Life is nothing more than laughing at others and being laughed at by others again.
Qiu Xianfu is a famous billionaire on Chunxi Street in Chengdu. He is an 80-year-old man.
Some people say that wealth is the most attractive tag for a man. As long as he has money, even if he is gray-haired and old, he can find a young and beautiful wife. Qiu Xianfu is no exception. His wife is 57 years old, 23 years younger than her.
Mr. Qiu, who has billions of wealth and a beautiful wife, is proud and envious of others, and his life has reached its peak. But what he didn't expect was that his wife had no intention of continuing to live with him since 2014. He even filed a divorce more than once, which made him miserable because he felt that he was so old and had half of the loess buried in it. He didn't want to divorce and make people laugh. The best destination is to be able to keep wealth and live the rest of your life with your beautiful wife.
can fall flowers and flow water without mercy.
After several years of tug-of-war in divorce, on January 28, 2022, the Chengdu Intermediate People's Court made a final judgment: verdicted that Qiu Xianfu and his wife Tian Li divorced. All the property was divided equally, and Tian Li got 500 million yuan in property.
He has been in the business world for decades. Qiu Xianfu, who has earned a billion yuan in property, suddenly fainted in the face of this divorce judgment. When he woke up, he cried:
It was embarrassing to divorce when he was over 80 years old, and he was even divided into 500 million. I am really unfair and embarrassing!
They were originally a legal couple. They have lived together for more than 30 years. Why did his wife insist on divorceing him? Why is she now sentenced to divorce and splitting the family property? Qiu Xianfu is so chaotic?
The billionaire divorce case, which has attracted much attention from the media and citizens, is still echoing with the final judgment of the Chengdu Intermediate People's Court.
Along with the reporter's interview, Qiu Xianfu's memories and narration, we learned about a grudge and entanglement that broke the world in the tortuous history of entrepreneurship.
Qiu Xianfu's recent photo
1. A man who is not confused forties made a big splash
Qiu Xianfu is from Chengdu and was born in 1942. He was admitted to a sports school since childhood and was assigned to a rural student as a physical education teacher after graduation.
Just when he was sweating his youth and was about to make a big contribution in the vast world of the countryside, he lost his freedom because he committed a crime.
When he was free, he was already a middle-aged man in his forties.
penniless, he walked out of the door and looked around in a daze, and no one came to pick him up. When he rushed home with confusion, he realized that his wife had left him.
He understands his wife's choice, who would accept a tainted man? Besides, there are no children between them and no bonds to maintain their feelings. Just walk away, wave your hand and not take away a cloud. From now on, the sky is separated by one side. You walk on your single-plank bridge, and I walk on my Yangguan Road.
He didn't have time to feel sad about spring and autumn, because he understood that the current priority is to make money and ensure his life, so that he has the right to pursue love.
Because of the case, it is extremely difficult for him to find a job.
Later he thought: Those who are barefoot are not afraid of wearing shoes. Anyway, he has nothing. It is better to borrow some money to do a small business. If you make a profit, you will have a chance to turn around and lose money. At worst, you can go to work as a coolie to pay off your debts in the future...
has no technical expertise and has not borrowed more capital, so he had to set up street stalls one by one for small businesses with the lowest threshold.
But unexpectedly, others can only maintain food and clothing while he can make a lot of money by setting up a street stall.
This also shows that he has a good judgment on the market situation and has a relatively good attitude towards people's psychological needs. This also laid a firm foundation for him to make more money in the future.
After he had some savings, he was no longer satisfied with being a small vendor who came and rain in the wind and rain, carrying dust.
It was the 1980s, and the spring breeze of reform blew across the country. Many courageous and courageous people have earned their first pot of gold in this mighty spring breeze.
It was under the blowing of the spring breeze that Qiu Xianfu " The spring breeze is so proud that the horse's hooves are fast, and you can see all the flowers in Chang'an in one day."
He is very visionary and aims at the opportunity and takes the lead in joining the large-scale comprehensive wholesale market of Chengdu Lotus Pond to operate clothing and shoes and hats. After making money again, he turned his attention to various businesses such as stone, aluminum alloy, and building decoration materials. Fortunately, God helps God protect him, and he makes money no matter what he does.
By 1988, the fifth year after he was released from prison, he had accumulated tens of millions of wealth and became a well-known rich man in Chengdu.
Facing his elegance, my relatives reminded him:
What's the use of you having so much money? You are still alone at the age of 46. Who will spend the money in the future? If you are unfilial, you will have three kinds of missed queens. Hurry up and find a wife to make a family and keep a queen!
One word awakens the dreamer!
In recent years, I have been spending money and making money, and I am full of my mind on how to make my wealth accumulate more and more. Now the money I earn is enough for him to spend the rest of his life, and I found that there is not even a person who knows the cold and the hot.
A burst of sadness came. He thought he could not go alone like this anymore. He had to find a companion to become a family and travel around the world together.
Du Chunxi Road
2. Marry a beautiful wife who is 23 years younger than him
A joke circulated in the market: The low-end man's set is a luxury car, a mansion and a beauty, and a high-end mansion is a young wife who is a child in vain...
Just like Su Dongpo
The poem that Zhang Xian :
18 bride Eighth Robe,
pale hair and red makeup.
Mandarin ducks are in the quilt, and
A tree of pear blossoms presses over the begonia.
A flower blooms everywhere, it is fragrant. Tian Li (pseudonym) is that flower.
By chance, Qiu Xianfu saw Tian Li who was a salesperson in one of his stores. He suddenly felt his heart beating faster, as if he had returned to his passionate youth.
After he inquired, he learned that Tian Li was a girl from Chengdu, she was only 23 years old and was quite active and serious in her work. So, he pursued the youthful and beautiful Tian Li.
Faced with the boss's passionate pursuit, Tian Li was mixed with joy and sorrow. She was happy that the boss had a net worth of tens of millions, and marrying him was equivalent to marrying into a lucky nest; she was worried that the boss was 23 years older than her. The two had different backgrounds and different cognitive experiences. Will they have a common language? Will their parents agree?
is contradictory but happy.
In the end, she accepted Qiu Xianfu's pursuit.
The relatives and friends on both sides are not very optimistic about this "old and young love". There were many discussions, undoubtedly saying that Tian Li would like him only because of this old man who is so rich. If she was a pauper, would she marry? Didn’t she come to make money?
When people say that she is a gold-worship girl who "will rather sit in BMW and laugh on the bicycle", Tian Li didn't give any explanation because she knew that she could only use her actual actions after marriage to block Youyou's mouth.
Someone advised Qiu Xianfu: You are almost 50, find someone in your 20s, don’t lose both your life and money at that time!
Facing the kind reminder, Qiu Xianfu's face darkened and shouted sternly: I am sure to do business, and I won't misunderstand even if I see people!
On March 14, 1988, 46-year-old Qiu Xianfu registered his marriage with 23-year-old Tian Li. They held a grand wedding in the highest-end hotel in Chengdu " Jinjiang Hotel ", with a lot of relatives and friends, delicious wine and delicious food, and the beauty is picturesque ⋯3
Qiu Xianfu and his wife
After marriage, the two lived a sweet life, the husband and wife followed each other, and soon gave birth to a daughter. They used practical actions to shatter rumors before marriage, allowing people to witness that old couples and young couples did not exchange money and sex with their own goals, but true love.
With a beautiful wife and beloved daughter, Qiu Xianfu is more motivated and his fortune is stronger.
In the late 1990s, Qiu Xianfu, who had a keen sense of smell like a primrose, founded Chengdu Rongbaoshan Industrial Development Co., Ltd. in 1994. I bought land on Chunxi Road, the most prosperous century-old street in Chengdu and built a building, the "Red Horse Building".
The building has a construction area of 14,000 square meters and a total of six floors can accommodate hundreds of merchants.
Everyone knows Shanghai Nanjing Road , Beijing Wangfujing , Shenzhen East Gate, Nanjing Xinjiekou , Guangzhou Shangxiajiu Bar, almost every metropolis has such a commercial district, with people hustle and crowds every day, becoming a place where many outside tourists compete to see the style.
So in Chengdu, Chunxi Road is such a prosperous street market.
Chunxi Road, also known as "Centenary Chunxi", was built by warlord Yang Sen in 1924.
The long-term viewer Qiu Xianfu did not sell this hot building, but rented it all out. He collected rents alone for millions every year, and tasted the sweetness. Later, he did the same thing and built an 8-storey Guanghua apartment on Huapaifang Street, which was half-market and half-residential, and was also used for rent in the department, and the annual rent was also millions.
Relying on the vigorous development of real estate, Qiu Xianfu became a billionaire and bought multiple properties in Chengdu.
The old saying goes that the country is easy to change and its nature is difficult to change.
Qiu Xianfu was born in an ordinary family and had never lived a good life since he was a child. He encountered disasters in his youth, so he cherished the hard-earned money today. Even if he became a famous billionaire, he would have a very low-regarded appointment.
Locals say: If one day you meet an old man riding a motorcycle to work on Chunxi Road, it may be that billionaire!
Qiu Xianfu did not pursue the standard configuration of the rich, one by one, one by one, one by one, but rode a motorcycle to work, which was surprising. The decorations at home are also extremely simple and have no sign of luxury at all.
If ordinary clothes, ordinary mounts, and ordinary residences cannot show his identity as a rich man, then his big hobby is enough to show his great strength.
In Jiezikou Town, a suburb of Chengdu, there is a low-key appearance and luxurious "People Museum", which was invested and built by Qiu Xianfu.
Qiu Xianfu in his museum
There are as many as 200,000 collections in various colors in the museum, including Qi Baishi , Zhang Daqian and other famous works. Just storing these collections has used dozens of rooms!
Since his success, Qiu Xianfu has been very obsessed with collecting. In order to get a piece of porcelain he likes or thinks is of collection value, he often goes through a lot of trouble and spares no effort to buy it.
A reporter once went to his house to collect and told him that there were piles of collections everywhere in the house, and there was almost nowhere to put them in.
Museum collection
The room he lives in is not big, the walls are unbearable, the air conditioner is broken and old, and even the beds he sleeps in are the most ordinary. The whole room is like a shed in a snail, but it is full of cold collections. In the eyes of ordinary people, these collections are like his simple home, revealing the simple atmosphere of the earth.
After decades of obsessed with collecting, he has become a well-known collector.
Qiu Xianfu is at his home
3. The former loving couple is in court today
Just as Qiu Xianfu continues to accumulate wealth while continuing to be obsessed with his "elegance and goodness", the fire broke out in the backyard!
On May 10, 2019, Tian Li went to the court to file a divorce without any warning, which shocked Qiu Xianfu as if he were Zhang Fei and were spiked and stared at him one by one!
Qiu Xianfu was puzzled: Since getting married, he has been very fond of Tian Li, and he almost always responds to his requests. He gave her 10,000 yuan in pocket money every month and sent her daughter to study in the United States. He did not spend money outside and showed mercy everywhere, so there was no need to divorce me, and he even went to court?
He began to think that his wife was having a small mood. There is a saying that women and babies’ faces are like June, and they can change as soon as they say they change.
In order to make his wife happy, he increased his monthly salary and living expenses to 20,000 yuan, but his wife still ignored him and did not let go of the lawsuit.
He was a little uneasy. It seems that his wife is serious? The complaint of is not a nightmare in the middle of the night, but a false alarm, but a wife really doesn’t want him, who is almost 80 years old!
Qiu Xianfu came from it and carefully sorted out every bit of what he had been with his wife over the years. This sorting was shocked!
It turned out that his wife had unilaterally filed a divorce to the court as early as 2014, five years ago, and later withdrew the lawsuit for some reason. He has been in the dark for many years.
Response notice
He vaguely remembered that since he was 66 years old, more than ten years ago, when his wife was 43 years old, they had already slept in separate beds. He hasn't felt anything over the years, thinking that his snoring affected his wife's sleep. Isn't it good to sleep and not separate your heart?
But he forgot about the folk saying, Couples will have beds today and room tomorrow.
There is another saying that Couples will die in marriage .
It turns out that all this is a sign to follow! His neglected wife was so cold that he must warm up in the future, so he decided to take action.
A friend reminded him at this time:
Since you don’t want to get divorced, you must win back your position in your wife’s heart. Tian Li has always had a low status in your company, that is, an ordinary middle-level member, and she doesn’t even have shares in the company, let alone decision-making power. You have the final say in the company’s big and small matters. You only give someone a salary of 10,000 yuan a month. Although something was wrong later, it rose to 20,000 yuan. This is a drop in the bucket for you, a rich man...
There is a classic line in the movie "The Godfather":
" People who can see through the essence of things in one second, and people who can’t see through the essence of things for half their lives are destined to have completely different destinies."
How smart is Qiu Xianfu? He soon realized that it was because he was too frugal in his daily life and that his wife had not been entrusted with his important tasks, so he decided to make up for the loss.
But Tian Li was unmoved. This time, he did not withdraw the lawsuit quietly like last time.
Qiu Xianfu said that he had to respond with a tough head and said to the judge that he would never divorce.
Sure enough, the first instance verdict of the Chengdu Jinniu District Court:
html ml0 will not divorce!The reason is that the relationship between the two has not completely broken down.
Who knew that when Qiu Xianfu was secretly relieved, Tian Li was dissatisfied and filed an appeal.
On September 26, 2019, Chengdu Intermediate People's Court made a judgment: rejected the appeal and upheld the original judgment.
The reason is: the two still have a emotional foundation, Qiu Xianfu is 78 years old, his physical health is in poor condition, and he needs someone to take care of him, and his daughter is not around and cannot fulfill his obligation of daily care. Tian Li, as his wife, has a legal obligation to take care of Qiu Xianfu.
Qiu Xianfu got his wish, and there was finally a little sunshine on his face that had been gloomy for many days.
But he never expected that this was positive. With Tian Li's appeal again, his days were rainy again.
On May 11, 2020, Tian Li once again filed a divorce lawsuit against Jinniu District Court .
On September 21, 2020, Qiu Xianfu's divorce case was held in the Jinniu District People's Court of Chengdu City.
As a result of this divorce lawsuit, many reporters were waiting outside the court Waiting to interview the party. A reporter outside the court heard that during the nearly two-hour trial, there were frequent heated debates in the court. After the trial ended, Ms. Tian and two colleagues hurried out of the court and refused the reporter's interview.
4. The coldness of three feet is not a day
This time, Qiu Xianfu and his wife went to court face to face. After listening to every accusation against him in his wife's indictment, they realized that the reasons for his wife's divorce may be the following.
_The first thing was caused by his suspicion.
Qiu Xianfugen Tian Li soon had a lovely daughter after getting married. She was over 50 years old and had a child, which made him feel that he was the happiest man in the world.
It was very fast, and some rumors shattered his happiness.
The core content of these rumors is:
ml2 Lao Qiu and his ex-wife have been married for seven or eight years but have not given birth to a man or a woman. Why did he have a child when he got married with Tian Li? And the child doesn't look very similar to him...
If he had chosen to despise these rumors and protect his wife, there might not be any trouble in the future.
But he also became suspicious and even secretly took his daughter to do paternity test without telling his wife.
Signing result made him dream The fire was called for help and false alarm. The daughter was his biological child!
The heart was finally put in his stomach. After that, he loved his wife and daughter very much, and the family lived a warm and happy life. But unexpectedly, Tian Li learned about this later, which made her feel huge resentment. Although he also explained and apologized, the fatal injury had already made the woman feel heartbroken and bruised.
Ms. Tian’s back when she left the court
／The second thing is that the two people have different business philosophy and values.
Qiu Xianfu believes that people leave their names and geese leave their voices. He earned so much money by society. After leaving, he must leave something for people. So he wants to donate his museum and collections free of charge so that more people can understand the profound culture of the motherland, but Tian Li does not support it, so the two have serious differences.
Qiu Xianfu
And another reason is improper handling of family relationships.
Qiu Xianfu has a younger brother who is Qiu Xianfu's right-hand man in business. Once Tian Li and Brother Qiu had an argument, and Tian Li, who was so angry, slapped her brother-in-law in the face.
This made Qiu Xianfu extremely angry: My brother is 19 years older than you, how can he hit him? Apologize quickly! But Tian Li refused, thinking that he was his own brother and did not support her.
After summing up the reason why his wife insisted on divorce, Qiu Xianfu asked his daughter, who was far away in the United States to mediate. But her daughter had mediated countless times but had no effect, so she completely lost confidence and let both her parents handle it themselves.
Qiu Xianfu was worried and told the reporter who came to interview him that he was unwilling to divorce his wife.
"I am 80 years old. I hope that in this life, at the end of the end, there will be a family, not alone."
This is the heartfelt words of an old man who longs for a complete and warm home and a caring wife!
However, Tian Li's repeated appeals made him feel discouraged and endlessly sad: he has lived together for more than 30 years, but because of these small things, he has become so ruthless and unkind...
On January 28, 2022, the Chengdu Intermediate People's Court made a final judgment, believing that Ms. Tian and Qiu Xianfu have been separated for many years and have had many conflicts due to life, company affairs, etc. Ms. Tian filed three divorce lawsuits, which is enough to prove that the relationship between the two parties has actually broken down, and it can also be seen from the trial that the relationship between the two parties has not been repaired, so the court ruled that the relationship between the two parties has been divorced.
The reporters waiting in court rushed to interview Qiu Xianfu, but Qiu Xianfu fainted when he opened the verdict. It clearly stated: verdicted the two to divorce and split the property equally.
This means that Qiu Xianfu, who has a net worth of 1 billion, will share the 500 million yuan property to his wife.
He told reporters: It was embarrassing enough to divorce when I was so old. Now that half of the property has been separated for no reason, he is really unwilling to accept it. It is really unfair...
He said: When I married Tian Li and I were already worth tens of millions, and as a salesperson, she didn't pay a penny. My business was completely built by my pre-marital property. My current property should not be divided equally, but my pre-marital property should be divided equally.
Qiu Xianfu felt it was wronged and embarrassing. He said that he would prepare the information and apply for retrial to Sichuan Higher People's Court .
In this sensational divorce case of a billionaire, another party, Tian Li, never refused to accept interviews from reporters. There is no way for people to know the voice deep in her heart. But her actions demonstrated her determination to stick to the divorce.
at the end:
There is a saying that money is not omnipotent, but it is absolutely impossible to have no money. Money can buy mountains of gold and silver, but it cannot buy true infatuation.
Some people say that Qiu Xianfu succeeds and Xiao He fails.
He married his wife who was over 20 years younger than him because he was rich. Now his wife, who is over 50, is determined to divorce him in her 80s because of money.
Story of Shanxi billionaire Yan Jiying may be familiar with it. He is called the "scorched earth king" and once said: I am planning to retire at the age of 90.But unexpectedly, in 2015, he, who was only in his 60s, suddenly died of illness and did not leave a will, which triggered his wife, lover and seven children to compete for a billion-dollar property. The two sides went to court several times and even fought several times, and a once-prominent wealthy family fell into a protracted battle for family property.
Even on the day of the funeral, the two "wife" and their respective children were enemies and were very jealous.
can be seen, all of which are great family turmoil caused by huge inheritance! There are more greedy people caused by wealth than rich people caused by greed.
Shakespeare There is a famous saying that curses money:
"Gold, yellow, shiny, precious gold! Just a little bit, it can turn black into white, ugly into beautiful, wrong into right, lowly into noble, old people into young people, cowards into warriors..."
Qiu Xianfu earned billions of wealth with his wisdom and luck. He thought he could be famous all his life and enjoy his old age, but he did not expect that one divorce lawsuit after another put him in the abyss of pain.
In fact, everything in life is born and destroyed by fate, and the origin and death of fate, and the flowers bloom and fade.
Perseverance and obsession are the root of pain.
Once the spring breeze in life, it will also be autumn rain;
Once proud, it will also be lost.
What cannot escape is impermanence, and what cannot be completed is reincarnation.
Laozi in the "Tao Te Ching" : The way of heaven is good at winning without fighting, responding without speaking, coming naturally without summoning, being calm and good at planning.
If you can be open-minded, don’t fight for a day and overnight, don’t fight for gains and losses, in such a calm and fearless state, you will naturally be strong enough and less painful.
How can you suffer if you have been with him for more than 30 years?
Life is empty in a blink of an eye. If you don’t bring it to life, you won’t take it away when you die, and in the end it’s just a pile of grass left.
