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"Life, except death, nothing big."
This is what Mo Sanmei's father said in the film. At the beginning of the video, every detail in the details made us see that the funeralist Mo Sanmei lacked recognition of his profession.
Because he has been called "eat the dead" since he was a child, he has no respect and has a deep conflict with his father.
"Little Nezha" Wu Xiaowen, in the process of "finding grandmother", understood the true meaning of death and gave the profession of funeralist a naive and romantic name: the person who grows stars.
Mo Sanmei successfully reconciled with her profession, her father, and herself while bidding farewell to others again and again. The drama structure of this film is very interesting.
Every little character carries a task, from creating conflicts to resolving conflicts, or promoting the progress of the plot, making the plot full of tension, which has brought me great surprises.
01
Dog blood breakup
Mo Sanmei went to prison for her sweetheart to fight with her elder Liu. After returning from prison, she has been determined to trick her father into her father's shop for the past year and open a maternal and child shop for her sweetheart. After getting the
bedroom book, I couldn't wait to share the joy with her, but I was broken up.
The sweetheart becomes an ex-girlfriend. She wants to marry her enemy, and even possesses her own enemy's flesh and blood.
"I just want to get married and have a baby. Is it okay to have a family with a support, right?"
"Why do you think I can't give you my family and I can't give you a support."
" Do you give it to me? I can't see your mature look at all. I can't see your father, ."
This sentence hit Mo Sanmei's lung tube, and he was speechless.
What is maturity?
It seems that many people will say this when they break up. It is so common that it is like a sense of breaking up, and most of it is women saying to men.
There is a saying that goes, "A man is a teenager until his death." Many times he praises a man for having a good mentality, always maintaining a teenager mentality, and being positive and sunny.
However, women are growing up until they die.
She will be someone else's wife, someone else's daughter-in-law, and someone else's mother.
They play many roles in society.
They are always forced to mature, but it is difficult to find themselves.
Seeing a barrage scolding the ex-girlfriend, what's there to scold? She just wants a stable home.
Men are teenagers until death, and games are their refuge.
I remember seeing a complaint video posted by a woman in Liuzhou, Guangxi on a social platform. At first, her husband moved to the balcony because she loved smoking and playing games, and was afraid of affecting her wife and children, so she moved to the balcony to live. This was awesome.
They have been married for 4 years and my husband has lived on the balcony for three years. Don’t participate in everything in the family, or even participate in the growth of children. The salary paid every month is not like supporting a family, but more like housing and living expenses. The Mo Sanmei in the video
is a projection of the inner heart of many people.
At first, he was immature and irresponsible. The wall in his heart was thicker than his skin, but he still retained the softness in his heart.
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discouraged and wanted to break up the house
I have been coldly looked at by others for many years and have been scolded as "a person who eats death". My girlfriend betrayed her. The disheartened Mo Sanmei felt that everything was not going well in life and was eager to change her life, so she told the fat couple that she wanted to break up.
Fat man said to Mo Sanmei: "After all, you have a problem with your mentality, who used to be clean.I used to be a thief, but she used to be a hawker. If you are disgusted, you really don’t have to live. "
Fat man: "Why do you live so hard? Because you look down on yourself. "
That's right, Mo Sanmei just looks down on herself. He has inferiority in his bones, so she lives like an hedgehog .
Many times, we feel that we live a twisted life and think that others look down on ourselves, but in fact, we just look down on ourselves.
I have seen many such people. They feel that their social status is inferior, and they will subconsciously show a flattering smile to others, and will not let their children make their way forward. Even if their children suffer losses, they will still pose to their children to apologize to others.
, will people look down on people like ml2 ? Yes, you will think that he looks down on himself. You will say that there are so many distinctions between high and low in this world, but this is the foundation of his survival until now. Doesn't he know what is right and what is wrong? He knows, and he feels uncomfortable. But this world has not taught him how to live, he can only live by himself in the way he struggles. is like Mo Sanmei. His first survival reaction is to escape, and his second choice is to treat this world fiercely with a fierce look on his face. In the world, no one will find their inferiority and sadness. Mo Sanmei's father said this with a gratifying smile. The potential words are: he has finally grown up, has responsibility, and has finally matured. I am relieved. "The parents love their son, and the plan is far-reaching." Father knows that he doesn't have much time to live, and has always used his own way. , to temper this third son. In a sense, Mo Sanmei also plays the role of Wu Xiaowen's father. When Wu Xiaowen didn't want to go to kindergarten, he forced her to kindergarten for her good. When Wu Xiaowen got into trouble in kindergarten, he was rebellious and did not bow to others, and he also bent down for this to apologize. In a kindergarten parent-child activity, Wu Xiaowen said to Mo Sanmei: "I know, you have been lying to me, and I will never see my grandmother again, but I am no longer afraid because I have a father. "The passage of really makes me cry every time I read it. Mo Sanmei gave Xiaowen a sense of security; And Xiaowen gave Mo Sanmei a sense of belonging. 03
"He finally has something to worry about."
Family affection is the weakness and also the armor.
Sorrow is used to face death, only love allows us to heal .
