Part 1: Phenomenon Analysis
Diamond ring is recognized as a symbol of unswerving marriage. People have also formed the traditional using diamond rings as a marriage token. It is also true that when you see a diamond ring, you can think of marriage.
When it comes to marriage, you can definitely think of diamond rings. diamond ring is an indispensable and important prop for marriage proposals, and it is also a brand new beginning for two people.
I have never heard of girls complaining that the diamond ring my husband bought was not big enough, or someone was showing off how expensive his diamond ring was, but I have never heard of my mother-in-law asking for a diamond ring for her son-in-law. Let's take a look at what kind of story it is. 
Part 2: Classic Case Analysis
Last month, my good friend got married. Everyone said that the newlyweds were happy, but he couldn't be happy, and his unhappiness came from two diamond rings.
He is older than me. For the sake of convenience, just call him Brother Li. He and I are colleagues from the same department. He is what people call rich second generation, and the family conditions are still very good. Colleagues in the
department all know that he has a girlfriend who has been talking to for three years. We often joke that he is rich or infatuated. He found a few of us who were good at playing with and asked us to be his best men. Of course, we happily agreed to this job.
went to pick up the bride on the wedding day, and there was no problem in front of it. When we arrived at the woman's house, the house was filled with relatives, which was very lively. Of course, we groomsmen mainly focused on "hitting the door".
Brother Li stuffed dozens of red envelopes into the door, and we also said all kinds of good things. The voice of the bride and mother came from the door. He asked Brother Li if he really wanted to marry her girl back. Brother Li not only replied yes, but also lit his head like a rattle.
We all thought that the door was about to be opened, but the bride's mother spoke again, saying that she had seen the diamond ring that Brother Li bought for the girl. It was very beautiful and she liked it very much. In order to prove that Brother Li was also filial to the girl's parents, she also wanted one, otherwise they would not open it today.
Listening to this, I felt that I had refreshed my views. My friends who came to pick up the bride were also talking. I saw that Brother Li’s face was not good at that time. What’s the matter? There was a little girl who asked for a diamond ring for her boyfriend, and no mother-in-law who asked for a diamond ring for her son-in-law.
The relatives of the bride's house couldn't stand it anymore, so they asked the bride's mother to open the door quickly, otherwise it would be delayed and so many people would be waiting. After the persuasion of relatives, the bride and mother reluctantly opened the door, and she did not forget to tell Brother Li that she would remember to make up for the diamond ring.
From the time she picked up the bride to the hotel, Brother Li’s face was not very good. Later, a colleague who drove the wedding car told me that after receiving the bride into the car, Brother Li asked the bride what she thought about her mother’s diamond ring. The bride replied: Isn’t it just a diamond ring? Your family has no money.
A few days ago, Brother Li asked a few of us friends who were best friends to drink and relieve their boredom. Brother Li drank too much at the table and started talking about buying diamond rings. He said that he was not deducting it, and he couldn't afford a diamond ring, but he was just uncomfortable and threatening it with such a thing. His mother-in-law is still talking about this every day.
Originally, he thought that he would be filial to the elderly when he bought it, but his mother-in-law used divorce again. She said that if she didn't buy it, she would let her daughter divorce Brother Li. When Brother Li got angry, she said that it was impossible to buy a diamond ring. I only married one, and I would buy it for whoever I marry, and it would be okay to divorce. Then let me see the Civil Affairs Bureau.
When his mother-in-law heard Brother Li say this, she couldn't do it. She made trouble at home every day, saying that Brother Li was not kind-hearted and lied to her daughter's relationship, and she didn't want to be filial to the two old men at all.
Brother Li didn’t want to go back to his home for a while, he really wanted to get a divorce.
Part 3: Emotional analysis
The world is big, there are all kinds of wonders. The mother-in-law also came to ask for a diamond ring for her son-in-law . The old man doesn’t understand what the diamond ring means. Doesn’t his daughter know? Not only does he not dissuade and stop him, but he also says something like “Your family is not short of money to buy”. The elderly will not say it, and even the bride can’t tell it clearly.
This mother-in-law is really . She never gives up until she achieves her goal. She made unreasonable requests and threatened with her daughter's marriage. It's really a diamond ring that sees through the family.
The bride not only stops her mother’s unreasonable requests, but also takes it for granted. From this we can see that family education is very important and what kind of family education produces what kind of people.
Part 4: Emotional suggestions
Should I buy this diamond ring? I don’t think I should buy it. diamond ring symbolizes marriage and also symbolizes the love between two people. It has a different meaning from other things.
Even if the mother-in-law said that the diamond ring is to prove the son-in-law's filial piety, then we can prove it in another way, instead of asking for a diamond ring to prove marriage. The son-in-law buys a diamond ring for the mother-in-law, which is not a mess .
If a family like this is like this, then there will be more unreasonable things after that. The marriage is maintained by two people together. The bride allows her mother to make unreasonable requests and does not stop it. Instead, she allows her mother to threaten her husband. This marriage will not last long.
