In "The Way of Heaven", Xiao Yawen is a very good at doing things. In life, we inevitably ask for help. There are two secrets for helping others. Master one, and not only can we get things done, but also make connections.
1. Consider problems from the perspective of others and make others have no worries
The most important thing in dealing with people is altruism. When you need help from others, you can't repay them for the time being, but you must consider problems from the perspective of others. If you ask others for things, will it cause trouble to others?
If something difficult happens, how should I deal with it? Before asking others, you must consider all these issues clearly. In this way, if you ask others to do things, the success rate will be higher and the relationship will become more reliable.
2. Prepare well, don’t speak easily
Why can Xiao Yawen as the throne of the president of metrical poetry in "The Way of Heaven"? Because after the establishment of the metrical verse, Xiao Yawen helped to do a lot of things. You can think that this is Ding Yuanying's test of Xiao Yawen, but Xiao Yawen handled everything very reliably, which made Ding Yuanying very relieved.
When the Rhyan Shi was caught in a prosecution storm, the enthusiasts escaped the stocks at the last minute, and Xiao Yawen took the opportunity to enter. Unexpectedly, at this time, another industry giant, Earl Audio, actively intervened and suddenly announced that it would be willing to acquire Melody 6.5 million...
Melody has neither interest nor commercial relations with Elody Company. Is this matter related to the current litigation? What is the intention of the Earl Company? These are all like mystery. As the head of metrical verse, you must have a clear answer.
She subconsciously thought of Ding Yuanying. What would Ding Yuanying think? Of course, Xiao Yawen could call Ding Yuanying for advice, but she was meticulous in thinking immediately thought that she could not do this. On the one hand, it would be very lucky to have an expert like Ding Yuanying around. Secondly, she is the leader now, and she has to be alone and can only speak when she is really unsolvable.
Xiao Yawen, who abandoned the "waiting and relying on", calmed down and slowly understood the count's intention. This tells you that when facing difficulties, first of all, don’t be distracted. You have to calm down and figure out what this doubt is in your heart and where is it blocked? No matter how good you think, the most important thing is to be proactive and use a strong culture to demand yourself.
The so-called strong culture creates the strong, and weak culture creates the weak. Strong culture is to follow the objective laws of the development of things, seek truth from facts, and do whatever you should do.
Weak culture: Wait, rely on, hope that opportunities will fall from the sky, or wait for others to help you, dare not work hard when encountering problems, follow the steps in doing things, have no innovation, and relax yourself.
Regarding asking for help, although you have to ask for help, you still have to be a reliable self. Otherwise, the other party will help you, but your hand will not be known where. Review, you must remember these two points when asking for help:
1. Consider problems from the perspective of others and make others have no worries
2. Be well prepared, don’t speak easily
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