In the long life, if you walk the right direction at the critical moment, your life journey will be very exciting.
Marriage is an important choice. If you choose the right person to get married, it will be helpful to your life and career, and your life will be smoother and smoother.
What kind of girl is easy to marry well? I believe that the answers that many people think of are some visual advantages such as "beautiful" and "good figure".
It is undeniable that beautiful things are always more popular. However, people who marry well in reality are not limited to the value of appearance. instead they figure out what they want in marriage, make the right choice, and finally meet the right person.
Today we invite senior matchmakers with many years of experience to tell you what the girls they have witnessed have done right.
clarify the direction and strive to create "good"
Teacher Zhang, service experience: 8 years
What does it mean to marry well?
not only refers to marrying a partner with good financial conditions, but also the partner should have good qualities and be willing to work hard for the sake of marriage and family. The couple has the same views, like-mindedness and a common goal.
Even if you don’t have much money at the moment, you are rich and happy in your heart.
Deng Lin, who is about to enter the 30-year-old, has come into contact with many blind date men, including good financial conditions and relatively matching personalities, which makes her experience the troubles of choice.
Matchmaker asked her to let go of the burden in her heart, start from her own feelings, and think about what kind of partner she wants to find. Depending on your needs, consider whether to expect material or spiritual satisfaction.
Marriage and family are a lifelong thing for two people. She should seriously think about the future family life and the scene she is looking forward to.
Under the colouring and analysis of the matchmaker teacher, Deng Lin quickly determined her direction of choosing a spouse.
Between bread and love, she is more willing to choose the latter and create happiness together. After all, a superior life can be achieved by working together, but happiness cannot be bought.
Last June, she met Wang Ming. Both sides like House Music and share common interests and topics. After a period of contact, she thought the other party was a person worthy of trust, so she seized the opportunity and took the initiative to enhance the relationship between the two parties.
Compared with other blind date partners with superior economic conditions, Wang Ming is just an ordinary IT engineer. But with Deng Lin's arrival, they quickly created a happy and harmonious little family. Through hard work, they bought their own house and had their own little baby, creating a happy married life.
Deng Lin’s direction of choosing a mate is very clear, with a unique vision, and he will never waver if he sees it correctly, and both sides will work together for the small family. When the sweetness fades away, the most real marriage life is left. Whether you are truly happy and happy in your ordinary daily life may be able to define whether you are "married well".
rushes in both directions and gains love
Teacher Chen, service experience: 10 years
When an ordinary girl with no delicate face and devilish figure marrys well, many people will attribute it to luck.
is not the case. Many times by chance, is because of some inevitable factors.
Wang Hao is considered young and promising. He started his own business and has purchased his own house in first-tier cities and has taken root and stayed.
In the matchmaker's evaluation system, he is a high-quality resource in the marriage and love market and is a favored by many women in blind date matching. However, his wife He Qing was unexpected.
does not have delicate facial features and outstanding figure. He Qing gives everyone the impression of a girl who likes to laugh. In Wang Hao's opinion, He Qing is different from the girls he has dated before. Although does not have a very outstanding appearance, he feels very comfortable when getting along with him.
They can successfully hold hands because He Qing remembers the emotional tips given by the matchmaker:
● Don’t treat blind dates as the opportunity for girls to "pursuing".
Both parties are equal, and should work together to promote this relationship.
If you are looking forward to this emotional relationship, please show your sincerity.
Their love spark burst out, from both sides - they made an appointment to go to the movie, he went to queue up to buy tickets, and found that He Qing was holding two buckets of popcorn and two bottles of soda in both hands. Seeing him coming back, he ran towards him with a sunny smile. In just a moment, he felt a feeling of heartbeat.
According to the past, he needed to buy good tickets early and buy good snacks to wait. All of this is the duty of a boy in the eyes of girls, and he feels very tired over the long run. This time it was different. He went to buy tickets and the other party went to buy snacks. was such a small detail, which made him feel He Qing's warmth and sincerity, which thumped the silent heart.
He Qing has no appearance advantage, but he has the determination to go and can take care of the other person's feelings in daily small things. Some people think that it is luck that she married well, but this seemingly unmatched combination hides the happiness that only the two of them can realize.
Looking at the wishes, sharing the same sufferings can bring you the same joys
Tian, service experience: 7 years
Under the influence of literature and film and television works, many people believe that if you marry well, you can have food and clothing without worries. They all look forward to the story of Cinderella meeting a prince coming to them.
However, in reality, if you want to reap happiness, First of all, you must learn to accept the less perfect side of life.
Li Yang has never been very sure about the direction of choosing a spouse. Teacher Matchmaker introduced to her Liu Mingfeng who is starting a business, and both parties have a very consistent relationship with their personalities. But at that time, Liu Mingfeng suffered some setbacks in his business and seemed a little discouraged, so Li Yang had contacted him for a while and was still hesitating.
Matchmaker believes that it cannot be just based on the present. Marriage needs to be managed together, so he constantly gives Li Yang confidence. Afterwards, Li Yang used his connections to provide some help to Liu Mingfeng and kept encouraging him during his trough. In May last year, Liu Mingfeng's company development was on track and the future development was promising, so he immediately proposed to Li Yang.
Marriages that only want to share happiness and cannot share sorrow are often prone to "flying their own lives". If you want to marry well, you don’t want to enjoy the success. Li Yang and Mr. Li Yang and his wife worked together, supported each other, and finally tasted the joy of the fruits of happiness, making both sides cherish and care for each other more.
Evaluation whether you are married well. Materiality is just an external condition. To form a family mainly depends on whether the two parties can gain spiritual satisfaction and happiness when they are together.
Material rich can only mean good living conditions, and does not mean that marriage life is happy.
To marry well, you need to understand your heart and choose the right person to accompany you.
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