For a woman, what is the pain that life cannot bear?
talked about a past story because he played "Meimei" in " "Has a Fairy Wife" in "" and "Lei Laohu" in " Takejuro " and "Lui Hu" in " Takejuro ".
Once a passerby asked her: "I was moved to read your autobiography in the first half of your life. When will I write the rest of my life?"
Bai Bingbing didn't say anything, and said in her heart: "I wrote it out, I'm afraid you won't dare to read it."
In the first half of her life, she was born in poverty and married a cheating and domestic violence man.
She divorced with a 7-month-old pregnant belly, raised her daughter alone, and became a superstar in film, television, music, and variety shows.
When she was 42 years old, a kidnapping case caused a sensation across the country. Her 16-year-old daughter died , and her death was quite tragic.
After that, because of the dead girl, she had test tubes 15 times, was cheated of tens of millions, and suffered from online violence .
But in the end, she got out of her pain, went to college, did charity, and won the film queen, and lived again for her daughter.
People often describe a mother as "tough" and "teniful".
After reading Bai Bingbing's story, these words may have new annotations.
"The first half of my life is great"
Bai Bingbing's birth, poor and crowded.
Ten children, parents can’t afford it, and the ones they give away and the ones they sell were sold, and they exchanged for two thousand yuan.
Later she wrote in her autobiography:
Someone asked why I didn’t ask my friend for help. This person must have never been poor. Because poor people have no friends.
When life is not going well, her parents often vent their anger on Bai Bingbing, beats three times a day, and asks her to take care of her younger siblings and go to the clothing factory to work as child laborers.
At that time, she decided to either be a singer or a restaurant girl, making money to buy a big house.
When Bai Bingbing participated in 38 singing competitions , but none of them became popular.
Until she starred in the martial arts movie "Karate War", she became "Taiwan's Yamaguchi Momoe".
0 years old, a bright future is in front of her, however, she fell into a vortex of love.
The other party is Kazuki Kajiwara, a famous Japanese cartoonist. She is 19 years older than her, divorced, and has 3 children.
After the two dated several times, the man casually mentioned "get married" and Bai Bingbing, who was ignorant of the world, nodded immediately agreed.
This marriage is like a nightmare.
The husband abused, cheated, and even brought the person home and introduced him to Bai Bingbing.
She has been patient.
When she was 7 months pregnant, she delivered food to her husband and caught the adulterer in bed.
The husband said coldly, "You go back."
The female star covered her naked body and asked coldly, "Didn't you say you want to divorce her?"
On the same day, Bai Bingbing packed her luggage and returned to her parents' broken house.
is still very poor, but she has a big belly and refuses her job.
She wanted to have an abortion, and the doctor asked, "Do you want to listen to the fetal heartbeat?"
"No." She was already in tears.
She still listened.
immediately made up his mind that no matter how difficult it was in the future, he would be born and live a good life.
Daughter Bai Xiaoyan only ten days after being born, Bai Bingbing began to work hard. When was the busiest time, she had to go to 12 karaoke halls a day.
She became more and more popular, becoming the queen of the show, and began to host variety shows and act.
Later she finally saved enough money, bought a big house, and supported a family of four.
The second half of his life was destroyed by the underworld and paparazzi
html At the end of the 120th century, the underworld in Taiwan was rampant, and Bai Bingbing and his family suffered a lot.
The daughter was born shortly after Bai Bingbing was slashed and injured by someone after the performance. She was sent to the hospital by a passerby before she could save her life.
A few years later, three gangsters broke into her house, holding her parents and daughter hostage, and finally rescued by a friend's call.
When Bai Xiaoyan was 16 years old, the disaster happened again.
1997 On April 14, 2019, Bai Bingbing was recording a program, and her agent forced her to pause the call.
The other party seemed to be drunk and spoke very slowly, "Your daughter's things are placed in the cemetery next to Linkou Golf Course."
Bai Bingbing's mind was blank, and she stood there in a daze.
People around me remind: It is a kidnapping.
The school said that Bai Xiaoyan did not go to school and no one answered the phone at home. The alarm number of is not long, but Bai Bingbing lost many times.
Then, she rushed to the cemetery.
What the kidnappers left behind are: Bai Xiaoyan’s three semi-nude photos, a discolored finger, and a handwritten letter with crooked handwriting.
"Mom, I was kidnapped. It's very painful now. You must save me. They want five million US dollars. You can't keep the numbers, you want old money."
Bai Bingbing collapsed on the ground and raised money immediately.
Unexpectedly, the news of "the only daughter of the variety show was kidnapped" leaked, and paparazzi flocked.
Regardless of whether Bai Xiaoyan is safe, reports the news of kidnapping and even publishes semi-nude photos of ;
encircles Bai's house, the camera is aimed at , TV broadcast car , and helicopters are hovering over the sky;
kept calling to ask about the progress of the matter, and even interfered with the possible calls from the kidnappers ...
Bai Bingbing collapsed and repeatedly told: "Please, don't write, really don't write!"
Later, the kidnapper asked her to pay the ransom.
But wherever she went, a large wave of paparazzi and long spears followed.
When the police were driven away, they shouted, "They don't retreat, we won't retreat."
days after that, kidnappers repeatedly changed the meeting location and never showed up.
At the same time, the report is updated in real time.
Bai Bingbing came out to beg: "We orphans and widows, we can't bully me like this. Please save Bai Xiaoyan."
The opposite side was indifferent.
htmlOn April 28, someone found a female corpse, who had been dead for 10 days.
Bai Bingbing rushed to the scene immediately, was on the way, and she was "actually completely disappointed".
After identification, Bai Xiaoyan had been beaten in her head and abdomen, had her liver ruptured, and was raped, and was eventually strangled to death by a rope. When
was taken off, her whole body was swollen and difficult to recognize.
But Bai Bingbing knew at a glance: "It's my daughter."
"Xiaoyan didn't live enough, I'll take care of her"
Shortly after the case was solved, Bai Bingbing's father was Excessively sad, he passed away.
A few years ago, my mother who had been bedridden for a long time also passed away .
Bai Bingbing said: "I was alone at home at night, looking at the photos of my mother, children, and father. Such a huge home, how did I become the only one. ”
Over the years, vicious netizens have not let Bai Bingbing go.
Someone spread rumors that she betrayed her body when she was in Japan , she was a sex worker;
Someone speculated that she knew with the criminal, and the business broke down, which caused her daughter to betray her daughter. Killing;
Someone even left a message to curse her, and died in the water like her daughter.
Every word is like a knife.
Later Bai Bingbing said that it took her It took her 15 years to finally erase the scene of Xiaoyan being salvaged.
For more than ten years, she cried all day long.
She wrote the song "Yan Zai, you are flying to the door", and she choked up every time she sang.
She dared not move , for fear that Xiaoyan would not be found when she came back.
Because she missed her too much, she had been cheated by Nearly tens of millions.
She also wanted to "rebirth" Xiaoyan.
From the age of 42 to 48, she did 5 test tubes, and each time she was given more than 100 injections of , which caused stiffness of the limbs and a surge in weight.
until the doctor advised her: "If you continue to get it, you will die. "
A few more years have passed, and Bai Bingbing suddenly found that she had not cried for several days. She understood:
"There are only a lot of injuries, pain and hatred in my heart. But I have made my life harder and harder, and my life has become harder and harder. I don’t want this to happen for the rest of my life! "
Bai Bingbing thought: I want to live all Xiaoyan who has not lived enough.
She founded the Cultural and Education Foundation in the name of Xiaoyan, and helped many children and teenagers;
0 years old, She studied in college for 6 years to make up for the regret of not studying, and also finished Xiaoyan's copy;
8 years old, she won the Golden Bell Award for her role as the mother in " That Day My Mom See Me ", and won the Golden Bell Award for Best Actress.
In the video, her beloved son committed suicide by jumping into the sea. She cried to the sea, but after looking back, the audience cried.
After the interview, she said:
" I still remember that morning, Xiaoyan's sentence: Mom, I'm going to class!
I also believe that God will close a door for you and must open a door. Not only young people, but also old people should have goals and hope for life!
If I am still here, please live for me! "
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·Written at the end·
Luo Dayou There is a song "Rain in the City", which is sung by Bai Xiaoyan.
"Spring just came Temporary, swallow, have you found your home again..."
The Rain of the City Audio: 0:0003:49
He sang tragic, and he sighed three times. He seemed to see the nostalgia of a young life in the world and the loneliness of a mother for the rest of his life.
Bai Bingbing is now 67 years old and has died twice.
The first time was 25 years ago, when his beloved daughter Bai Xiaoyan was torn to pieces.
The second time was paparazzi and later keyboard warriors, who killed her invisibly.
As a mother, She failed to protect her child's regret and heartache. I believe no one will be touched by it.
In addition, what touched me even more was that , she has experienced all the misfortune and still has such strong vitality and broad mind.
As she said herself, "The world is so big, You are not the most pitiful person, you can only face, deal with and let go when you meet. time is the best medicine, and how can we solve the pain and resentment in our hearts."
I don't know what is waiting for Bai Bingbing in the future.
I really hope that she can taste the sweetness of life, see the beauty of the world, and feel the joy and warmth of life.
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