Anyone will inevitably encounter conflicts and conflicts when they get along, not to mention that the couple is getting along with each other under the same roof, and they look up all day long and never see each other. With too much communication and contact, they will inevitably have differences in some details of life. Marriage has never been a romantic life as imagined. It is just a mess and two people who have worked hard to manage.
Sometimes we have to face such a problem. For the same thing, you and your partner have different opinions and opinions. Both parties feel that they are very rational, considerately, and refuse to give in. This becomes a contradiction. The two start to face each other and even attack each other just to compete for a win or loss.
However, once there is a crack in the simple thing like emotion, it will always exist. No matter how it is buried and covered, the injured heart will always remember the blood shed. So there is a saying that - at least one of them is a "fool".
The person you love is often the person who hurts you the most. This sentence is true, because the person you love and the person you love are often the person who knows you the most. He understands your weaknesses and the dark side, which makes each other's attacks hit the nail on the head.
People always stubbornly hold their heads up and maintain their so-called dignity after hurting each other, apologizing. Everyone knows in their hearts that they need to apologize, but it is not that easy to do it.
Street quarrel, delete group photos, low-key celebrity couple suspected of getting married
A few days ago, the always low-key Wallace Huo Ruby Lin was rarely in the same frame again, but this time, it was because of a conflict. Although it was raining lightly at the sky at that time, it was still possible to see from the video that the two of them were emotionally excited, and even their voices were louder than usual, as if they were quarreling.
Then, Wallace Huo drove away alone, leaving Ruby Lin in the rain messy rain. Although it is not gentlemanly to do this, leaving may be to stop a quarrel and give both parties some calm time and space to be alone. It is understandable to do so.
The sudden flash marriage between Huo Lin and his two people four years ago has caused widespread discussion on major platforms. After marriage, their lives are also very low-key. There are few occasions when they go abroad together. Except for a few rare photos that were published by Ruby Lin on Weibo, there are very few photos of them published between the two.
Recently, Ruby Lin deleted a sweet photo with Wallace Huo on Weibo. In a live broadcast event she participated in, it can also be seen that Ruby Lin was haggard and forced to smile. Although the crisis public relations said that this "street quarrel case" was just the two of them who were emotionally excited and spoke loudly, and it was no big deal in itself, but there were still many rumors that the two might have been married.
The hurdle that celebrity couples can’t overcome, how difficult is it to get along with each other in marriage?
In a marriage relationship, the couple seems to be standing at both ends of the same balance to maintain the balance of such a relationship. Otherwise, once the balance is unbalanced, the relationship between the two will be "one-sided", and being passive in the marriage means becoming a slave to the marriage.
Indeed, we are prone to stubborn opinions, easily short-sighted and can only see what we want to see, and do not think about the other person's feelings. These are the causes of conflicts in marriage and relationships. But since some things have already happened, what we need to do is learn how to stop losses in time, how to make up for and recover.
"Sorry" everyone can say these three words, but no one can say it, and no one wants to be the one who bows his head first, which has also prompted the intensification and fermentation of contradictions, making the marriage problems more and more intense, and even irreconcilable. In the end, a relationship was destroyed under the pull of the two people.
Everyone will say that tolerance and understanding, but it is really difficult to truly think from the perspective of others, especially after two people have been together for a long time, they have a tacit understanding between each other, and she will understand some things if you don’t say them.
But it is precisely because you don’t say it and ask her to guess that it leads to many problems. In relationships, some words still have to be put on the table. After all, feelings are the choice of two people, and one person’s efforts cannot solve the problem of two people.
The author's emotional insight:
There is no hurdle that couples cannot overcome, only their heads that cannot be lowered, only their so-called face and dignity that are worthless. If you draw a deep hole in the heart of the person you love in order to maintain the so-called face, is it worth it? Everyone understands that this is not worth it, but no one wants to take the initiative to be the "fool" in the relationship.
Some problems, as long as they are not principles, can actually be coordinated through communication between two people, and can be solved and remedy. There is no need for us to fight for winning or losing in everything. Marriage, relationship, and family. There is never anything we need to win in these relationships. The only thing we have to do is to manage an ordinary life well.
