Have you ever met a partner like this? If so, maybe, you met a "Uranus lover". Uranus lovers often appear different. They are not as sticky as other people's partners. They always need their own space.

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Have you ever met such a partner?

sequentially cold and hot,

is unpredictable.

If so, maybe, you met a " Uranus lover ".

Uranus lovers often appear different. They are not as sticky as other people's partners. They always need their own space. They are very rational and exudes a independent and temperament.

You are attracted by this temperament, but you are also troubled by this temperament. Their independence is so charming, but has a sense of distance . They look so free, but they seem to be wandering outside of relationships ...What are you thinking about? Do you really love you?

If you really understand what Uranus lovers are looking for in a relationship, these questions will have answers. You will find that it is easy to be with the king of heaven. Because there is no partner, I know better than them what exactly is: is both intimate and independent .

You bloom in your world,

I am wonderful in my world.

and we can be romantic together.

01 Who is Uranus lover? He loves you, but he dares not get close to you.

Speaking of "Uranus lover", the male lead of the new Korean drama "It's Mental Illness But It's OK" Kim Soo Hyun played such a lover. The male protagonist in the play has been moving since childhood, has strong independent living ability but has few friends. He is very restrained in the love process, is hot and cold , hesitant and passive, loves the other person but wants to stay away from - it is unpredictable. These performances are all "very king".

is cold, has a sense of distance, and looks very special. pursues independence, emotional restraint , objective, withdrawal, calm... These tags simply describe the characteristics of the king's lover.

Kim Soo-hyun was also a " Alien Maverick " who lives in his own world and keeps a distance from almost everyone around him in the popular Korean drama "You from the Stars". When in love, he always hides his sincerity, sometimes near and sometimes far away, and rarely expresses love but is restrained. It is also a true character for the king.

. Kim Soo-hyun, who plays both roles well, is also a standard " king lover " for the sun, moon and Mercury to fall into Aquarius at the same time.

What are the obvious astrological configurations of Uranus lovers? We first need to find Uranus . When Uranus forms a phase with the sun, moon, Venus, and Mars, and when Uranus falls into the 5th and 7th houses, we call this type of companion Uranus lovers. Then we can look at Aquarius . Aquarius falls into the above positions and is also a lover of the king.

How did the brain circuit of "Uranus lover" grow? If you are the "I King" of Heaven, how can you live better? If you are in love with them, how can get along better with it? ? As a king, let me turn on the "self-deprecating" mode and analyze this group of "alien creatures" with you.

02 keywords,
speed reading Uranus lover

Keywords 1: Cold

more or less, the king of heaven has a "no one who is new to enter" aura. When we get along with Uranus people, we will more or less feel a hint of "coldness" in the process. In social life, they are also practitioners of " The friendship between gentlemen is as light as water ".

If Pluto is not included in the planetary classification, Uranus is a planet in the solar system with the lowest temperature of . However, when such a low temperature is brought into an intimate relationship, the partner of the king will be surprised to be "watered cold water".

If you are looking forward to meeting someone who can greet you early and evening, report for three meals, or even provide meticulous emotional comfort, then Uranus people may most likely disappoint you. , providing long-lasting "constant temperature heating" is something they are not good at.

Keyword 2: Unique

The world and yourself in the eyes of the kings often appear unique in the angle. Perhaps it is because Uranus' rotation axis is tilted by nearly 98 degrees, and its pole is almost pointing to the sun. It is simply the only planet in the solar system that "lying down" orbits . When others think that the king of heaven is "strange", they think: "Those mortals don't understand me special."

The king is not only easily attracted to the " Maverick " object, but also the love model often "does not take the ordinary path". I have heard more than one Uranus lover say, "The marriage system is incompatible with human nature." Of course, this is just one of the manifestations of their "uniqueness".

When the mainstream large circles occupy 90% of the area, the remaining 10% may be divided into tens of thousands by different Uranus people... countless small circles , each of which is a formation.

Keyword 3: Extract

Tianwang people have a "bystander" temperament. No matter what happens, they seem to be able to " stay out of the matter ".

"I don't completely belong to this person, this relationship, this family, this group, this city, or even this world..." There is no need to be completely invested as their protective color, because they feel that "full investing" is dangerous. They need to use the third-party perspective of " spectator " to ensure that they observe rationally and think about calmly.

However, when Uranus people also have such a "bystander" mentality in love, they often make their partner fall into this doubt: "He/she looks like he/she is not like he/she is in love, and is not like he/she is in love; he/she seems to have one foot in love, and the other foot outside the relationship..."

Therefore, the king of heaven is also prone to bring the illusion that "the other party is ready to leave at any time." Even because has a strong sense of distance , partners who are not independent enough will panic.

Keywords 4: Independent

Heavenly king may pursue independent space throughout his life in . This is also the reason why they are often "criticized" for hot and cold, and sometimes near and sometimes far away. They are afraid that too sticky relationships will make them lose their sense of independence. Similarly, they will also respect other people's 's needs for self-space - not infringement, and not want to be infringed.

Even if you are under the same roof, some lovers of the king will love to sleep alone, or like to stay in a room where they are only and for a long time. Even if they are in the same room with each other, they may need independent areas.

not only in substantial space, but also in spiritual kings also need a sense of independence and freedom. Therefore, don’t ask them “what they are thinking” anymore. They who need spiritual space are really unwilling to reveal their thoughts.

But this does not mean they don't love you. But, they need to stay in their "alien" world for a while.

03 5 obvious signs of "Uranus lover"
When the astral body connects with Uranus or Aquarius, we will definitely hope to express our uniqueness through the energy of that astral body and the related house fields. When the astrological elements related to love meet Uranus or Aquarius , we are likely to show a sense of "different" or "not integrated" from the mainstream way when we get along with marriage and intimacy.

Symbol 1: Sun and Heaven phase

Sun water bottle can be referenced

Overall characteristics:

Sun and Heaven people often have a strong desire to show their own identity with the strong desire to show the self-uniqueness of . In the process of getting along with both sexes, the Sun and Heaven must not want to be completely restrained, and they need personal space very much.

Because Sun not only represents the self, but also the "father star" of each of us and the " Husband star " on the female chart. When we project the sun and sky energy to the outside rather than the inside, the characteristics of "distance", "distancing", "anti-traditional" related to Uranus can easily appear on the -positive character all over the body.

sun gods are often attracted by partners with unique ideas and transcendent vision . For women, it is easy to be favored by the arrogant and cool male-looking boys. On the realistic level, their partner often has interracial, exotic , or may also encounter long-term partners for various reasons.

positively presents:

When the sun and the king have a harmonious energy interaction, the father will usually give us enough freedom and respect during our growth process. They give their children a lot of room for growth, and the way parents and children get along is usually equal and rational.

When it is actively presented, the Sun Heavenly Man has the ability to see his own uniqueness and also has the ability to build an equal and appropriately distanced relationship with his partner.

Negative presentation:

When the negative characteristics of Uranus are exerted, the Sun and Heaven may have experienced "separation" from their father in childhood. Regardless of whether a substantial distance occurs or not, such a parent-child relationship always has some "distancing" meaning of . A more extreme manifestation may be that the father disappeared from the family role, which caused the Heavenly King to be disconnected from his own positive energy.

In intimate relationships, they either cannot implement long-term and stable relationships due to excessive pursuit of their own "freedom". Or you always attract unconsciously, making yourself feel "unable to catch" the other half, so as to repeat the plot of the subconscious attempt to capture the role of "father".

In the drama of the king of heaven, 's perception of positive energy is somewhat "shocking" . For example, when a Cancer woman thinks that a boy is a family-oriented and capable of doing housework is a big plus, the princess may think that such a opposite sex is "unusual" and "censored".

either plays a similar role by itself, or attracts unreliable opposite sex because of its pursuit of "good luck". When the characteristics of "undown-to-earth" are amplified, how should we implement feelings that can be rooted in life?

The road to advancement:

The root cause is that the deep psychological needs of the Sun and Heaven man are the desire for their "uniqueness" to be seen and recognized. This requires the Sun Tianren to recognize his own needs from the inner . Days of Heaven and Heaven should independently recognize their uniqueness, rather than resisting social disapproval through rebellion, nor projecting the pursuit of "uniqueness" onto their partner.

Sun God also needs to be aware that if you have experienced negative heavenly energy in your original family, you must be aware of whether you unconsciously use your intimate partner as a tool to repair childhood trauma. When the king of heaven independently bears the shadow of his childhood and realizes the inner obstacles of the past, the healing journey of the inner child of begins .

With an internal independent foundation, the Sun Tian people can play the positive characteristics of Uranus and show their uniqueness from the inside out. When we can truly be independent in our hearts, it is easier for us to develop intimate relationships full of equality and respect in marriage and love.

accepts your own uniqueness, assumes the responsibility of living out yourself, and does not depend on it or be afraid. Once we truly listen to the unique call within and live out the positive qualities of Uranus , we will not only be as powerful as the "inner father" we desire, but will also truly be ourselves.

At the same time, this inner foundation of independence will also attract us to the same unique companions.

Symbol 2: Moon and Heaven phase

Moon water bottle can be referenced

Overall characteristics:

Compared with the Sun Heavenly Man, the "sense of the Heavenly Man" of the Moon Heavenly Man is often more hidden. It may take a long time for the partner to discover Yuetianren: His/her external performance is very different from inner reality ! This is because the moon is our most private existence. When the moon falls in Aquarius or becomes in phase with Uranus, these people often keep a distance from their true emotions.

Yuetianren’s childhood family life, in fact, does not have a warm emotional flow . Yuetianren's parents, or mainly mothers, pay more attention to their children's mental education than emotional supply.

The partner that the 0th month heavenly person likes is usually not the type of "good wife and good mother". They like , a unique companion for mental communication, and hope to chat with their partners. Yuetianren are actually "friendly" lovers. They also have childlike innocence, and they are often very interesting to be with them.

If you have a partner in the moon phase, don’t “bind” them in the name of love. You can keep the protective shell of “distance” for them. They are by no means "unkind", and even when friends and relatives really need help, they will definitely "help with righteousness".

To establish a good intimate relationship with them, you just need to pull one end of the kite string and look at him from a distance . Yuetianren will be grateful that he can enjoy such freedom because of your understanding and tolerance, and your deep love.

positive presentation:

Monthly people usually have strong intuition. When they have a good awareness of their own changing emotions, they will also have a keen insight into the emotional ups and downs of others.

Monthly Heavenly Man in his original family, especially from his mother. Their desire for freedom also allowed them to grow some degree of independence , and the adaptability of to change .

is with Yuetianren, and the other half usually does not need to provide excessive emotional support. A relatively calm habit can allow Yuetianren to analyze their own and the other party's emotional needs in a rational way. In other words, they are usually not "high-demand giant babies" in close relationships, and they rarely perform nonsense scenes.

Negative presentation:

When the negative traits of the king are stimulated, Yuetianren will feel that too much emotional flow is not necessary, even if the inner world has already turned over. They may have hidden a sudden strong emotion under their seemingly calm appearance. In severe cases, you may be unable to control yourself and be troubled by emotional mutations.

This may be because Yuetianren has not received very good emotional responses in the family since childhood, especially in their interactions with their mothers. Some Yuetian people also experienced separation from their mothers or frequent moving houses when they were young, which led to their control of emotional "sense" is actually powerless .

Therefore, they often project the king traits of "alien" and "indifference" into their relationship. A typical example is that when lovers have a dispute with them, Yuetianren usually chooses to cold-treat . This is really easy to make your partner "crazy".

They are not "emotional wood people" with the "emotional reception antenna break" type, but they just don't know how to deal with it. At this time, they may "cut" the emotions that they cannot understand and deal with .

The road to advancement:

For the healing of Yuetian people, the first thing to do is recognize your emotions . When the bystander of emotions, they may be able to escape for a while, but the blockage of emotions still exists. At this time, you might as well let everything that should emerge, and then go to to follow, accept, and face .

Moon Heaven, especially Moon Heaven who are in difficult aspects, should try to be their own "inner mother".Be as brave as your mother, embrace your true emotions, and do not resist the ups and downs of emotions, nor do you resist the changes in life.

As the higher order of Mercury, Uranus represents extremely strong mental activities. Therefore, learning of mystery will also bring a greater sense of inner satisfaction to Yuetianren.

Symbol Three: Golden Heaven Phase

Venus Water Bottle can be referenced

Overall characteristics:

This is a group of planetary combinations with good social popularity. Most of the golden heavenly people have the characteristics of peach blossoms and popular . Jintianren usually like "cool" objects with Uranus characteristics, or in other words, they themselves are "full of electricity" types and know very well how to release their charm.

Jin Tianren is willing to give the other party a great degree of freedom and respect in their relationship. The subtext behind it is actually: " I need to get such freedom and respect. " For the other half of the Tianwang people, do not try to pull your distance in a "high pressure" way, as this may stimulate the Tianwang people to suddenly escape.

Interestingly, the Hungarian writer Petofi, who wrote "Life is precious, love is more expensive. If it is for freedom, both can be abandoned." This Hungarian writer "Freedom and Love" has the natal chart configuration of Venus and Uranus.

frontal presentation:

Jintianren’s view of choosing a mate, is usually not bound by secular frameworks . In their concepts, social norms such as age, appearance, wealth, class, and even gender should not be the criteria for judging whether "love" is established or not. Therefore, this is also a group of people with same-sex partners. They are not biased and have a high acceptance of all forms of feelings.

They do not have excessively sticky requirements for relationships, so you don’t have to worry about becoming “reluctant” because of a relationship. On the contrary, they are actually more afraid of being bound by because of their relationship.

Therefore, many of them are willing to accept long-distance relationship . They do not want their feelings to occupy the whole of their lives because they have the ability to create more abundance for themselves in other aspects of their lives.

Negative presentation:

The beginning of falling in love with Jin Tianren may have fallen in love unexpectedly like lightning. After establishing a romantic relationship, you may gradually realize that love does not go in the direction of deep love, but becomes increasingly alienated from , and even gives the other party a confusion of being trapped in the "gray area between friends and lovers."

If the other half sends a deeper emotional hint or makes a demand, the Jintianren often does not cooperate with , and even does not respond to . When the negative traits of Uranus are amplified, they are reluctant or do not know how to maintain intimate relationships using the "secular" recognition model.

, and even, they sometimes don’t show much nostalgia for the departure of their partner.

In addition, for Jin Tianren who are in close relationships, they often have a fear of "fear of falling into a mechanical pattern of getting along day after day". If they turn their relationship into "boiled water", they may feel bored. Therefore, when the Jintianren presents a negative pattern, will periodically fall into a love affair that suddenly begins and ends suddenly.

The road to advancement:

Jintianren can remind themselves like this: no one can consistently carry endless freshness, or Uranus-style "generator".

When you feel that a relationship is "tasteless and a pity to abandon", it does not always mean that there is something wrong with the other party or the relationship is not. 's fast withdrawal without consideration cannot solve the problem , but it is easy to lead to a plot that repeats the same mistakes. The long-term development of intimate relationships is ultimately towards the company of the 7th house.

We can not place the source of "stimulation" on the other party, but can actively create an interesting experience of in this relationship with our partner.

I once met a pair of Jintian lovers. In a few years, I traveled around dozens of countries by traveling in a difficult manner. For Jin Tianren and their lovers, it is very recommended that you create opportunities and experience fresh life experiences with your partner. Even if you cannot really "travel through mountains and rivers", you can work together to cultivate a common hobby of .

When we use Uranus as the "stimulation" itself and go to to explore ways we may bring new breath to love , you will find the "extremely fun" of the king-style love.

Symbol 4: Fire Heaven Phase

Mars Water Bottle can be referenced

Overall characteristics:

Be the good change of Uranus activates Mars , which symbolizes the power of action. This type of person will be very good at using actions to express their uniqueness, or defend their opinions and beliefs.

Especially when the Huotian aspect appears in female astrology , they are often attracted by men who are strong in action, have the courage to express their temper and attitude, and can break through the secular framework.

The relationship between the fire heaven people is usually full of speed and passion. They often tend to pursue in a fierce pursuit of their favorite object, and try to establish relationships in the fastest time.

frontal presentation:

Good presentation of Uranus energy will inject great impetus into Mars .

In close relationships, the Huotian people usually don’t have too much hesitation and entanglement. For the implementation of intimate relationships, they have the courage to express their desires with actions.

Huotian people desire freshness and stimulation in intimate relationships, which is also a booster they can provide to a relationship. In addition, as the two people's emotions deepen, they can also enjoy a lot of pleasure in their sexual relationships.

Because Mars is in the female chart, it symbolizes the image of an attractive male that we recognize. When we project the energy of Fire Heaven out, Fire Heaven Girl will easily be attracted by "action-based" boys. This type of men usually also have strong independence and distinct self-advocacy .

Negative presentation:

When Huotian presents a negative aspect, the partners attracted by Huotian people, in addition to the unpredictable temper of , may also have a violent tendency.

In the process of getting along intimate relationships, the fire heavenly people sometimes look like the active volcano . What is hidden under the surface may be their self-suppressed temperament that they do not want to be seen by the outside world. And when it erupts, there are often few signs of it, but is extremely destructive.

When Mars energy is used as a way to present their "uniqueness", they will not be able to withstand personnel or rules that will restrict them. In addition, they may also have some demands beyond the mainstream in terms of sex life.

When Mars and Uranus are in conflict, it may also cause some people to change their partners at high frequency. When the freshness at the beginning passes and the feeling of boredom comes, they will have the urge to make an excuse casually and then withdraw from .

The road to advancement:

How to use Mars' energy in a moderate manner will be an important issue that the Fire Heavenly Man needs to face.

Huotian people need to dig deep into the real motivation behind their behavior. Only when we understand the deep reason for our impulsivity can we control some of our unconscious reckless behaviors.

For women, if you often attract men with negative traits in Huotian, you need to look back and reflect on your childhood or past emotional experiences.For example, whether fathers or other surrounding men have impermanent emotions or behavioral expressions, whether these s affect themselves now maintain a positive cycle relationship.

The Mars release path needed by the Huotian people must be full of the uniqueness and variation of the king-style . Not following the trend, clarifying what you want, and working hard for it will be an effective way for Huotianren to soothe their "restless heart" with their actions.

If you can find someone who is willing to share with you " living a life ", your love will definitely be full of endless freshness and passion.

For the partners of the Huotian people, encourages and supports their actions and pursuits of , and communicates with them in a gentle way, rather than just pouring cold water or "head-on-head", will be an effective way to soothe their "angry" Mars.

Symbol 5: Uranus falls into the 7th house

Seventh palace falls into the water bottle. You can refer to

Overall characteristics:

Among all the signs of Uranus lovers, the Seventh Palace people in the 7th palace are probably the most group that needs a sense of space .

From a realistic perspective, the 7th House Heavenly King people have a certain probability of developing a marriage relationship with foreigners and foreigners . Or you can get along with your partner in for a long time in your marriage, and you may also have the opportunity to move to another country or city with your partner.

In addition, the seventh house, which is strongly influenced by Uranus, is also likely to be able to accept the open marriage mode.

For the other half of Uranus’ seven-household people, it is definitely the most important thing not to let them feel "restrained". What they yearn for is "partners" and what they are afraid of is "partners become bonds". When you can each enjoy the freedom from each other , you will definitely be able to experience the unique beauty of the distance just right together.

frontal presentation:

7 Palace kings may attract partners who are both active and charming in close relationships. The other party may be younger and energetic, or it may be very smart and agile. In such a relationship, the other party can bring a fresh vision and experience to himself, and he can also be energized by this relationship.

The relationships that the people of the Seven Palaces of Heavenly Kings must not be boring. They and each other can each have the ability to take responsibility for their colorful lives. Be happy to work with each other to create an "friendly" intimate relationship that can maintain their own space and communicate smoothly with each other.

Their love usually lacks a little "you love me" because what they recognize is "great love without trace". "If love lasts for a long time, how can it be in the morning and evening ." This ancient poem also describes the love of the lovers of the Seven Palaces Heavenly Kings.

Negative presentation:

When the negative nature of Uranus is amplified in the seventh house, intimate relationships are really easy for Uranus people to become a "siege": they are eager to enter when they are outside the city, and once they enter the city, they are eager to come out. They will hesitate to in the relationship and self-leverage paragraphs, and will walk around, but cannot find a balance point.

When the energy in the seventh house is projected out, we will be eager to find an interesting object. But when such demand is overstrengthened, we are likely to attract a partner , who seems full of vitality, but lacks maturity and stability, so that intimacy cannot advance as smoothly as expected.

The uncertainty of the king of heaven also makes us experience various relationships frequently, but is difficult to find a sense of belonging in relationships . Implementing a long-term, in-depth and stable relationship does not seem to be an easy task for the people of the Seven Palaces of the Heavenly Kings.

We may also like some objects that seem "weird" to others, or switch between completely different types of objects to show our unique pursuit on the stage of the Seventh Palace.

The road to advancement:

Seventh palace is the mirror of the first palace. The traits we desire to see in our partner are the traits we already have but have not yet developed. In the seventh house, if we frequently encounter "Uranus lovers", the first thing we need to do is actually , in contrast to our deep needs .

Because when we do not face the true desire brought by our own Uranus honestly, we will repeatedly project outward unconsciously, thereby repeatedly attracting the other half of the same type. This projection is also a reminder that sees the real self through the mirror of intimacy .

For the Seven Palaces of the Heavenly Kings, marriage relationships in the traditional sense may not be a necessity. Only when we establish our true desires and ensure our freedom in can we attract our partner who has similar needs and develop a relationship that is highly spiritually compatible.