Children's learning has always been the thing parents worry about the most, and even every parent hopes that their children can win at the starting line. Some parents even find various early education classes for their children to tutor their children and focus on their children's studies.
Parents think that children are also very important in in primary school. We must keep our children close and strictly require them to study, but some parents believe that education should be let go.
This will allow children to use their nature and amplify their imagination, thereby improving their thinking and logic abilities , which will also be helpful to their children's future growth.
So when the child is in elementary school, parents begin to face two educational methods: "Follow up" and "Let go" . Perhaps keeping a close eye on such an educational method can work at a certain stage, but it will also lead to children's unconscious learning. But after the child goes to junior high school, parents can't keep an eye on it. After all, children in junior high school are in a rebellious period.
Should we "focus on" or "let go" in primary school? There is a significant gap between children after junior high school
In primary school, children generally experience this phenomenon: is not much different in grades one and two, and the third and fourth grades are polarized, and the fifth and sixth grades are in the sky and the earth.
Some children may have average grades in the first and second grades. But in the fifth and sixth grades, their grades suddenly improved to the top in the class.
Therefore, some parents find it difficult to understand. They are so focused on their children's learning, why can't their children's learning improve? In fact, when your child is in elementary school, don’t keep an eye on his children’s studies.
can pay attention to the child’s learning status, but when it’s time to let go, you also need to learn to let go . Otherwise, the gap will become bigger and bigger when the child enters junior high school.
My friend’s child just entered the first grade of elementary school. She and her lover took turns to tutor the child in study. Whether it is homework, memorization or dictation, they have very strict requirements on children’s .
did achieve good results at the beginning, and children's learning has also improved. The grades are also among the best, but when the child enters the fifth and sixth grades, becomes undisciplined . Without parents watching, they will not be able to study, and their grades are gradually declining.
On the contrary, my sister's education for her children is very "Buddhist" . Although children at this stage will be more playful and will not complete their homework on time.
But my sister never asks about it and goes to and gets off work on time every day. If a child fails to complete his homework, he will let the child bear the consequences himself, which is a state of learning in free-range learning.
But although my sister is a way of letting go of her children, she has not relaxed in her studies. In order to help the child develop good study habits, she and her child formulated a study plan.
will not disturb your child when he is doing his homework and studying. Although the child's grades are average in the first and second grades, by the fifth and sixth grades, his grades have also improved , and parents don't have to worry too much about .
So in the education of children, parents should learn to use to loosen the outside and tighten the inside, so that it will be helpful for both children and parents.
So how should parents educate their children correctly about their learning?
In fact, for children in primary school, the most important thing is to cultivate their children's learning habits. Let children develop the habit of previewing before , reviewing after class, and summarizing wrong questions by themselves.
and parents should also be clear that learning is the matter of their children alone, and pay attention to to grasp the right measure . When supervising your child’s learning, you should know what you can intervene and what you need to do by your child.
If parents guide too much, the child will become dependent. If you encounter a problem again next time, the child will not think of solving it himself, but seeking help, which will make the child lose the ability to learn independently.
even improve the child's thinking logic , because when you are in junior high school, the child's thinking logic will see the gap. For example, the application questions in math problems are difficult to understand.
If a child with poor thinking logic is difficult to understand thoroughly, one question may require several turns. But if a child has good thinking and logic, it is easy to clarify the idea of and solve it easily.
Parents can guide their children to learn correctly, let their children know to be responsible for their grades, can experience the superiority brought by grades, and encourage their children more to increase their motivation to learn.
Summary:
Parents should adjust their children's learning and education based on the actual situation of children. If the child is introverted, encourage the child more and guide the child to study correctly.
let appropriately so that the child can find self-esteem. At the same time, you should be good at discovering that if the child is too relaxed in a certain aspect, you should also keep a close eye on it and stop loss in time by , and this depends on communication between parents and children.
What parents need to do is to let their children understand the importance of learning and cultivate their children's independent learning ability , instead of reminding their children to study every day, this will only make their children tired of learning.
Primary school is also a period of laying the foundation, and it can also lay the foundation for children's knowledge. As long as the method is correct, children will learn easily in the future and can also learn independently. This is the long-term solution for children to learn .
Today's topic: Do you think your child should keep a close eye or let go in the elementary school stage? Welcome to leave a message in the comment area to interact.
