Before writing this article, I would like to ask everyone,
"Do you have people you like during adolescence?"
I guess the answer is yes, which teenager is not frivolous? Which girl doesn’t have spring? Recently, there have been such pairs of "god couples" around me. They sprinkle dog food on the circle of friends and couples on holidays. When the other party needs them, they send large red envelopes, with the style of a domineering boss; they stand up when the other party is in trouble and blame them... Seeing this, someone wants to say, "Isn't this beautiful love?" But I want to say
"They are not eighteen years old yet"
I don't mean to discriminate against early love, and I have also seen some examples from school uniforms to wedding dresses. We wish each couple successful, and then let's talk about another majority of "failed" people.
Case 1: A heartbroken teenager committed suicide, half of his blood flowed out of his body
On the evening of September 26, 2003, a tragedy occurred on the campus of Kangping County No. 1 Middle School in Shenyang City. A second-year high school boy broke up because of his lover and pierced his chest with sharp glass fragments, causing a serious heart rupture, with a rupture of 1.5 cm long and his life was in danger.
Case 2: A junior high school student killed a crush on a girl
once caused a sensation in the "5.21" campus murder case in Zhengzhou, the provincial capital, was recently solved. The suspect Pu, who is suspected of intentional homicide, has been arrested in accordance with the law. The 17-year-old criminal suspect Pu is a junior high school student in a middle school in Zhengzhou Railway. It was initially found that Pu's female classmate Li fell in love with someone else's love, so he decided to kill Li, the female classmate of this class the next day, and then commit suicide
Case 3: The boy stabbed his classmate and jumped off the building and died
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116-year-old boy stumbled toward a tall building. Starting from the 4th floor, every time he went to the first floor, he swung his stick to smash the window glass of the corridor, and then looked down at the height of the building. When he climbed to the 13th floor, he jumped down... This was a heart-pounding "bounce incident" that happened in the south of Yanshan Beizhuang on July 2.
When nearby residents sighed for this, the tragedy behind the "bounce jumping incident" was even more shocking: Before jumping off the building, a teenager named Jin Ming had a big fight with his classmate Li Yang to compete for a girl and stabbed Li Yang 4 times. After Li Yang fell in a pool of blood, he jumped off the building and died on the spot.
Case 4. A boy in the first grade of junior high school fell in love with a girl in the same class, and his grades turned sharply.
Xiaozhong is an introverted boy in the first grade of junior high school. Since the second semester, he has had a hazy emotion about a girl in the same class. Every day, he was absent-minded in his studies and his eyes were uncontrollably chasing her figure. No matter where she was in the classroom, he could feel her existence. In his mind, the girl was the "goddess" and was jealous of those close to her. For this reason, I was in a daze and my grades took a sharp turn for the worse. He was very upset and didn't know what to do? Is
enough? Are there not enough of these tragedies? The harm of early love is far greater than the benefit, and it is enough to destroy a group of children who have a great desire for the future and love! If you say "being a CP", you will become a lover. You will regard how many girlfriends you have made as your life value. When you are in love, you will cry and hurt others and yourself. Is this kind of love really worth it?
Someone may refute me: "No, I love her!"
Then, what is love? What is it like? Here, I want to use what my political teacher said to answer, "Like is feeling. When we don't like someone, we will say 'I don't feel anything anymore', but love is not like this. Love may not be vigorous. It is hidden in life plainly and is a kind of responsibility. Don't say love easily, you must take responsibility if you say it."
I think that a large part of what we call liking now comes from psychological changes in adolescence and following the behavior of others. We should get rid of this kind of liking. Work hard for your future, and you will have a good companion to the top.
