Recently, the photo of Tsang Eric Tsang sitting in a wheelchair and taking photos with fans has caused various speculations. Some media reported that Tsang Eric Tsang was injured while filming a reality show in the mainland, but according to people around him, "It's not that I got my feet, it's because of the serious uric acid, and I can't walk the way now." It is said that it is only one step away from uremia.
Previously in "Advance of Speed", Zeng Zhiwei needed to complete the task to save his daughter from falling into the mud pit of stinking. However, due to the limitations of physical strength and body, he said to his daughter panting: "I'm sorry", which almost made her mood lose control. Afterwards, my daughter said in an interview: "This is the first time my father said sorry to me, I will never forget it." She also said that everything was relieved at that moment.
Zeng Baoyi is Zeng Zhiwei's daughter. When she was two or three years old, her parents divorced. She and her sister moved from Hong Kong to the home of their grandparents in Taipei. I have no mother since I was a child, and my father was very busy at work. Zeng Baoyi, who was raised by his grandparents in a single-parent family, had a tendency to be autistic. In addition, she was lonely and other reasons. When she was in junior high school, she fell in love with her teacher. Although Zeng Zhiwei was anxious, he couldn't find any other way except scolding.
, who has not contacted his daughter for more than ten years 1, mother , Wang Meihua plays herself as a psychological counselor, and slowly walks into Zeng Baoyi's heart step by step through companionship, play and chat, so that she can slowly get rid of the haze. It was not until she graduated from high school that Zeng Baoyi realized that she was her biological mother.
Zeng Baoyi has been studying very hard since she was a child, hoping to get her father's recognition, but the father and daughter were far away, and Zeng Zhiwei had hardly accompanied her daughter. Zeng Baoyi missed his father, so he wrote a letter. He persisted for four years, but never received a reply. When she was about to graduate from high school, she longed for her father to witness this important moment in her life. She mustered up the courage to make a call and pretended to be relaxed and said that she would graduate next week. Zeng Zhiwei asked for the specific date, which surprised Zeng Baoyi very much. On the day of graduation, this "stranger" who had never lived with him did not break his promise and attended his daughter's graduation ceremony in an honest manner.
Zeng Baoyi hopes to develop into the entertainment industry after graduating from university, but was opposed by her father. Zeng Baoyi started with the venue recorder, assistant, and planning. Although her father was already well-known in the entertainment industry at that time, she was also experiencing the delivery of resumes, interviews, and other notifications. Zeng Zhiwei did not comment or help these.
In 1996, Zeng Baoyi made her debut by starring in the movie "Four 32As and One Banana Boy" directed by Eric Tsang. In 1998, she met Zhang Xiaoyan, the number one host in Taiwan, by chance, and was appreciated by Zhang Xiaoyan, and led her into the hosting industry.
Zeng Baoyi did not disappoint Zhang Xiaoyan's keen eyes and expectations, and quickly grew into a popular host in Taiwan and released a solo record. Acting, hosting, and singing are all well developed. She also invited her parents to the same variety show, so that the two of them broke the gap. Although they did not remarry, their relationship became harmonious.
Although she performed very lively and funny in the show, she had an ununsolvable knot in her heart, that is, the parent-child relationship that was praised by the world did not appear in her life. In 2011, her grandfather who raised Zeng Baoyi passed away, which made her reach the lowest point in her life. She began to read and travel a lot, and began to examine her relationship with her parents. Finally, she realized: to truly love someone, it means to accept him as he is. She finally accepted her parents from the bottom of her heart and herself.
Zeng Baoyi, who has never enjoyed fatherly love and motherly love since childhood, has developed well in her career, but the shadow of childhood caused by the broken family still has a great impact on her. She is afraid of being alone, easily anxious, and needs many friends...
Undoubtedly, parents love their children, but when parents have no feelings and cannot live together, how can they let their children enjoy love like other children?
Don’t throw the children to their ancestors to raise by themselves just because their parents divorced and reorganized their families.
Don’t not visit your children for a long time or pay attention to them, so that they can become formal "orphans".
often communicate and accompany your children, but don’t say bad things about the other party.
If possible, play with the other party to let the child feel the love that is no different from other children.
When looking for a partner again, you should consider the child’s feelings and find a partner who can accept the child, so that the child can enjoy multiple love.
From a certain perspective, Zeng Baoyi was unfortunate. She did not enjoy the love of her parents when she was young; from a certain perspective, she was lucky. She realized true love - accepting her parents and understanding their behavior at that time, which came from Baoyi's strong heart and super high emotional intelligence.
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