Author: Parents Hall
Speaking of Zhu Xinyi , you may not be very familiar with it. This Taiwanese female artist made her official debut in 2008 by starring in the family comedy " Joy Comes to Amuse ". In 2011, she won the award for "Sharp Wife" The 46th Taiwan TV Golden Bell Awards Drama Program Supporting Actress Award.
What’s more worth mentioning is that her husband is Jia Jingwen ’s younger brother Jia Pengli .
Zhu Xinyi and Jia Pengli registered their marriage in 2011, and gave birth to their eldest son Dibao in the same year, and their youngest son Lele in 2016.
Zhu Xinyi
Recently, according to Taiwanese media reports, although Zhu Xinyi lost a lot of weight through fitness after giving birth to her second child, she did not expect to experience weight rebound soon. Coupled with endocrine and thyroid problems, emphysema and edema followed. The whole person is even more fat and out of control.
Seeing his wife becoming more and more plump, Jia Pengli disliked her very much and often ridiculed her. His two sons followed the same example and laughed at their mother with their father, and even gave her the nickname "Fat Fat Pig".
Alyssa Chia and Zhu Xinyi couple
The ridicule from her husband and son has always made Zhu Xinyi very uncomfortable. She also revealed that once her youngest son saw her appearance in "The Sharp Wife" on TV and said that this aunt is so beautiful, which made her very stimulated. Make up your mind to “lose weight”!
After a lot of hard work, Zhu Xinyi finally succeeded in losing 5 kilograms. She said: If she loses another 8 kilograms, she can regain her previous figure.
Since losing weight, Jia Pengli's attitude towards her has also changed greatly. Zhu Xinyi said:
"The way my husband looks at me is different now. In the past, he didn't even want to walk with me."
This celebrity dad
you She is setting a wrong example
Although as a mother of two children, Zhu Xinyi has successfully lost weight and her physical condition must have improved, which makes everyone feel relieved, but having said that, when she gained weight, her husband's attitude was still infuriating.
Many netizens saw this situation and left messages asking Zhu Xinyi, "Why do you keep such a man?"
Some netizens left messages about their own completely opposite experience. They also gained weight, but the love of their husband and children for them was not affected.
Another netizen said the truth: "As long as one of the spouses does not respect the other, the children in the family will follow suit."
Indeed, when Jia Pengli laughed at his wife's out-of-shape figure, the two Sons also imitate their father and adopt the same attitude as his father.
Don’t learn from him
Just be a good example
Parents are their children’s first teachers and closest “role models”. Therefore, please be sure to start with “respecting your significant other” and lead by example to teach your children Respect others and don’t become a “bad role model” around your children!
To respect your significant other, you can start from the following aspects:
â‘ Respect differences
Many families have a division of labor in which "men take charge of the outside and women take charge of the house" or "female takes charge of the outside and men take charge of the house", although the division of labor between husband and wife is They are different, but they are all contributing to the family. A husband who works outside the home should not dislike his wife who takes care of the children at home. Only by caring for each other can we walk side by side.
② Husband and wife > Parent-child
In a good family structure, the relationship between husband and wife should be more important than the relationship between parents and children. Parents should first let their children understand that you love and respect each other, and then let them feel your common love for them. . If the child is "raised" on a pedestal, or one spouse joins the child in ostracizing or ridiculing the other spouse, it will only make the family atmosphere worse.
③ Even if we quarrel, we should keep the rules
"You are not worthy", "I am blind", "Can you care", "I am unlucky", "Marrying you is the biggest mistake", "Let's divorce" and so on If you are cruel and unfeeling, never say whatever you want during a quarrel. The harm caused by words is often more difficult to heal than physical harm.
In addition, if a husband and wife have a dispute over something, it is best to do it when they are alone. Do not reprimand or even fight in front of the children. Once a dispute occurs in front of the children, please reconcile in front of the children afterwards. Let this matter come to an end in the child's mind.
Children are the mirror of the family. Their words and deeds reveal the family's upbringing and even subtly reflect the relationship between the entire family members.
Don’t take the lead in mocking your mother like the father in the case, please set a good example for him to respect his partner!
