Su Min bravely scolded her husband,
became popular all over the Internet, and everyone encouraged her to divorce quickly.
Su Min scolded her husband and scolded the voices of tens of millions of female netizens. She said.
"Living with him is just depression and pressure."
"Not only do I not spend a penny on him, I also have to cook for him every day, clean him, and wash him clothes."
Su Min's husband abides by the law and seems to have not cheated. The two have worked hard to achieve a certain family background, and the children educated are not bad. He is not a man with all the poisons, but he is scolded by the entire network.
Yayi, let’s take a look, what’s wrong with him?
The following picture is about to divorce Su Min, but there is actually -
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Aunt Su's husband is the same as the husband of female netizens. The main disadvantages are that has low emotional intelligence, speaks badly, does not do housework, and hopes to be coaxed by the master of the old society, and hopes to be served on the bonus of marriage and is comfortable to be served. She longs for a lot of children and grandchildren but is unwilling to pay
so she wants to exploit her wife.
This kind of marriage is tolerant when a woman has no financial ability. The problem is that more and more women are becoming more and more independent like Su Min. After they educated their children to adulthood, they found that there was no need to maintain their marriage.
So, Aunt Su left for two years with the encouragement of millions of fans.
This year, Mid-Autumn Festival , Su Min returned to his hometown in Henan.
Su Min said that before Mid-Autumn Festival , the female friends who had her self-driving trips went home one after another.
She also misses her elderly mother. Although she had a bad relationship with her husband, she still lived in her daughter's house in Zhengzhou for the sake of the children and asked her husband to come and reunite. What will happen if
is two years?
Su Min's husband, a typical wife, this is the straight man's straight, the straight man's straight, the straight man's straight, the one who will never change.
Wife made a pot of gnocchi . He didn't call his wife when he entered the door. As soon as he entered the door, he spoke, he blamed, sarcastic, and cold accountability:
"You still know you're back!"
"I can't get through anymore, right? I'm back."
get along with each other after two years.
Two people quarreled over trivial matters, asking her to serve food, clothing, housing and transportation, and were arrogant and always reasonable, undisputed, and unquestionable.
Temperament is always frying, throwing bowls in the kitchen, standing next to him regardless of his grandson.
He didn't know his every move, and was watched by millions of netizens.
He said domineeringly:
"What are you taking? I'm not afraid of taking pictures."
Netizens said that Su Min’s husband is really a dead pig, so he is not afraid of boiling water.
Netizen said: A woman has been away for two years, and her husband is still a bastard when she returns.
Amid the support from netizens, Su Min was preparing to leave her house for her husband and wanted to divorce herself.
The whole network applauded, and the reporter came to report, and the public opinion was one-sided.
Yayi was confused. Where did the three views of secular culture go? As the world is getting worse, where is the sacredness of marriage?
Big V Li Ailing commented:
His bones are so virtuous - even if he is useless and can't even eat without his wife, as long as his wife comes home, he still has to be arrogant, ridicule, defame, and use all the humiliation to prove that his wife is not as good as bullshit.
Alas, a female writer who doesn’t scold her husband cannot become a big V. Yayi has not become a big V so far, but I scold men without being emotional.
Yayi feels that it is useless to scold him.
Many emotional big Vs teach people to divorce and make a revolution in every possible way
What is the use? Men can only be selected, not educated. Even love cannot be changed. You need to use marriage and divorce to transform him (punish him). Haha, save it.
men cannot be modified, but they can be gentlely nurtured. Generally speaking, good men have been conceived 4 times.
mother is pregnant and her body is born.
school is born and is used to being born.
Faith is bred and the soul is reborn.
Wife is pregnant and has a new look.
Haha, give your own example. Before marriage, I felt that my husband, Mr. Jin, was thrifty, and after marriage, I was almost crazy.
He took me to the supermarket to shop around. I watched him and a group of aunts squeeze in the surging crowd in the special offer area from afar, sneering.
I cut off the spoiled trophy and hid it in the cabinet. I waited for Mr. Jin to clean up a few times before wearing it.
When Mr. Jin asked how much money this month cost, he hesitated and looked at him.
This state lasted for ten years. I decided that he was a petty citizen and a vulgar man, and he was not on the same level as me... Later, how did I find the breakthrough point?
One day, the group leader talked about the issue of husband and wife unity and believed that husband and wife should be financially transparent. I expressed my fear: Once the financial situation is transparent, my family will turn me into a person who is not covered in clothes and cannot eat... The leader of
said, OK, then you try to to give birth to him and give him a new birth.
What does it mean?
For example, if you are pregnant, you have to be patient, right? You can't take pictures of four-dimensional color ultrasound every day to see how your baby looks. Similarly, you must be so patient with your husband's spiritual being, spiritual life, consumption habits, and cultural literacy.
is pregnant, and the uterus protects the fetus completely, covers it, and surrounds it, right? Otherwise, the fetus will be hurt, right? Similarly, when a husband is weak, you have to wrap it up for him and tightly.
fetus, in addition to nutrients, also requires a sense of security and acceptance, right? You can't just dislike the fetus from prenatal education, this is bad, that's bad. Similarly, for your husband, you use blessings to inject nutrients into him, giving him a sense of security and acceptance - you often complain about your Mr. Jin and you are reluctant to spend money. Have you noticed that he is very decisive when making some major investments.
Besides, when you are pregnant, you must always focus on the benefits. Think about the benefits that this fetus brings to you when it grows up? The same goes for nurturing a husband. Look at Mr. Jin, how much benefit has it given you? The house price he bought has risen, so let's not mention it for now. If he hadn't given you popular science all day long, the supermarket price, discount price, vegetable market price, vegetable store price downstairs and farmers' prices on the roadside, how could you have the awareness of comparing the stores? How could you make bargaining and selling goods your own business?
One word is better than reading for ten years.
I made a plan for myself to have a "ten month old husband". In the past ten months, no matter how disappointed me, he didn't care or complain, but just wrapped him with blessings, praised him, praised him, and counted the benefits.
For example: I took him to the mall to buy clothes, but he didn't want this, and he disliked him. He used his mobile phone to compare prices online... In the strange eyes of the salesperson, my self-esteem broke again. I waved my hand and said that I wanted to buy it.
h? It's similar to Su Min's husband. He uses the stupidest way for straight men to "taste" his wife. He scolds me - Do you have to go to heaven if you make some money? Do you think you are capable? Are you very awesome? NO, NO, NO, NO, you can't do it.
I suppressed my anger and didn't buy it for now, go home.
I told myself that at this moment, my husband is not yet ripe and cannot be pulled out of his uterus and teach him a lesson... I will wrap him up first, and then talk about it. Come on, I will sing a poem first, slowly.
During the process of giving birth to my husband in the 10-month period, I thought a lot. The inherited shackles of
are broken if they should be broken.
past injuries, it is time to treat.
Demon\The spiritual shackles given to him by the ghost, open it when it is time to open it.
The wall he set up for himself, and if it is time to demolish it, it will be demolished.
Our language has authority. Problems that cannot be solved with complaints can be changed with blessings. The various limitations seen in the material world can be broken through and released with words.
I told Mr. Jin that we are so happy thanks to you being thrifty and financial managers. Every day, when I talk about it, I feel numb, but the other party still likes to listen. Men are so superficial
In less than 10 months, Mr. Jin changed.
One day, we went shopping.
see a restaurant that may be expensive. He said he was not hungry and looked at me eating alone with a smile - he expressed his protest in another way. This method has made great progress compared to the previous black face and leaving.
has initially achieved results. Although it was a small step, I praised him desperately.
I estimate that in several years, we can move forward in terms of consumption methods and living habits, and no one feels wronged.
Many sisters asked me: I have fought with my husband for so many years, but it is useless at all.
He is still too lazy to be outrageous, ridiculously childish, and selfish.
Su Min, using two years of personal experience, tell us that If you run away for two years, he will not change at all, but you will die, he will marry another young and beautiful person, and will reveal his true face of being lazy, straightforward and selfish in a few years.
The stubborn personality of a straight man, you just dig out his brain and smash it with a hammer, and he can still be resurrected in full blood in minutes. It is exactly the same as before
Yayi personally tells you that it is useless for me to fight for ten years. Then, my son gradually grew up and showed a straight male personality that was becoming more and more similar to his father. Oh my God.
All kinds of methods are useless, try "ten months of pregnancy". Keep a certain shortcomings of your husband in your heart like a fetus, and bless him in the opposite direction every day, look at the benefits, praise him, not picky, not worry about it for 10 months, not counting, not holding grudges...
Ten days later, Yayi is about to celebrate his birthday.
Last year, I was looking forward to the surprise and never reminded me. But he and his son forgot my birthday together
.
I have to change routines this year.
So, I told them two weeks in advance what birthday dishes I want to eat, what gifts I want, how do you arrange them properly, how many words do you want to write to me for my son's greeting card, and asked Mr. Jin to make a list to do it...
Then, I blingbling with big eyes and said expectantly to them-Dear, In addition, in addition, in addition, You will definitely surprise me, right? Because you are so smart, creative, pleasing to the eye and have a sense of family responsibility?
Middle-aged women, the key is to adjust at any time.
Learn from your mistakes and gain wisdom.
For straight men, they can only be smart and show weakness, and they cannot be forced. You should give your vision, praise it to death, and praise it in detail. But in action, you should give
specific, specific, specific paths can be taken, only a little growth at a time.PS, straight men are not creative, I can only teach you a little bit, teach you step by step
The whole world, the unlovely immature husband, in a word: The little soul in his tall body lacks a pacifier. The little boy in his heart pops up from time to time, pollutes the diapers, asks for attention and care. what to do?
Aunt Su Min’s road is not easy. Fighting, escaping, running away and separating will not solve the fundamental problem. Divorce seems to have been solved, but in fact it creates more problems
What should I do?
Taking immature spouses as a school.
Thanksgiving + praise + pregnancy.
Use life to support it, support it with blessings, and wrap it with all aspects of life. Let others see his brightness, make him feel more respectful, and his whole body has advantages shining, but only you can see the shortcomings
For a long time, keep the engagement and show kindness, conceive him again, give him once, give him once, and cultivate him once.
Can he be refreshed, at least you have no loss. Every day, I train my straight men at home to make progress a little bit every year on my birthday. Perhaps, my daughter-in-law can save worry and surprise in the future
Thanksgiving + praise = useful.
My stubborn stones have been opened, your cow dung will bloom, mud will come on the wall, and the prodigal son will turn back.
This is life, hope for everything. If you choose a spouse blindly, it does not mean that your marriage has failed. But, if it is not a last resort, don't make a divorce casually. Only by respecting the inviolability of marriage and keeping the promises and loving one's heart can one be resurrected from the dead and provoking a way out.
