University stipulates that professors are not allowed to have romantic relationships with students who they teach and supervise; in 2003, professors from the nine campuses of the University of California, jointly adopted a new policy to prohibit teacher-student relationships between professors and students who are interested in the field of professors’ work. Even if students do not choose the courses taught, even if both parties agree, the teacher-student relationship is prohibited...
But it can also be seen that some regulations still carefully define the relationship between rights and prohibitions, and must be limited to "one's own class", "one's own students", and "one's own interest in the field of teaching work". Princeton is one-size-fits-all, nothing can work.
To be honest, I didn’t quite understand such a policy a few years ago, but it might be to choose a “worst policy.” The subtlety of privacy and the inequality of gender power are too difficult to judge. It is a great moral dilemma for colleges and universities to intervene in the private sector and conduct investigations and evidence collection between beds. Let's do it in full swing.
"One size fits all" may lead to a situation of breaking up. In fact, there are many teachers and students who love each other. However, all this can only be achieved by means. After all, what people need to control is morality and sex, one is in the deepest part of the soul and the other is in the deepest part of the clothes.
Therefore, the "no legitimate relationship" in China's " red 7 " may be understood in a broad sense. For example, ambiguity and spiritual love are all improper, regardless of whether there is a physical relationship involved. Therefore, Professor Yang's behavior is naturally qualitative.
So the teacher can know more clearly that sexual relations are not the last protective cover. Students will also better know that when they receive some information, they should know what it means.
Judging from the online posts posted by the girl, she is really unfortunate. She was deceived by her teacher and suffered from severe PUA. She suffered a lot of mental and physical trauma and she deserves sympathy.
Judging from the content of the online post, Professor Yang's words and deeds are probably disgusting to many people. His naked sexual hunger, an open attitude towards sexual relations, has sex with married women, and materializes the female thinking patterns in his words, and is probably likely to encounter social death.
Professor Yang has problems with his teacher ethics and plays with female feelings. There is no doubt that it should be condemned and schools should deal with it seriously. But the author also noticed another problem. Is it appropriate for a female college student to fall in love with her father’s college teacher?
Undergraduate can go to Sun Yat-sen University proves that your IQ should be very high. Judging from the exposed chat records, Professor Yang obviously deliberately approached female college students. The professor's intentions should be obvious. If female college students can maintain proper distance, the situation may be different.
So now the question is, is it "careful" or "crawling". Professor Yang’s physical relationship with a girl occurred after the girl graduated, so how do he determine his behavior? What is the severity geometry? Is it common to use unequal power relations to play with and seduce girls? Judging from the current situation, in order to avoid this embarrassment, many places have chosen a very primitive method - one-size-fits-all approach.
For example, in 2019, Princeton University announced a complete ban on teacher-student love. "romance and sexual relationships" are allowed, both undergraduates, graduate students, and professors.
"one-size-fits-all" approach almost blocks the road of "teacher-student love", and even Professor Yang's operations cannot be avoided. It is not difficult to imagine how wide the scope of "romance" is. In other words, there is no need for physical relationships, as long as there is spark, it is a problem.
I am not saying that the victim is guilty, but reminding all female college students to pay attention to their identity, know how to respect themselves, learn all kinds of homework now, and keep an appropriate distance from university teachers. Faced with these ulterior motives, all female college students should be clear-headed and not dream of falling in love with their university teachers.
Especially in the face of these ambiguous chats from university teachers and the various valuable gifts provided, and having a meal with one person, all female college students have to resist temptation.Only by keeping yourself clean and knowing what you want can you prevent problems before they happen.
