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1. Women must be self-reliant and self-reliant at any time.

Women must know that a self-reliant woman is the most beautiful. This is the prerequisite for you to find an ideal marriage that changes your destiny.

Women should have their own career or job. This is not only the financial source of your life, but also a display of your self-worth. When you focus on your work, focus on improving the skills required for your work, focus on learning and transforming your own knowledge, and when you focus on it, your work will be recognized, and your self-confidence will make you shine from the inside out. , only then can you gain recognition and appreciation from others, and only then can you meet your ideal marriage. Even if your future marriage fails, your ability to work can prevent you from becoming an abandoned wife, and can also help you find love in your second life. Don't feel sorry for yourself at any time. Self-reliance and self-improvement are a woman's best weapons in love and life.

If you are not self-reliant and self-improvement, no matter how good your appearance is, you will only be someone else’s plaything and passer-by.

2. Marriage can change your destiny, but the prerequisite is your self-reliance and self-improvement

The appearance that a man likes is only temporary, but the ability and character he likes are the core of a good marriage.

If a person from the lower class wants to marry into a high-class family, it is not because you have a peerless face, not to mention that peerless looks are hard to come by, and youth is fleeting, and there will always be times when someone’s pearls turn yellow. Only when you are self-reliant and your abilities are recognized and appreciated can high-class people notice you and you have the opportunity to touch their lives. With such a foundation, it is possible for you to truly know, understand and communicate with each other in depth, and it is possible to build emotions. Appearance may be what attracts men, but appearance without connotation is most likely to be forgotten. And if you don't have the ability to use , you will be abandoned even if you enter the upper class.

No one can deny that marriage can change your destiny, but you must know that the prerequisite for obtaining such a marriage is your own self-reliance.

3. A woman who is not self-reliant may be knocked back to her original shape even if she encounters a marriage that can change her destiny.

A woman who is not self-reliant may be knocked back to her original shape at any time even if she encounters a marriage that can change her destiny.

Marriage in the upper class is not love, their marriage is more realistic than that of ordinary people. The purpose of their union is either business integration, exchange of resources, or the reality of capital, a true marriage of interests. As an ordinary person, you have to understand what value you have in their eyes. When you have nothing that they can get, it is just a passing relationship. Even if you marry into a wealthy family and become a full-time wife, you must have connotation, otherwise you will not dare to take her out. You must also be knowledgeable, otherwise you will not even be able to take care of your children. A woman who is not independent will only deserve it if she is abandoned in the future.

Marriage is a transaction. A man gives you the opportunity to change your destiny, but you must also give the other person the energy to support his career. Otherwise, when your appearance changes, you will only be an abandoned wife or a plaything.

4. Don’t become a fake socialite who specializes in fishing for a wealthy husband.

There is nothing wrong with pursuing a marriage that can change your destiny, but don’t become a fake socialite who specializes in fishing for a wealthy husband.

I don’t know when, a group of fake socialites who specialize in catching gold turtles appeared. They dress themselves up as high-spending, high-looking, and high-taste socialites by buying and selling, and they specially appear in places where the rich, handsome, and wealthy play. Create opportunities to get close to rich and handsome people, so as to find the so-called destiny-changing marriage for yourself. There are even so-called professional training institutions in society that specifically focus on how to be a socialite and how to catch golden turtles. We need to know how many people are rich, how many people want to change their destiny through marriage, and what is the success rate? In the end, how many people just become playthings and passing away. Instead of focusing on it, why not live your life well and use your own efforts to realize your ideals of life?

Use your own abilities to improve your quality of life, and use your own abilities to change your destiny. If you are really good, be quiet and open, and butterflies will come.

Changing your destiny can be done through marriage, but it can also be accomplished through your own efforts. There are too many variables in changing your destiny through marriage, but the happiness created through your own hands is real and long-lasting. Just like marriage, you should pursue it by yourself. If you don't take action, the so-called fate will not come to you.

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