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In the youth memories of the post-80s and 90s, witnessed the rise of Chinese music scene .
More than ten years ago, our " Jay Chou " was still a handsome young man who was fighting hard to create albums in a crazy way.
At that time, JJ Lin , Jay Chou , Jolin Tsai , Ah-mei , Pan Weibo ... presented fans with one scene after another of "gods and immortals fighting".
I remember that in 2008, I heard the song " Writing Poems for You" by Wu Kequn in a TV commercial for the first time, and was instantly captured by the brainwashed melody. Wu Kequn, who debuted at the same time as Jay Chou, is also a famous "creative" singer in the music industry. He debuted with Jay Chou and appeared on the first variety show together.
and even, the young and energetic entertainment industry once said:
"Beyond Jay Chou in five years!"
Several months have passed, and whether the goal set by Wu Kequn has been achieved, the facts are in front of him need not be said.
However, there is a goal he has been following his own ideas - only in love, not getting married.
1. People who count the stars
For many people, if they did not pay special attention, it seems that Wu Kequn's name has not been heard for a while.
But in fact, almost every year he launches some new works in his singing career. Some time ago, Wu Kequn transformed into an emotional observer and appeared in the variety show of Mango TV.
still has the same appearance, but it also reveals maturity, rationality, and a good set of experience and insights on things.
Emotion, which is the most insightful to Wu Kequn. He himself just came out of a complicated sad mood.
In 2018, Wu Kequn also transformed into a new director and filmed a youth comedy movie with his representative work "Writing Poems for You".
It must be that many people have never heard of this movie. It is not surprising that after the release of this movie, it usually only got 3.8 points on a certain rating platform, with a box office of more than 10 million.
will not mention good or bad. Wu Kequn paid much more for this film than the gains he received.
During the preparation and shooting of the movie, the huge mental pressure caused Wu Kequn's hearing to be damaged, and his left ear lost 30% of his hearing, and it was permanent...
"I tinnitus for two months and lost some listening. During this inaudible time, I figured out one thing: how much I want to do this!"
However, God has given him more than one obstacle. It was also at this time that his mother, whom he had been dependent on and loved the most, was diagnosed with lung cancer and was terminally ill.
Let go of your dreams and win back your family affection. Wu Kequn returned to her mother and stayed with her for treatment. In the ward of
, he changed the script and agreed with his mother that in the future, his mother must sit in the premiere chief.
The joke of fate is really not everyone can afford it.
At the beginning, Wu Kequn's mother's treatment was very smooth and the condition was effectively controlled.
On the other side, Wu Kequn's shooting is gradually getting on the right track. On the day my mother was discharged from the hospital, her condition suddenly worsened and she was at the verge of raising the flag:
"When I rushed back to accompany my mother, she had lost consciousness. Until now I am thinking, if I had arrived thirty minutes earlier, what would she say to me?"
A beloved woman is leaving her, and another woman who brought him comfort and warmth also appeared by her at this time.
This may also be the only luck in Wu Kequn's difficult years.
2. If you can't love it well
Wu Kequn's mother was finally taken away by the god of death. In his grief, he insisted on completing the first video he created.
During a trip to worship his mother, the media happened to catch Wu Kequn's side with a female companion. The new relationship was broken.
Girlfriend Chen Yuan is also a person in the circle. The two seem to have been in love for a long time.
Chen Yu'an
When Wu Kequn was running around in the theater and hospital, Chen Yu'an was stationed in the hospital and took care of Wu Kequn's mother meticulously.
When Wu Kequn's mother was in a stable condition, she turned into a messenger who sent the message and went to the mainland to visit Wu Kequn for Wu's mother and brought greetings.
"She has been accompanying and taking care of her until her death. Thank her very much!"
Before her death, Wu's mother also recognized the son's "new girlfriend".
Why do you use the word girlfriend here? A filial son in front of the bed in a long time, a couple in times of trouble, can be seen in people's hearts under the test.
For this girlfriend who is 13 years younger than me, she can always protect her mother's bedside without asking for anything in return.
Generally speaking, what would the man think? Ninety percent of people would choose to start a family with this girl and live a good life with their mother's expectations.
But here in Wu Kequn, this idea may not be implemented.
"I have many dreams, but getting married is not one of my dreams. I can be a best man for my friends, but I can't be a good groom."
As early as a few years ago, Wu Kequn revealed that he is "unmarriageism".
Getting married is not in his life plan. The relationship between
and Chen Yuan has been very low-key since their default in 2018. It is difficult to know how their current situation is.
However, Chen Yuan can still choose to be with Wu Kequn when he knows the answer.
Is it true that their love can change everything, or is it that she has the same idea, so she doesn't care about the ending.
But before Chen Yu'an, another girl left with disappointment during her four-year love with Wu Kequn.
It was probably in 2011 that Wu Kequn met and fell in love with the Macau gambling king Ho Hongshen 's beloved daughter Ho Chaolian .
This person, known as the "most beautiful daughter in the world", has been simply described as "born with a golden spoon in his mouth".
How arrogant her father is and how rich her family is, I won’t go into details here. Just know one thing, He Chaolian is not a match for a casual rich second generation or a wealthy young man.
He Chaolian is also in the face of love, just like the needs of many ordinary girls - love what I love. So when he met Wu Kequn, he was attracted by the man's talent and handsomeness.
He Chaolian's identity, any man from an ordinary background, will inevitably gain some criticism.
The story of "Cinderella and the Prince Charming" seems to have become a metaphor for the outside world to describe their love. During the first two years of "underground love", Wu Kequn always called He Chaolian as a good friend in front of the media.
While denying the relationship, the two of them traveled around the world for a date.
"She is different from other daughters. She has her own ideals and ideas."
Men who may have a little ambition will grasp this relationship well, after all, such a great material temptation is in front of you.
Wu Kequn is not right! The first thing to do after making a relationship public is to show your integrity - you will never use women's money! Feelings cannot be measured by money!
If you have too many flattery and obedience around you, and suddenly a hard-working and principled person appears, will you look at him twice?
3. He Chaolian takes the relationship between her heart and
for four years. They traveled through the mountains and rivers together and spread their happy feet on lands around the world.
He Chaolian has seen many rare treasures since she was a child, but the gifts given by Wu Kequn can bring her a different "surprise".
Once, He Chaolian's birthday is coming soon. The media asked what gift Wu Kequn would give to his girlfriend. He answered calmly:
"Maybe he can make something by hand. Cards, paper stars, I think origami stars are cool now!"
Everyone thought that Wu Kequn would definitely give up the idea of "not marrying" for love this time, but the feelings between celebrities and celebrities are being expressed bit by bit.
In 2015, He Chaolian wrote this passage on his social account:
"I promised myself that this is the last time I cried for you. I will not hold a grudge, I will move forward, and I will no longer stick to the truth and falsehood...
Maybe one day I will thank you, thank you for letting me learn how to love myself more."
The sad copycat caused rumors of breaking up, and soon Wu Kequn also responded to the fact of the breakup.
Then there were rumors that Wu Kequn was suspected of cheating and causing the relationship to break down. He Chaolian's friend's words seemed to express some profound stories:
"I have seen Wu Kequn several times, and I may have done a good job on the surface, and people will change.
The woman was very hurt, but it was not physically hurt. Chaolian invested a lot in this relationship and did her girlfriend's duty..."
Of course, Wu Kequn's side must have strongly admitted that the breakup was denied "cheating". No one can tell the grudges except the parties involved.
, as a spectator, wouldn’t he think about it? If Wu Kequn had been with He Chaolian all the time, would his future be better?
Can he gain more attention after he made a new album that he was very serious and hardworking?
Not everyone is willing to bow down for five dou of rice, and not everyone can't stand the temptation in front of fame and fortune. This is true.
Wu Kequn's growth environment is very special. Strictly speaking, he has never had a complete family.
Wu Kequn's parents did not officially get married for some reasons.
Since childhood, my mother and he depended on each other for his life, and were born ordinary without his father. It was not easy to go from a naughty boy to a pop singer Wu Kequn.
The influence of the original family has been a hot topic in recent years. It has to be admitted that many people have indeed changed their personalities because of their families.
After Wu's mother's life entered the countdown, the couple signed the marriage certificate and held a minimalist ceremony in the ward.
Only at that moment their family is considered a family, but it is like a mirage that quickly dispersed again.
But I have to say clearly that the perfection at that moment is just for a wish.
Perhaps it was because I had never had a complete fatherly love and family, so Wu Kequn made the decision to "get married without marriage." As we all know, marriage and love have completely different concepts.
Compared to the separation of love, the separation of family affection is more unacceptable, especially when having children.
Therefore, only falling in love but not getting married has become Wu Kequn's emotional pursuit.
Because of regret and harm, I want to prevent the tragedy from happening again.
In the recent variety show " Spring Reset ", it is not difficult to see Wu Kequn's emotional delicacy. He can rationally analyze his feelings and find problems.
"Because of the person you love, you will start to shine." looks like a few emotional mentors. Isn’t this the experience and experience obtained through experience?
As mentioned earlier, after his mother passed away, Wu Kequn asked many times what she would say if she met her mother for the last time?
The answer should actually be in his heart, and in the hearts of many mothers:
That must be, I hope the child can live happily and happily for the rest of his life, have a home, and have someone who loves him by his side...
