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For rural people, it is a rare thing for a family to marry a foreign daughter-in-law.
Therefore, in a small village in Puyang, Henan, the wedding of a Chinese and foreign couple attracted a lot of attention.
The groom, Haitao (pseudonym), was born and raised in this village. He was just 40 years old when he got married, while the bride, Anna (pseudonym), is a 28-year-old Ukrainian beauty with fair skin. There is a 12-year age difference between the two.
0-year-old takeaway uncle marries Ukrainian beauty 12 years younger
In rural areas, it is difficult to meet a foreigner, let alone marry a "foreign daughter-in-law", especially with such a big age difference between the groom and the bride, many people still I think it was "bought" by the groom's family.
Regarding this, the groom was a little bit dumbfounded, but he was still very proud and said that he "chatted" it on his own ability! It turned out that he and his wife met online.
He used to do food delivery work in Beijing and was a veritable "delivery uncle". Although it is hard work, the income is not bad, and I earn seven or eight thousand a month.
However, I have been traveling abroad for a long time and have never had the opportunity to find a partner. As a result, I am still single in my thirties.
At this age, he would always be gossiped about in the village, so every time he came home during the holidays, his family would arrange a blind date. Although
has dated many girls, he has never been successful and has remained single.
In 2017, he was injured in an accident while delivering food and had to be hospitalized for a period of time.
During his hospitalization, he had nothing to do, so he started learning English by himself at the suggestion of his cousin.
In order to learn English, he registered a software that can chat with foreigners. On this, he met the Ukrainian girl Anna.
The first time they chatted, they both felt unhappy with each other. Because Anna called him "guy", in Haitao's Chinese mind, it is very impolite to greet people with "guy".
However, since it was for the purpose of chatting, the two of them continued chatting.
Gradually, Haitao learned that Anna was a Ukrainian girl. Her parents divorced and she and her sisters lived with their mother. She was 12 years younger than him and is now a nurse.
Anna used this software for the same reason as Haitao. She also wanted to find foreigners to practice English. At that time, Haitao happened to be the first one recommended, so she found him.
The two of them became more familiar with each other as they chatted. Later, they would also video chat and send photos to each other, and their feelings gradually accumulated.
Although the other party is a beautiful foreign girl, Haitao feels that she is very kind because Anna lives in a small town and usually does farm work and raises cattle at home.
Haitao, who was also born in a rural area, is familiar with all this, and feels that Anna is different from the foreigners he saw in Beijing. She is very kind.
Later, Anna invited Haitao to visit their country. Although it was a bit of a joke, Haitao took it seriously. After checking the air tickets, the two met in Kiev soon.
On the day of the meeting, Haitao was waiting for Anna in the coffee shop with roses. He was nervous at first because he knew that he was not good-looking and had a bit of a squint.
But Anna thinks he is very romantic. Although he is 12 years older than her, he looks very young.
They were very happy with this meeting, which also strengthened Haitao's desire to marry Anna. The next year, Haitao went to Anna's house and helped Anna's mother with farm work, which made Anna's mother very happy.
This time, he expressed to Anna that he wanted to marry her, and also expressed his worry that he was not worthy of him. Anna felt that he was extremely sincere and readily agreed to his proposal.
After another year of exotic love , Anna came to China to find Haitao. Haitao took her back to his hometown in Henan to meet his parents. When they learned that he had brought back a foreign wife, the whole village was very excited.
Anna is also very satisfied with China, but she feels that prices in China are a bit high and she is afraid that she will not be able to adapt to it. After all, she only earns about 1,300 yuan a month in Ukraine.
However, Haitao reassured her, because he could earn less than 10,000 yuan a month in Beijing, so he would have no problem supporting his family.
In this way, the two held a Chinese-style wedding in China. Since there is no custom of bride price in Ukraine, they also saved a lot of money. However, Haitao still prepared good gifts for Anna's family.
After getting married, Anna quit her job and settled in China. Because she also grew up in rural Ukraine, even though rural China was different, she quickly adapted to life here.
Now Anna has given birth to a child. When she was pregnant, Haitao was so happy that he quit his job in Beijing and took his wife to play outside before going home to have the baby.
Now the young couple is living a very happy life. Anna is also learning Chinese. Everyone in the village is very friendly and enthusiastic to her. She said she likes it here more and more.
Successful transnational love is not without reason
Such transnational love is indeed enviable. Generally speaking, it will become more and more difficult for older single rural people to find a wife, but Haitao was lucky enough to find Anna.
The problem of high betrothal gifts is also very common in rural areas, and there are many cases of falling out because of the betrothal gifts. However, Haitao did not spend a cent of the betrothal gift money and still lived a happy and nourishing life after marriage.
In fact, the fact that they are so happy has a lot to do with their similar backgrounds. For example, although their nationalities are different, they all come from rural areas.
Although the man is not outstanding, his income can support the family and he is considerate to his wife. Although there is a big age gap, there is not much difference in youth between the two in appearance.
Dad Xuan has something to say.
html A 128-year-old Ukrainian beauty married a 40-year-old uncle from a rural area in Henan. She didn’t need a bride price and lived in the countryside. She was still extremely happy after the marriage.
Why are they so happy? In addition to love, of course it also has a lot to do with their respective real situations. Although their nationalities are different, to a certain extent, the two are matched. What do you think?
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