend did not meet each other, and we had no interaction.
It was not until a holiday half a year later. Because I was a fellow villager, I made an appointment to ride home together and got to know each other after a while.
Speaking of which, I really don’t remember how I had a good impression of you and "scam" you.
I just vaguely remember that I gave me a pink men's short-sleeved shirt on your birthday as a reward for your care for me at school.
I didn’t expect that my roommate was misunderstood by me that I was interested in you. So, under their instigation, you began to frequently send private messages to me on Weibo and made an appointment to watch movies together. Diy dinner around the school...
has contacted more, and they have more understanding of each other. Because of my fellow villagers, I gradually feel good about you.
My parents have been reminded by me since I was a child that I would find a local son-in-law and would not be allowed to marry outside. Now it's right.
So, choose to walk with you.
The half year before I met you was the darkest time in my entire college career. Because of the illness, I need to take medicine for a long time, and I cannot participate in strenuous exercise or military training.
It is not very pleasant to get along with my roommates. There is no friend who can accompany you in your heart. In addition, I lack a sense of security, I almost suffered from depression during my lonely days.
After going through those difficult days, I decisively chose to change majors. Only in this way can I stay away from such an environment and people and seek new life.
Although I endured the pain and stayed away from my favorite major, I still chose to leave because of my mental pain and torture.
I think, Ideal can also be reached in another way.
Fortunately, after I came to the new class, I met a group of friendly people. The days of studying and living with them healed my depression. The whole person began to become clear.
With friendship and care, I am no longer afraid of walking alone, eating alone, attending classes alone, and reading books alone in the library.
When you get out of the haze, good luck will always come one after another. That's when you reappeared in front of me.
02
In the new class, the roommates are very friendly and cheerful and lively. In such a warm environment, I have a happy life every day.
Meeting you at this time is probably the destiny of God.
In the six months we have been together, we have never quarreled and we are very happy to get along. This is an experience I have never had before when making friends.
and even in my heart at that time, I decided that you were the one I want to marry in this life.
Half a year later, I also started to make noises over some small things, which is a normal emotion between couples, otherwise it would be too unreal.
Just like my roommate complained at the time: "I feel that you are not like couples, he spoiled you too much."
Although I am happy, my body is still weak and I need to supplement a lot of nutrients and protein .
The big pot rice in the school cafeteria is not sufficiently nutritious. You often take me to a restaurant outside the school to drink crucian carp soup.
Every time I order food, the fish is delivered from the vegetable market. The stewed soup is fresh and delicious, and it is very nutritious. It was from that time that I liked eating fish.
In addition to eating and drinking, they often make appointments to travel to nearby cities. When they were poor when they were college students, they didn’t feel bitter at all. They saw everything very novel and were simple and happy.
Many people look back on the past and are very happy. Sometimes people live by memories. When life is not satisfactory, these memories play a supporting role.
Also read, study, test, work part-time, and grow together.
03
Happy time is always short, and you will face internship and graduation in a blink of an eye.
During the summer vacation, I went to Shanghai, and you also went wandering with me. I was unfamiliar with the place and had no source of income. I almost lived on the streets several times.
There were several times when I was about to part at night, and after you left, I secretly wiped my tears. As a result, you came back shortly after you walked far, and it was hard to part with you.
That period was indeed very difficult, and it was also the first hurdle for us to start toward society.
After graduation, you went to other cities and we started a long-distance relationship.
I still remember after graduation, I pulled my suitcase to the city where the company is located to report. I took the bus to the dormitory and got off according to the route prompted by the navigation. As a result, I walked for a long time.
After getting familiar with it, I realized that I could get off at the next stop and walk back a few steps.
But this section of the road has not been in vain. Navigation may be the same as life to some extent, and you have to move forward and not backward.
In that new environment, we both started to work and videos through our mobile phones. We gradually became busier and busier, and we had different hours of commuting and getting in touch.
My company is my peers who have just graduated or graduated for one or two years. Everyone has the same age and similar interests, and soon there are many new friends around me.
I don’t know where I was born from the opposite sex. Since I was in school, I was the object of being followed by boys.
I look very average, and I even feel inferior when I was adolescent because of my appearance. He has no emotional intelligence and no outstanding talent.
I think the only reason may be that I am more delicate in my mind, more emotional, and it is easy to enter people's hearts.
This is also something I can’t figure out. Boys should all like beautiful girls.
The separation of distance, the obstacles in communication, and the lack of companionship also made me start to hesitate about my feelings, and I can't face my heart directly.
I don’t even know if I still like you, nor do I know what I like.
There are many more choices around you. If you don’t have concentration, you will easily get lost.
Maybe you realized that something was wrong, resigned from a city in another place and returned to my city, and even joined my company.
In the following days, several pulls and tosses were carried out.
Even if the distance is closer, once there is a barrier in my heart, it will be difficult to return to the original appearance.
04
After several twists and turns, you entered a university in a new city and started academia.
You said that the close-range tug-of-war and efforts cannot touch me. I am waiting for me not far from me, so I calm down and think and make choices. The "suffering" before
made me on the verge of collapse several times, and the distance widened me and instantly began to calm down.
Many scenes of the past emerge one after another. I know that our past is too beautiful and the future cannot be separated.
Then, I also left my original company and changed to a new environment.
Work is unstable and economic income is unstable. After many twists and turns, it began to slowly stabilize.
When the summer vacation that year was about to end, you suddenly remembered that you wanted to buy a house. Just a week before school started, we settled the house.
At the end of that year, we moved into our new home.
Working or a different place. After running for a year, you simply quit your job and returned to a city.
It is said that poor couples are mourning, and their economic foundation is unstable, which will lead to many conflicts and quarrels in life.
Perhaps because of the high pressure of work assessment, coupled with the pressure of mortgage loans, it is so stressful that it is too much for us to breathe, which leads to the increasing conflicts between us.
We did not get separated because of this, and still chose to run a good career first and then get married.
Then, you went to another place to start a business.
We have known each other for too long, and we are too familiar with each other, and parents of both sides are also familiar with each other. What awaits us is just a ceremony.
Just like that, during the busy work break, I took a photo of my marriage on my birthday, and on National Day, I took a photo of my marriage.
chose wedding dress, dress, wedding company, and then got the marriage certificate and got married.
There is no marriage proposal ceremony, no diamond ring, and no groom's careful planning. It seems that I am the leader. These missing sense of rituals are hard to calm down.
is very busy at work, I can understand, but this may be the only time I get married in my life. The missing things are often impossible to make up for.
05
Before getting married, there were actually conflicts, and there was little contact and communication, but in the overall situation, these emotions were weakened.
It is still normal for half a year after marriage.
Starting this year, you seem to have become a different person.
no longer communicates with me, no longer communicates with my family, nor does it communicate with the people around me.
Starting a business is very difficult, and it has been particularly difficult for the past two years due to the overall environment. You often say that we don’t understand, so there is no need to explain too much.
All the sorrow and pressure are endured by one person, and they live in an isolated island.
06
From acquaintance, knowing each other, falling in love, falling in love to getting married, I just want to say to you:
Do you know?
I love you very much, and everyone around me loves you very much.
Maybe everyone’s expressions are different. The links and running-in between the two families will be somewhat frictional at the beginning of the period, which may make you feel disrespected, not valued, or unloved, but I know that no one wants to hurt you.
Life in another place makes us not feel involved in each other's lives, and we are not around each other when we need each other the most.
Distance is not necessarily negative for relationship maintenance, it mainly depends on how the two people operate and maintain it.
As the saying goes, a small separation is better than a newlywed. If both parties are willing to invest time and energy in the family, the family will never be separated.
You choose to set a deadline for yourself to work hard, and I am willing to support you. Let you devote yourself to work without any worries and focus on your work.
Time it will give the answer.
wish you success. I also wish our small family to survive this stormy stage.
Tao Lixia said in " Leave you to time ": "The farthest place has no bridge, the most beautiful scenery cannot be shared, and the deepest feelings are not waiting for response, because we set out, not for arrival."
This time, I will wait for you.
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Every time I order food, the fish is delivered from the vegetable market. The stewed soup is fresh and delicious, and it is very nutritious. It was from that time that I liked eating fish.
In addition to eating and drinking, they often make appointments to travel to nearby cities. When they were poor when they were college students, they didn’t feel bitter at all. They saw everything very novel and were simple and happy.
Many people look back on the past and are very happy. Sometimes people live by memories. When life is not satisfactory, these memories play a supporting role.
Also read, study, test, work part-time, and grow together.
03
Happy time is always short, and you will face internship and graduation in a blink of an eye.
During the summer vacation, I went to Shanghai, and you also went wandering with me. I was unfamiliar with the place and had no source of income. I almost lived on the streets several times.
There were several times when I was about to part at night, and after you left, I secretly wiped my tears. As a result, you came back shortly after you walked far, and it was hard to part with you.
That period was indeed very difficult, and it was also the first hurdle for us to start toward society.
After graduation, you went to other cities and we started a long-distance relationship.
I still remember after graduation, I pulled my suitcase to the city where the company is located to report. I took the bus to the dormitory and got off according to the route prompted by the navigation. As a result, I walked for a long time.
After getting familiar with it, I realized that I could get off at the next stop and walk back a few steps.
But this section of the road has not been in vain. Navigation may be the same as life to some extent, and you have to move forward and not backward.
In that new environment, we both started to work and videos through our mobile phones. We gradually became busier and busier, and we had different hours of commuting and getting in touch.
My company is my peers who have just graduated or graduated for one or two years. Everyone has the same age and similar interests, and soon there are many new friends around me.
I don’t know where I was born from the opposite sex. Since I was in school, I was the object of being followed by boys.
I look very average, and I even feel inferior when I was adolescent because of my appearance. He has no emotional intelligence and no outstanding talent.
I think the only reason may be that I am more delicate in my mind, more emotional, and it is easy to enter people's hearts.
This is also something I can’t figure out. Boys should all like beautiful girls.
The separation of distance, the obstacles in communication, and the lack of companionship also made me start to hesitate about my feelings, and I can't face my heart directly.
I don’t even know if I still like you, nor do I know what I like.
There are many more choices around you. If you don’t have concentration, you will easily get lost.
Maybe you realized that something was wrong, resigned from a city in another place and returned to my city, and even joined my company.
In the following days, several pulls and tosses were carried out.
Even if the distance is closer, once there is a barrier in my heart, it will be difficult to return to the original appearance.
04
After several twists and turns, you entered a university in a new city and started academia.
You said that the close-range tug-of-war and efforts cannot touch me. I am waiting for me not far from me, so I calm down and think and make choices. The "suffering" before
made me on the verge of collapse several times, and the distance widened me and instantly began to calm down.
Many scenes of the past emerge one after another. I know that our past is too beautiful and the future cannot be separated.
Then, I also left my original company and changed to a new environment.
Work is unstable and economic income is unstable. After many twists and turns, it began to slowly stabilize.
When the summer vacation that year was about to end, you suddenly remembered that you wanted to buy a house. Just a week before school started, we settled the house.
At the end of that year, we moved into our new home.
Working or a different place. After running for a year, you simply quit your job and returned to a city.
It is said that poor couples are mourning, and their economic foundation is unstable, which will lead to many conflicts and quarrels in life.
Perhaps because of the high pressure of work assessment, coupled with the pressure of mortgage loans, it is so stressful that it is too much for us to breathe, which leads to the increasing conflicts between us.
We did not get separated because of this, and still chose to run a good career first and then get married.
Then, you went to another place to start a business.
We have known each other for too long, and we are too familiar with each other, and parents of both sides are also familiar with each other. What awaits us is just a ceremony.
Just like that, during the busy work break, I took a photo of my marriage on my birthday, and on National Day, I took a photo of my marriage.
chose wedding dress, dress, wedding company, and then got the marriage certificate and got married.
There is no marriage proposal ceremony, no diamond ring, and no groom's careful planning. It seems that I am the leader. These missing sense of rituals are hard to calm down.
is very busy at work, I can understand, but this may be the only time I get married in my life. The missing things are often impossible to make up for.
05
Before getting married, there were actually conflicts, and there was little contact and communication, but in the overall situation, these emotions were weakened.
It is still normal for half a year after marriage.
Starting this year, you seem to have become a different person.
no longer communicates with me, no longer communicates with my family, nor does it communicate with the people around me.
Starting a business is very difficult, and it has been particularly difficult for the past two years due to the overall environment. You often say that we don’t understand, so there is no need to explain too much.
All the sorrow and pressure are endured by one person, and they live in an isolated island.
06
From acquaintance, knowing each other, falling in love, falling in love to getting married, I just want to say to you:
Do you know?
I love you very much, and everyone around me loves you very much.
Maybe everyone’s expressions are different. The links and running-in between the two families will be somewhat frictional at the beginning of the period, which may make you feel disrespected, not valued, or unloved, but I know that no one wants to hurt you.
Life in another place makes us not feel involved in each other's lives, and we are not around each other when we need each other the most.
Distance is not necessarily negative for relationship maintenance, it mainly depends on how the two people operate and maintain it.
As the saying goes, a small separation is better than a newlywed. If both parties are willing to invest time and energy in the family, the family will never be separated.
You choose to set a deadline for yourself to work hard, and I am willing to support you. Let you devote yourself to work without any worries and focus on your work.
Time it will give the answer.
wish you success. I also wish our small family to survive this stormy stage.
Tao Lixia said in " Leave you to time ": "The farthest place has no bridge, the most beautiful scenery cannot be shared, and the deepest feelings are not waiting for response, because we set out, not for arrival."
This time, I will wait for you.
Some pictures are from the Internet. If there is any infringement, please contact us to delete it.
If you are touched by a little bit, please give me a like and give some encouragement to those who are moving forward in loneliness, like you and me~ Like .
