"There is not enough money, you can find it in me, but you can tell me if you don't have enough company."
The person who said this was Qiu Xianfu, an 80-year-old man from Chengdu. His confidence lies in his possession of hundreds of millions of property.
However, this statement did not shake the wife's heart for divorce. His wife applied for divorce in court many times.
Finally, in 2022, the court sentenced the two to divorce and the couple to share 1 billion yuan of their property.
After Qiu Xianfu learned of the court's verdict, he felt extremely dissatisfied and was unwilling to divide the property with his wife.
but there was nothing we could do, and then Qiu Xianfu publicly stated that "the more he thinks about it, the more he becomes unfair."
Age difference is 23 years, and they have been together for 31 years
Qiu Xianfu and his wife Tian Li are not the same age as they were. They had an age difference of 23 before. The two entered the palace of marriage in 1988.
Although there is a certain age gap, , as the saying goes, "In love, distance is not a problem, age is not a gap." Qiu Xianfu did not care about the age gap between the two.
In order to marry his beloved wife, Qiu Xianfu did a lot of homework. Their wedding was held in the most upscale hotel in Chengdu - Jinjiang Hotel .
In the 1980s, people mostly invited their relatives and friends to have a meal at home. There were very few people like Qiu Xianfu who held weddings directly in hotels.
At that time, Qiu Xianfu invited hundreds of guests, and the wedding was extremely grand. From the wedding, it is enough to show Qiu Xianfu's love for his wife and his financial strength.
The two were also very loving after getting married, Qiu Xianfu took great care of his wife , who is 23 years younger than him.
In addition to taking good care of her in life, Qiu Xianfu was worried that his wife would be lonely at home alone, so he arranged a middle-level position for his wife in the company. Qiu Xianfu said: "Her abilities are very ordinary, and this middle-level position is a free job."
From outsiders, the relationship between the two is very good. When attending events and on business trips, most of them are inseparable.
Looking at the two people who were inseparable, the outside world began to look forward to the relationship between them. When Qiu Xianfu and Tian Li got married, the outside world was not optimistic about the relationship between them. thought that one was for money and the other was for sex, but when everyone saw their relationship, they reflected on their narrow thoughts.
Qiu Xianfu and Tian Li had a lovely daughter for a while. The life of the family of three was extremely happy and dull.
itself Qiu Xianfu believes that he can live with his wife until he grows old, , but what Qiu Xianfu did not expect was that on May 10, 2019, Tian Li went to the court to sue for divorce without warning.
appealed for divorce many times, but the suspicion was the original sin
Afterwards, Qiu Xianfu recalled: " There is no conflict with his wife, and he doesn't know why his wife sued the divorce in the court." After Tian Li sued the divorce, she did not tell Qiu Xianfu that Qiu Xianfu only after receiving the notice from the court that his wife wanted to divorce.
The reason why Qiu Xianfu couldn't know his wife's behavior in time was because the two of them slept in separate rooms in 2008.
This was originally a very normal situation, and many families will have this situation .
However, it was because of sleeping in separate rooms that Qiu Xianfu could not know his wife’s thoughts as soon as possible. Moreover, after the separation of the rooms, the communication between the two became less.
When Qiu Xianfu got older, he fell in love with collecting cultural relics. In addition to his daily work, Qiu Xianfu also often plays with various cultural relics.
As I got older, my energy was very limited. When Qiu Xianfu focused his energy on work and cultural relics, his attention to his wife was reduced.
"She never told me that I had less company to her. It was not until she sued the court for divorce that I reflected on my behavior, and I guess it might be because of this reason."
This is just Qiu Xianfu's guess. What exactly Tian Li thought and why she divorced Qiu Xianfu, Qiu Xianfu didn't know.
Just as Qiu Xianfu recalled her daily life with her wife and reflected on her behavior, Qiu Xianfu got a news that surprised him even more. As early as 2014, Tian Li had sued the court for divorce, but before the court summoned Qiu Xianfu, Tian Li revoked the lawsuit.
learned about this After the news, Qiu Xianfu was extremely sad, but Qiu Xianfu knew that sadness now cannot solve the problem, and the most urgent task was to keep his wife.
In order to keep his wife, Qiu Xianfu doubled Tian Li's living expenses.
Before Qiu Xianfu gave Tian Li 10,000 yuan a month to live. If it was not enough, he would ask him for it.
Although Qiu Xianfu is a boss worth hundreds of millions of yuan. , because of previous experience, Qiu Xianfu was very saving. She mostly rode a motorcycle to work every day.
When reflecting, Qiu Xianfu realized that every month Give his wife 10,000 yuan, and then give her 20,000 yuan every month.
However, Qiu Xianfu's reflection did not touch Tian Li, and Tian Li insisted on divorce.
The result of the first instance was soon released, and the court rejected Tian Li's divorce appeal.
Qiu Xianfu thought the matter had come to an end, but what Qiu Xianfu did not expect was that Tian Li continued to appeal. From this, it can be seen that Tian Li had already made up her mind to divorce , On September 26, 2019, the Chengdu Intermediate People's Court sued Tian Li The divorce case was made, Tian Li's appeal was rejected, and decided to uphold the first instance result .
This failure of the appeal did not dispel Tian Li's heart for divorce. On May 11, 2020, Tian Li went to court to file a lawsuit again. Of course, the court did not agree to Tian Li's appeal. The court did not agree to Tian Li's appeal. is because Qiu Xianfu is now 80 years old, and his health is also in trouble and needs someone to take care of him. As a wife, Tian Li cannot abandon Qiu Xianfu and leave at this time.
face wanting The divorced parents, Qiu Xianfu's daughter also advised her mother, but Tian Li's intention to leave was decided and she was determined to divorce, but her daughter had no choice.
. Qiu Xianfu's daughter was far away from abroad and could not take care of her father, so the court disagreed many times.
Although the court ruled that the two would not divorce, Qiu Xianfu was extremely confused when facing the wife who had left the decision.
He didn't know why his wife insisted on divorce, If he had any problems, he could make changes. The two were not yet broken.
Although Tian Li appealed for divorce many times, Tian Li did not mention the reason for her divorce. Faced with the divorce appeals that were rejected many times, Tian Li mentioned the reason why she insisted on divorce. is because Qiu Xianfu was too suspicious. He never believed in his wife.
career was booming and began to pursue love
Qiu Xianfu himself was a physical education teacher in an elementary school, but because the income of the primary school teacher was too low, Qiu Xianfu chose to resign and go to work in another place. For various reasons, Qiu Xianfu resigned Later, he did not improve his life, but was arrested and imprisoned. He was not released until 1983.
Due to his criminal record, many companies were unwilling to appoint Qiu Xianfu. At this time, Qiu Xianfu had nothing, and his wife left him.
In order to change his life, Qiu Xianfu chose to go into business. At the beginning, Qiu Xianfu only set up street stalls on the streets of Chengdu. At that time, many people were unwilling to set up street stalls, thinking that they were losing face.
But Qiu Xianfu did not have such concerns, Bi He was penniless. For him at that time, it was the kingly way to make money.
What many people did not expect was that Qiu Xianfu did bet correctly. In less than a year, Qiu Xianfu earned 100,000 yuan. This number was astronomical at that time.
With this 100,000 yuan, Qiu Xianfu opened his own business kingdom. With the help of the east wind of reform and opening up , Qiu Xianfu made a lot of money.
Soon Qiu Xianfu became a famous local rich man. In the face of others' compliments, Qiu Xianfu was extremely content. However, the loneliness after the noisy made Qiu Xianfu think about getting married.
1988 When Qiu Xianfu was inspecting the store, he met Tian Li. After seeing Tian Li, Qiu Xianfu was attracted by Tian Li.
At that time, Tian Li was only 25 years old, Qiu Xianfu was 48 years old, However, for Qiu Xianfu, who was successful in his career, the age difference of 23 years is not a problem, and the "kingdom" is his own preference.
Then Qiu Xianfu pursued Tian Li fiercely and often invited Tian Li to dinner alone under various excuses.
At first, Tian Li didn't know that Qiu Xianfu was interested in her, but as the number of meals increased, Tian Li knew what Qiu Xianfu thought about her. However, Tian Li did not reject Qiu Xianfu. She was also attracted by this successful and talkative boss .
Looking at Tian Li with acquiescent, Qiu Xianfu was very encouraged. Of course, Qiu Xianfu did not want to marry Tian Li at this time.
Although Tian Li was the one she pursued first, , Qiu Xianfu didn't know whether Tian Li liked her or her money. Qiu Xianfu, who was worried about being cheated, was in a stalemate with Tian Li.
The reason why Qiu Xianfu married Tian Li was because when Qiu Xianfu was injured, Tian Li took care of him meticulously, making him realize that Tian Li loved him, not money.
In order to take care of Qiu Xianfu, Tian Li ran to Qiu Xianfu's home every day to change the medicine for him, and then went to work after changing the medicine.
After this incident, the two entered the palace of marriage.
was eventually sentenced to divorce, and even the balance between hundreds of millions of property
After getting married, the relationship between the two was very good and there had never been any conflict.
However, facing the old couple and young wife combination, everyone was unable to control their own discussion. In addition, Qiu Xianfu has a successful career, Tian Li is only an employee of his subordinates. In the eyes of many people, the reason why Tian Li married Qiu Xianfu was to own his property.
At first, Qiu Xianfu didn't care about the outside world's remarks, nor did he explain . After all, no one would believe the explanation of such a thing.
I thought that if they ignored the comments from outside, these remarks would slowly disappear, but what they did not expect was that the remarks would not disappear, but instead became more and more intense.
The two have no children for a long time after getting married. During this period, they have thought of many ways, but they all ended up in .
Just when they were about to give up, after Tian Li became pregnant, Qiu Xianfu was very happy.
However, before he could wait for Qiu Xianfu to be happy for a long time, he was overwhelmed by the rumors outside.
At the beginning, people's rumors were only directed at Tian Li, believing that Tian Li's plot was ill-gotten, but after Tian Li became pregnant, rumors outside began to target their children, saying that Tian Li's child was not Qiu Xianfu.
At first, Qiu Xianfu ignored it, but the rumors outside did not stop, but became more serious. Even the so-called "adulterator" was spread. Qiu Xianfu's firm heart was shaken, and gradually he began to doubt this matter.
The seeds of doubt have taken root and sprouted in their hearts.
plus the later period Tian Li and Qiu Xianfu slept in separate rooms. At this time, Qiu Xianfu had doubts about whether Tian Li was loyal to her.
. Tian Li next to her had no idea that Qiu Xianfu had any suspicion of her. Looking at her growing daughter, Qiu Xianfu found that she had no similarities with her.
In order to confirm his thoughts, Qiu Xianfu decided to take his daughter to do paternity test .
Of course, this paternity test was hidden from my wife, and the results of the paternity test came out soon. The result proved that Qiu Xianfu was indeed the biological father of his daughter. After getting this result, Qiu Xianfu's heart was truly let go.
I thought this matter was over, but there was no airtight wall in the world . Tian Li accidentally learned that Qiu Xianfu took his daughter to do a paternity test.
After Tian Li learned about this, she felt extremely sad. She had been with Qiu Xianfu for so many years and dedicated her youth to him, but he doubted her loyalty to him.
Looking at the sad Tian Li, Qiu Xianfu regretted it and quickly apologized to Tian Li. After Qiu Xianfu's apology, the two reconciled, but this incident became a thorn in Tian Li's heart.
In fact, I often think of this. Just as the two of them were together, there was another problem between them.
At a meeting, because of conflict, Tian Li beat Qiu Xianfu's younger brother. After seeing his younger brother being beaten, Qiu Xianfu asked his wife to apologize to his younger brother.
Tian Li naturally didn't want to do so, and even thought that Qiu Xianfu did not regard himself as his family and did not protect himself at all.
Later, when Qiu Xianfu wanted to donate his deserved private collection to the country, Tian Li also disagreed, and the two quarreled over this matter.
Then Tian Li chose to divorce through legal means. At first, because Qiu Xianfu was older, the court did not agree to Tian Li's lawsuit. was not until January 28, 2022 that the two officially divorced. In addition to ruling the two to divorce, the Chengdu Intermediate People's Court also ruled that the two should divide the property equally.
Qiu Xianfu was extremely angry when he heard the result of the trial. When he met Tian Li, he said that the reason why he had the current glory was achieved by his struggle. When he met Tian Li, "She was just a salesperson, and she didn't pay a penny, how could she get 50% of her property?" "The more I think about it, the more I feel wronged. "
Faced with the court's judgment, Qiu Xianfu felt that he was wronged.
Although Qiu Xianfu personally feels that he is unfair, this is the result of the judge's judgment.
Qiu Xianfu can only accept that the elderly Qiu Xianfu not only lost his wife, but also lost half of his property. I feel that my grievance is indeed understandable.
However, Tian Li and Qiu Xianfu were able to go their separate ways, which had a lot to do with Qiu Xianfu. Qiu Xianfu did not believe in Tian Li, and suspected Tian Li many times, which hurt Tian Li's heart.
For couples, the most important thing between them is trust. The relationship between husband and wife itself is the closest relationship in the world. If neither of them believes in each other, who else can they believe? Couples should not suspicion between each other.
