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Netizens recommended a gay family who has moved to Canada for 8 years from Shanghai to @Bulubusi to me, two handsome dads have been together for 13 years, and just welcomed their little princess last month. Everything is so perfect!
obtained their consent and today forwarded the article "The No Two Returns" written on July 14, which describes the friendly people and things they encountered when they went to the United States to welcome their daughter home. It was very touching and warm. @Bulubusi 's text is great, it is full of warmth and warmth. Anyway, I like it.
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If the baby had not been born, Reno would eventually be a strange city for me.
This small desert valley town located above 4,400 feet above sea level in Nevada, claims to have the most beautiful sunset in the mountains. Looking out from the floor-to-ceiling glass windows of the hotel apartment, you can see the continuous snow-capped mountains. Even under the 38-degree sunshine in summer, the snow still does not melt all year round.
originally planned to stay here for two months in the War of Resistance Against Japan, but unexpectedly, the US government's work efficiency was so high that Halyley's birth certificate and passport were all completed within half a month. What is even more touching is that the officials did not use the birth certificate versions of "father" and "mother", but instead actively used "Parent" and "Parent". This small detail shows the achievements of the North American equality movement. I sincerely lament that the predecessors planted big trees and future generations enjoyed the cool.
Twenty-eight days, 672 hours, this city is destined to be full of glory in my memory. Passers-by whom I met on the street, family members who were with me day and night, and the little things that happened here have become the most important coordinates in my life.
I remember when I first came to Reno, the two of them were worried and did not know what earth-shaking changes would happen in life. Now that they embarked on the journey home, their hearts were filled with hopes and longings for the future.
Two days' journey back, three of them walked together, in the thirteenth year of Mr. Jin and I.
Day 1 Reno —— Sanfan
0 pm at 10 in the morning, the sun shines brightly, and the family of three officially embarked on their journey home.
The co-pilot seat is filled with Hayley's suitcase, and the baby chair takes up most of the space in the back seat. Xiaobao was wearing McCarteney sent by Fred and Fafa’s male god uncle, and was in a thrilling manner in his seat. The handsome Jin Bao father sat next to Xiaobao in a grievance, serving tea and milk to his handsome driver and Xiaobao who was Q-bombing.
It takes more than five hours to drive from Reno to Sanban, and the scenery on the road is like a shuttle. Went through the smoky and cloudy snow-capped kilometers, and then pass by the inland lake that looks like a fairyland. The last section is the hot and fire-like coastline expressway. I was used to driving a Mercedes-Benz Dabai GLE at home, and suddenly switched to a CLA to trot long distances. I felt like I was stuffing an elephant into the refrigerator.
feeds Xiaobao in Sacramento midway. The fat grandma at the Bath Beyond home store saw two big men with their baby and took the initiative and enthusiastic greeting us to their nursery room. The configuration of the private nursery in the United States is simply amazing. Not to mention the full set of diaper beds, diapers and baby lotions of various sizes, and the breastfeeding rocking chair that is so comfortable that you don’t want to get up after sitting down. Everything is free to use and has dedicated employees to disinfect regularly. It has to be said that it is extremely humane.
The afternoon trip was easier. With the RB songs of Xiaobao and the harmony of Jin Bao Dad, the family was in a comfortable mood and running wildly on the highway on the sunny coastline. The warm afternoon sun shone on my left face, and I was in a daze to go back to the West American Cliff 1 Highway, which was two people driving together five years ago. The mood of similar mountains and seas has long been very different.
happened to be missing a child in Nevada that day, and all the electronic signs and TV broadcasts on the highway were scrolling Amber Alert . The Amber Alert is a national emergency alert system for children’s abductions in North America, using nearly all public media to post search information to the public.Amber, a nine-year-old girl in 1996, was kidnapped and murdered. More than 20 years later, the alarm system named after her has successfully rescued thousands of lost children. I think if Amber had a soul, she would definitely feel the power she brought to the world.
When we arrived at Hayatt Regency next to Sanfan Airport in the evening, the Amber alarm had stopped being released. We sincerely hope that the children who have experienced the storm and the family is safe.
The handsome and invincible uncle of milk rabbit has already exchanged his points for the suite on the top floor to welcome the princess. When check-in at the hotel reception desk, Xiaobao was in a very good mood. He opened his big eyes and showed a pure and innocent smile, which successfully attracted a group of Air Canada air milk and Korean Air flight attendants. As a flower protector, his father has completely become a human background. He was squeezed by a fierce woman and was unable to get close to him. He was so anxious that he called 911 to call the police for help.
Settling down Jin Bao’s father and Xiaobao rest in the room, and my handsome little rabbit and I ran to the Japanese restaurant in the Bay Area to "adjust our mentality". Sanban has unique seafood resources, so the deliciousness of sashimi and sushi is not the same as that of Toronto . Lychee sake and green tea are accompanied by sea urchins, peony shrimps and sashimi, chatting and gossip and trade secrets, everything is as easy as returning to the treasure-free life a month ago.
However, I know that the next day is the real challenge. Returning the car, checking out, customs, five and a half hours of flight, and entering Canada, every link is exciting and cannot afford to miss it for a long time.
So, after feeding Jin Bao's father with a sushi box, he went to bed early and had no dreams all night.
Of course, except to get up every three hours to feed milk.
The next day Three times - Toronto
On a critical day, Xiaobao got up early and opened his big eyes and never slept again at 4 a.m. If the princess doesn't sleep, the generals who protect the country naturally have to stay together day and night. After finally waiting for the taxi to arrive until dawn, the two of them moved to the airport with aggrieved look with four panda eyes.
At that moment, I suddenly remembered that my mother once said that I was crying every night when I was just born, so I deeply sighed, Who has the heaven really spared?
is responsible for Air Canada ground handling in business class check-in, and is expected to be a standard kind old lady. However, once the old lady has a maternal love attack, it can be said to be a very terrible thing - the drama actress is on her body, embracing her blessings, and asking about her well-being. It took nearly twenty minutes to check all her luggage, print out three air tickets, and send us to the customs and security checkpoints with six or nine.
US customs are generally unfriendly and will make things difficult for you when you are in a bad mood. It is not impossible to send you into a small dark room for a cup of tea. Dad Jin Bao and I held a thick dozen legal materials in my hand and raised all the thorns on my body, so that Xiaobao had already had the awareness of charging and dying before he could die.
The official is a young and handsome Latin man with short hair, high nose bridge, thin lips, tight uniform wrapped around a beautiful figure, and his attitude is probably very poor. He slightly raised his pair of peach blossom eyes to look at the three of us, took the air ticket and passport scan, and asked seriously what our relationship was. Jin Baodad's answer was loud: Husband Husband Daughter.
The handsome guy glanced at the photo on Xiaobao's passport, and suddenly vivid lines rippled on his face, and laughed loudly and said that the passport photo of the baby who was under the moon was too Cute. Amid the laughter, he quickly knocked on the seal and let it go, and did not stingy with a smile on his blessing: "CongratulationsDads! Have a safe trip! " Then he put away his smile and treated the next person who came out of seclusion with a sharp edge.
Nani? Just passed the test smoothly? What about the three hundred rounds of the imagined battle against the bully official? I guessed the beginning, but I didn't guess the ending. This process seems to have cut the peach blossoms into pieces, and the result is a beautiful wine that is drunk in the spring breeze.
Air Canada Business Class priority boarding and sitting in the front row has a fatal flaw, that is, the 100 people boarding will line up to pass by your world, and you will hold your baby and receive everyone's attention for nearly half an hour.
This extra flight did not have the standard kind empty milk, but was equipped with a trick guy in charge of business class, and he was also a gay man, which made me wonder if he was specially arranged to take care of our whole family.
The handsome man is named Steve, a Montreal native, with thick eyebrows, big eyes, 1.8 meters, a face shape, a pure attack when looking at you, and a squinting smile when you smile. The funnyest thing is the first sentence he said when we first boarded the plane: "Daddies, I have been waiting for you for a long time!"
, that, as if Air Canada had opened some world in the sky.
Steve's enthusiastic service is really nothing to say. Every ten minutes, I come to ask about my well-being. The wine and buffalo drain fruits take turns to glance at Xiaobao, and a charming blink and smile are included.
But Jin Bao's father and I still can't relax, and we are always worried that Xiaobao will cry because of discomfort. After all, the passenger in this position originally spent money to buy a clean room, but found that he was sitting in the head and hugging a baby. If it was a big crybag in the air, I guess he would have the heart to die. So we kept thinking about the worst situations of remedial and soothing work, such as buying wine and sending chocolate for everyone, talking about the latest Guo Degang crosstalk, dancing an elegant ascetic striptease, or simply kneeling down to ask for forgiveness...
Fortunately, Xiaobao's performance was amazing. The whole five and a half hours of flight was apart from drinking milk and sleeping, and he didn't even cry when he was most worried about taking off and landing. According to Jin Bao's father, the mixed-race baby from a wealthy family knew the priorities of the matter, so he naturally was reluctant to let her handsome fathers endure the rolling eyes of others.
is oh. Mixed-blood? Hunsanya, Qingpu Hunsanming, Tieling Hunsan Siping. What's wrong with it?
The last hour of the flight, Steven saw that we were in a good mood, so he simply moved a small stool and sat beside me and chatted with me. He said that he and his husband also wanted a child and asked us about the process of the whole matter. Halfway through the chat, the couples next to each other and behind also came over to join in the chat and took various photos with Xiaobao as a souvenir.
So, then, probably the entire business class knows the situation of our family.
When I left the warehouse, several grandparents in the back row came to send blessings. Everyone opened their mouths and opened their mouths to you a wonderful family, which moved me so much that I felt that Wei Wei Auntie kept singing the dedication of love in her ears.
What I remember most is that when getting off the plane and waiting for Xiaobao's stroller, a beautiful Indian fairy in gold and silver turned a corner to congratulate me and my father, "You guys are perfect daddies", and then flew away in a delicious curry.
At that moment, I suddenly realized that before coming to Canada, I used all possible lies to cover up my true human nature; but now when we face the world calmly with our true colors, we gain sincere blessings.
Canadian customs have always been amiable. The blond girl with beautiful blue eyes always smiled since she saw us and kept saying So wonderful, Amazing. With the words Welcome back Home, the three of them entered Canada in just five minutes.
with luggage out of the airport. From a distance, I saw Hayley's godmother jumping to us excitedly while waving.
The evening sun was extremely hot, and my eyes were blurred for a moment. I quietly patted Xiaobao who was sleeping in my arms and said softly in her ear:
Baby, we are home!
Once upon a time, I used to know myself for ten years, deny myself for ten years, and disappointed in the world for ten years.
Now, I finally set out on my way home, explore the beauty of the world, discover the goodness of others, and fill the hope of life.
This diary like a diary records the little trivial matters and all kinds of passers-by on the two days, in order to make yourself not forget, and let Hayley grow up know that so many people have helped us selflessly on our journey home, bringing us strength and warmth.
This world is not perfect, but fortunately there is never a lack of hope.
is also grateful that I was grateful to meet Mr. Jin and have my beloved Hayley Xiaobao. So, after going around for so long, our family finally embarked on the only way back in our lives.
Picture: From Sina Blog @Bulubusi
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