Not long ago, we collected the "30-year-old truth about life you discovered only after you were ", and received many sincere suggestions from friends of more than 30. Let’s take a look at what important experiences and philosophies have been summarized by "experienced people". Can we reveal some secrets to friends who have not experienced it and get a glimpse of the secrets?
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Health is always the first priority.
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Life is not that long, spend time and energy on important people and things.
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It was not until the age of 30 that I realized that should learn to leave . Material, what you should do and interpersonal relationships need to be abandoned. Control material desires, do what you can and do well. As for interpersonal relationships, when you have nothing, it is not called interpersonality at all. Only when you become stronger can you have quality interpersonal relationships. Therefore, before the age of 30, you should work hard to strengthen yourself, work hard to make money, and improve your ability to resist risks.
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Not all edges are smoothed by life, it may also be the result of becoming softer after being gentler by time.
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People around you have the conditions to get married one after another at the age of 20. If you fail to get to the point of getting married, don’t be anxious. After all, those who have the conditions to get married will also divorce one after another at the age of 30.
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Don’t influence your rhythm because others have influenced your rhythm, because maybe you are not competing in the same game.
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Some shoes don’t grind their feet when they first wear them, and they didn’t realize that they were not suitable until one day they walked a long way. is like some people who appear in life.
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can bring happiness many people and things. If this one doesn't work, then change it.
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It turns out that some trait that has been criticized in the past is my characteristic. 's "sounds" seem to point to the right path, but in fact they are weakening my source of power. At the age of 30, I started to loosen my ties a little bit every day, and now I am free to get along with myself.
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This sounds very worldly, but you must establish a good relationship with your superiors. In this way, when the boss can’t see your labor and only see your shortcomings, someone can help you. Be smarter and don’t do anything, so let’s not say anything.
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After six years of being with me, he chose to leave, as if he had taken half of me away. Only after depression did I realize that I should give myself a sense of security, happiness, and love. The appearance of others can be the icing on the cake, not the timely help.
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Don’t spend money randomly, you must have your own savings. After
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30, I found that my personality was even sharper, but I was hiding that sharpness. I have learned to be polite to people who can't play together on the surface, but in fact, I can't intersect if I can't intersect in my heart.
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The most important things in the end are parents, a few friends, health and deposits in your own bank. Others, such as whether you look good or not, how about the school, whether there are famous brand bags, and whether there are gorgeous labels in the world, it doesn’t matter.
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Don't try to control emotions, control your figure, or even try to control your life and others. accepts uncontrollable, and lying flat is also a way to face it. Even if you are inferior, after accepting this state, you can still bloom beautiful and special flowers on it.
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It is a very important ability to take good care of one's body and emotions.
What society values are often those explicit, useful, and monetizable abilities, but often ignore many inward and invisible abilities. Maintain a regular routine, take good care of your three meals a day, and do housework in a timely manner; know how to relieve it when you are depressed, know how to make yourself happy, and do not force yourself to stay happy at all times. When a person can do these things well, it is easier for him to gain inner peace and present a state of stability. This is actually very important and difficult.
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The bitterness you should endure must not be lost.
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20s get up at 6 o'clock every day and go to work. Now, T-shirt plus sweatpants every day, and your hair is cut. Don’t underestimate the physical and mental damage caused by tedious makeup and beautiful but uncomfortable clothes.
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All power will come from yourself only. So, please firmly enrich yourself. Whether it is a marriage or a family, as long as you are strong enough inside, nothing can destroy you.
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Not yet 30 years old, but sharing a very encouraging thing to me:
The worst 10 years old in life are 20-30 . During this period, we have not been able to fully understand what kind of person we are, what we really want, but are eager to make various life decisions.
Don’t be led away by the beauty on social media. Don’t feel that you have achieved nothing just because you see those surfaces. Don’t be anxious, things happen slowly. In fact, many major choices in life are done at the age of 30, which will be much more successful than doing them at the age of 20.
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Failure in marriage will not affect the excitement of your life.
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30 There is nothing to do with standing or not, just follow your own pace, no one else will care.
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What parents always say, ", you should find someone who loves you, not the you love", it makes a lot of sense.
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Life will not get better because of anything.
Success in weight loss, dating, getting married, a job that looks good. Getting these will not make you popular or excellent, nor will your life be sweet forever from now on. There will be a constant stream of problems in life waiting for you to solve, but it doesn’t matter. Because you will grow up with setbacks and have the ability to solve these problems. Such ability is the source that supports you to achieve "success" in all aspects.
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Maturity is not about getting more and more tolerant of what you want, but about knowing what you don’t want.
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You will slowly know what you want most, but you may not have the courage to realize or strive for it.
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html After 130 years old, I feel that language is unreliable. I believe that my sincere analysis may also be self-deception. It is better to observe his actions than to listen to his words.
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Nothing is the coolest than living in the expectation of the unknown.
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The emotional failure is to settle down, it is lonely persistence. If you have good luck, the result will be satisfactory.
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comparison is the thief who steals happiness.
Ta has a great figure, I want to be like this; with a partner, I want to fall in love; she earns more than me, I am so envious; am I better today than yesterday? All comparisons, whether they seem positive or negative, will only make you anxious and painful. Give up all horizontal or vertical comparisons and focus only on your current needs. Life will be much happier.
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Direction is more important than effort.But without hard work, no matter how good the direction is, it is useless.
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You will not become the omnipotent adult you wanted to be when you were a child, you will only become an ordinary person. Learn to accept your ordinary and incompetentness and learn to let yourself go.
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As long as you stand at the end, no one cares what posture you crawled over.
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html After the age of 130, we have to believe that the world and the world come together, and the heroes are not free. Everything is fate, and there is no way to do anything.
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will be full of reluctance to collagen and will not want to let go. But I understand the preciousness of survival experience better. is not scary at a young age, but it is scary only if you are old but not your brain.
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For most people, they may not be able to stand up at the age of 30. But it doesn't matter, you are only 30 years old, and life actually has a long way to go, so there is no need to worry about this number.
KY Author said:
When I read everyone's messages, I found that many truths were actually unexpectedly simple and plain, and even many of them were the "ordinary" truths that we have known for a long time and have been reminded by many people countless times, but we never seem to take them to heart.
During my own growth, I also discovered that the truth in this world has actually been transmitted to us as a child. But it is actually difficult for us who have not yet entered the world to understand the importance of a certain truth. I just want to say "I know" impatiently when my parents and teachers repeat it again and again.
Many people like me to watch some "I hope I can understand the truth" on the Internet, trying to steal the secrets of life success in this way, so that they can stand on the shoulders of giants, and complete the peak climb earlier.
I do not deny the value of sharing these experiences. I have also learned the truth I have never understood in various posts and tried to apply it to my life. I imagine that my life can be smooth and perfect based on this sentence alone.
It’s a pity that knowing a truth and truly understanding it are two completely different concepts. There are many detours in life, and you must take it yourself. has some truths. Only by personally experiencing them can they be transformed into experience and become a helper in our lives.
We will keep stumbling, making mistakes, regretting, and correcting them in our lives. Life will always teach us the truth we should understand bit by bit. Don’t be anxious, don’t be afraid of failure, don’t be afraid of detours.
