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Sammi Cheng issue a statement, cherish it all.
In the past two days, the last fairy tale in Hong Kong has also been broken.
First, Andy Hui 16 minutes passionate video, and then quickly apologized.
The people who were eating melons thought Sammi Cheng might give up, and were worried that her depression would recur. In less than a day, she posted a message to forgive her and spoke sincerely.
This afternoon, Sammi Cheng posted a message to respond to "Andy Andy Lau cheated", saying that this is a common and important lesson in marriage. In addition to the happiness and warmth given to each other, marriage also deeply contains each other's mistakes and forgiveness. She firmly believes that the experience and lessons in marriage will definitely help get back on track, and she just hopes that everything will calm down and return to peace.
. After Sammi Cheng expressed her forgiveness in the afternoon, Xiang Tai posted a blog again, expressing her respect for her choice.
Just in the morning, Hong Kong media reported that she was emotionally broken, she kept crying, stayed asleep, did not answer the phone, refused to see anyone, and quickly moved out of her love nest. After the
incident broke out, Sammi Cheng changed the cover of the social networking website to black. Fans were afraid that she would be hit and that the recurrence of depression never recovered.
00 Time was pushed back to yesterday, Hong Kong media exposed a 16-minute intimate video of Andy Hui cheating on Huang Xinying . Touch your face, snuggle, hold your neck, and give a kiss.
was hacked to death and quickly slaughtered the hot searches on the list.
Andy Andy Lau and Sammi Cheng have been married for 6 years, and Wong Xinying and Ma Guoming are also dating.
Just one month ago, Sammi Cheng also posted a message saying that marriage is not easy and every couple must cherish it.
. According to people familiar with the matter, Andy Hui and Huang Xinying have actually been dating secretly for two years.
It is said that Huang Xinying met him through a staff member around Xu Zhian, and even went to concerts many times as a small fan. She also left messages to Xu Zhian from time to time.
Sammi Cheng even treats Huang Xinying as a friend, can exercise together, and wishes her a happy birthday.
7 o'clock last night, Andy Hui quickly held a press conference and publicly apologized with tears.
bluntly said that I am an ugly person. After seeing the report, I feel embarrassed, wrong, annoying, disgusting, and strange.
and explained: " I did drink a lot of alcohol that day, but drinking a lot of alcohol cannot be a reason for doing something wrong. I regret very much."
also announced that it would stop everything in order to pay for the error.
At the same time, he also posted on social media, apologizing to Sammi Cheng: This is a mistake that cannot be forgiven. I dare not ask for forgiveness because I have no way to forgive myself. I can only reflect deeply and with the most sincere attitude, I will say to all those who have been affected by this incident, I have really done something wrong, I am sorry!
This is indeed a good public relations. When you see many scenes of artists pretending to be dead when they cheat, they will resolutely not admit their mistakes. This sincere apology actually touched a group of people and stood up to praise him for being responsible.
, but today I was slapped in the face. Andy Hui’s friend said he was not drunk at that time. After the incident happened, people also posted articles to support Sammi Cheng.
17 in the early morning of 017, Hong Kong elder sister Da Xiangtai posted a message to criticize Andy Lau, and hoped that Sammi Cheng would let go as soon as possible and choose a path to make herself feel happy.
Yuan also expressed his concern for Sammi Cheng, "It's not that it's impossible to lose anyone, it's not that you can just keep it abreast of it. You have to be yourself and be self-reliant in everything.
This morning, Sammi Cheng's best friend posted an 800-word long article to speak out for her friends, calling Andy Lau a fickle person, and Huang Xinying had no conscience.
3-broken and reunited for 30 years. Now, the cheating is a solid person, Sammi Cheng has been in love for most of her life.
1991, they sang a song " Actually Do You Have Me in My Heart" together, staring for a long time, with deep affection in their eyes, and telling the world their love.
And today we listen to the song "Actually have me in your heart" again. The lyrics may point out everything -
Man: Love is so elusive and still not clear, let me recall the past again.
Female: I love you too much.
The trust and love accumulated over the years will be broken in the moment of cheating.
can be with you for 30 years. No one can easily give up the only man he has loved in his life.
How many women smile and say forgiveness, but they cry in their hearts for a long time?
Apology and forgiveness are always the easiest, but the road to restoring feelings is difficult.
Why are their relationship so entangled, and what attracts them together?
Why do they break up and get back together? Why did Sammi Cheng choose to forgive again?
is old and ugly. What exactly does Sammi Cheng like about him?
30 years ago, Sammi Cheng, who was a fledgling player, joined Huaxing Records and became Andy Lau's junior sister.
Facing such a beautiful person, Andy Hui took the initiative to ask for her phone number and called at 3 a.m. that night. From then on, he has to find reasons to chat for 2 or 3 hours of phone number every day.
But Andy Hui didn't know that Sammi Cheng had a crush on Andy Hui on the screen when she was 14 years old.
In order to get closer to him, I practiced singing hard. Why was Sammi Cheng attracted Andy Lau?
Sichung has five children in her family, three sisters above and one younger brother below.
In such a family, especially when they were young, the family was poor, and the father was busy earning money to support the family, so the children could not get enough care.
In order to take care of yourself, what Sammi Cheng learned is to idealize a person.
When talking about father, he always looks admiring.
She said she remembered that when she was in kindergarten, she had measles. In order to make her forget her illness, her father specially bought a small toy . Unfortunately, the little toy was accidentally lost during a moving process. Looking back now, she still feels very distressed.
The tendency to idealize a person was transferred to Andy Hui when she was 14 years old. She fell in love with this person who only appeared on the screen and had never even seen before.
There is a psychological experiment. The little duck was born and the first living thing he could see. Whether it is its mother duck, a dog, a cat, or a human, they all recognize this life and want to follow him slowly for a long time. No matter where it is ahead, as long as he is around you.
For Sammi Cheng, Andy Lau is the person he saw when he was just born.
A my visitor is the same. He always wants a stable and long-lasting relationship, but he can meet a scumbag every time.
I asked her, do these scumbags have anything in common?
She said that they all like to blame others and have a very irritable temper.
I continued to ask, did anyone often blame you when he was a child?
She was silent for a while, then lowered her head and shed tears silently. Her father loves drinking very much. Every night when he drinks too much, he scolds her at home. He still doesn't feel relieved when he scolds her, and then he throws things endlessly.
is obviously a person who is very bad to her, but her love does not disappear because of these bad things. She later searched for another similar person in her long life, and felt that her father was still by her in this way.
So, as long as you have a bad temper, as long as you often blame her. She just loved him and wanted to follow him and keep going.
And those good gentlemen, no matter how handsome and charming, or how much they take care of her, are not within her attention at all.
This is the vision of a woman. If you want to have a good relationship, the vision of a woman is very important.
The level of vision depends on the template of her inner feelings. If she has a good and mature relationship, she knows how to choose.
15 years of breaking up and reuniting, why can't you let it go?
A woman’s vision is very important, and growth is equally important.
2004, Sammi Cheng's new album was heavy, and she had asthma. The movie "Song of Everlasting Sorrow" has a bad reputation and suffered from depression.
When she was most helpless and needed company the most, Andy Hui broke up with her.
Andy Hui's departure took her the whole world.
She couldn't accept the breakup, stopped all her work, hid at home, and even fainted at home, but fortunately she was discovered by her family.
When she was in the most painful time, Andy Andy Lau was free and easy, and announced his breakup with the media in a high-profile manner, quickly finding a new love.
Since then, Sammi Cheng has been swearing that she is unmarried.
From 2006 to 2010, in four years, Andy Hui first fell in love with his assistant who had been with him for 15 years, and quickly cheated on the young model.
During this period, he also maintained a friend relationship with Sammi Cheng.
In 2008, although the two officially broke up for 4 years, they still flirted on stage, and couldn't help but sang the classic love song "Only You Are Not Replaceable" affectionately.
also broadcasts the screen with Andy Andy raised his thumbs up to appreciate Sammi Cheng. Finally, Andy Andy spoke as Brother Huaxing. He said: "I remember who was by my side and supporting me when I worked hard in the past..." Before he finished speaking, Sammi Cheng rushed to say: "It's me!"
as if he had regained the sweet memories of the past.
In December 2009, at the Sammi Cheng concert, Andy Andy Lau was invited as a guest.
Sammi Cheng was once again as shy as a girl. When introducing the guests, Sammi Cheng said, "There is a very special guest this night. I'll drink a sip of water first because the following song hasn't been sung for N years!"
band played her classic chorus with Andy Hui, "Actually Do You Have Me in Your Heart", and the audience screamed wildly.
Andy Andy Lau took a bouquet of roses to Sammi Cheng and gave it to Sammi Cheng. The scene was romantic.
But it was not until 2011 that Andy Hui broke up with the young model, and fired his assistant who had been in love for two or three years, and expressed his high profile to the media that he would pursue Sammi Cheng again.
holds 999 roses in Valentine's Day and dates Sammi Cheng.
Soon after, they got back together again.
There is a hot comment on Weibo: Men and women have been in love for more than ten years, not because they are so loyal to love, but because they do have too many problems in the process of getting along, but they are reluctant to part with each other and go around in circles.
40 years of life has been revolving around this man for more than 30 years. It is not surprising that people who are about to 5 choose to forgive me, but I am just regretful. When I was young, I can only advise myself in this way, it is too late to be in love.
004, they have never been separated. is a breaking and reunion, which is actually a breaking and reunion.
If a person does not grow up and always repeats old things, he can only get old results.
Is such a man worthy of forgiveness? Only one day after the video of
0 was revealed, Sammi Cheng decided to calm down alone and move out of the "Love Nest" today.
She is always so cruel to herself. Even if she is emotionally broken, she only crys alone. Even if she suffers from depression, she just hides at home alone.
Sammi Cheng is a person who fights against himself in everything. She said, "Do it with your heart and believe in yourself."
She believes that as long as I work hard, I will definitely win what I want.
is either thin or dead, it was once the catchphrase she said.
She was very cruel to herself and once said, "I have been hungry for many years, and I have no meal to eat." And running 8 kilometers every day is her requirement for herself.
At the Shanghai concert, there was a problem with the headphones and I couldn't hear the sound. After the jump, she asked to do it again and jumped for half an hour.
These efforts have made her career a huge success.After depression, she said, "My biggest enemy is myself. I have too high requirements and too picky. I have been unable to get along with myself for so many years, but later I corrected this idea, which is equivalent to letting myself go and no longer being unable to get along with myself. I have become much happier."
She is even more desperate in love.
Because if there is no such person around you, life will become too terrible.
A person’s greatest fear in life is loneliness.
For example, a mother always controls her child, no matter how big or small. Because she lost her child, she became lonely just by herself.
For example, a mother-in-law always sticks to her son and quarrels with her daughter-in-law every day. Because she lost her son, she became lonely just by herself.
For example, a husband always suspects that his wife cheats on her and quarrels every day.
Because he lost his wife, he became lonely just by himself.
Loneliness is like another kind of death to them.
However, some people are not afraid of loneliness because there is always someone living in their hearts.
When a person was young, he was able to keep these loves in his heart by his mother, and his mother lived in his heart.
Even if my mother leaves him and is not by his side, he knows that he is loved and not lonely.
This person is like a lighthouse, like faith, giving their lives a direction.
This person is also like dry food and food, which makes them never feel thirsty and hungry during the adventure of their lives.
And some people don’t have this figure in their hearts. Once their mother leaves him, he is like a person falling in the darkness, falling into fear and anxiety, just wanting to try hard to get back that figure.
Sammi Cheng has been using it for 30 years, and what he wants to catch up is Andy Hui.
This is actually a kind of "malignant symbiosis", that is, if you leave me, half of me will be gone.
So, no matter what you do, no matter what happens. I still want to keep you by my side. And forgiveness has nothing but two futures.
As just as written in Sammi Cheng ins, marriage not only provides happiness and warmth to each other, but also deeply contains each other's mistakes and each other's forgiveness.
I firmly believe that experiences and lessons will definitely help get back on track.
Another type, if forgiveness is not the real growth of the two, it is just because they can't let go and cannot be separated.
The future is just a repetition of the previous breakup and reunion, and mutual harm.
If this is true, I hope that a kind and brave woman like Sammi Cheng can suffer less harm.
