After the divorce of Huang Jiaqian and Xia Keli was exposed on July 6, the incident continued to ferment. By July 11, "friends" of both parties broke the news to the media. The woman's friends accused the man of being irresponsible. The woman had to go to a psychiatrist; the man's friend listed the woman's five major sins... Well, another Rashomon episode is about to begin.
Another Rashomon that brought an end to the 16-year marriage.
Although Xia Keli is more famous than Huang Jiaqian because of his appearance on the show in the mainland, Huang Jiaqian is more famous locally because of his good family background, singing in his early years, and his later transformation into hosting, The career of being a female clown has been quite successful, and she is more influential than Xia Keli, who came across the ocean, made his acting debut, and then continued to participate in variety shows. Therefore, her current momentum is even stronger, and she has also hired a barrister who previously helped Fukuhara Ai with her divorce lawsuit.
However, even so, the two sides still inevitably have to stage a back-and-forth public opinion war in front of the public, and according to past practice, the parties involved in this kind of war often do not appear in person, and "friends break the news" to provide the ammunition for the other party. A sudden and violent bombing.
Huang Jiaqian’s friends have been online for a long time. On the day when the divorce news was first exposed, friend A borrowed a dog and insinuated that Xia Keli went crazy and bit people. Later, friend B said that he did not expect the two parties to get divorced. He knew that this family had Huang Jiaqian has been living in Canada for a while. When he has work, Huang Jiaqian will fly back to his hometown alone. The implication is that Huang Jiaqian is very busy in order to take care of the family;
On July 10, friend C stepped forward and said that Huang Jiaqian had sacrificed a lot for his marriage and had suffered mental torture in the past four years. In order to save the marriage, Huang Jiaqian registered all the properties in his family under the name of Xia Keli. The two parties also sold these properties and moved to Canada to settle down. But even so, it still did not end well. The last time Huang Jiaqian went to Canada, he almost fled back to his hometown. Until now, People are still seeing psychiatrists.
Huang Jiaqian continued to exert force here, and Xia Keli was not idle either. After he said "Thank you for your concern" indifferently, his friends also spoke up for him through social media, listing Huang Jiaqian's five major crimes in one breath:
First, Huang Jiaqian treated Xia Keli coldly, Xia Keli came back for isolation, and Huang Jiaqian did not come Look at him, and don't prepare daily necessities for him;
Secondly, Huang Jiaqian made full use of local advantages to powerfully control everything about Xia Keli;
Thirdly, in order to fight the divorce battle, Huang Jiaqian did not hesitate to use any means, even forging domestic violence recordings; Fourth, Xia Keli was in danger, and Huang Jiaqian did not help clarify in time, causing him to lose his job;
In the end, Xia Keli has been wholeheartedly spending time with his children, while Huang Jiaqian only takes after-school classes and tutors.
Well, obviously, it’s time for both sides to give completely different opinions on the same problem. At this time, the only thing that the once loving couple can still agree on is "the fault is definitely not mine." Faced with such a tit-for-tat confrontation, everyone can probably only wait for the bullets to fly for a while.
"Unexpected" divorce
Because they took their daughter to appear on "Where Are We Going, Dad " in the summer and because their daughter's princess-like appearance in the show, people have always thought that Xia Keli and Huang Jiaqian should be in a happy and harmonious state. . Therefore, everyone was particularly surprised when it was revealed on July 6 that he was in the process of getting a divorce.
In fact, not only the public, but also the media who dug up the news did not dare to believe it at first. When the court saw the information about Huang Jiaqian's lawsuit, they mistakenly thought it was just the same name. It was not until they found out that the person facing him in court was Xia Keli that they really confirmed that the two were divorcing. .
However, when the news further fermented, everyone realized that they had been deceived by the subconscious, and the emotional problems of the two people had actually been exposed long ago.
Xia Keli and Huang Jiaqian met through drama in 2005 and officially got married in 2006. The marriage got into trouble once in the seventh year. At that time, it was revealed that the two had undergone marriage counseling, and Xia Keli was also photographed going to a "convenience hotel." In the end, the matter came to an end when Huang Jiaqian clarified and supported her husband.
However, some conflicts can be resolved through mediation, but some conflicts...cannot be reconciled no matter what.
In 2019, Huang Jiaqian admitted on the show that his happiness was all an illusion. In fact, his marriage was full of holes, and the couple once separated. She also felt very miserable and could not feel happy at home.
Such a marital status, coupled with the special relationship between the two foreign couples, made the subsequent epidemic even worse for them. Although not meeting each other avoids daily quarrels to a certain extent, fundamental and principled conflicts such as children and family have also surfaced, causing the relationship between the two to eventually lead to this "unexpected" and "expected" divorce outcome.
When everyone saw the news of the divorce of two people, their first reaction was what should the children do. They felt that the summer of 2009, when they were born, had just entered adolescence, a time when they were rebellious and needed careful care from their parents. During this period, either parent was absent. It might lay a lot of hidden dangers for her future life, but in fact...if Xia Keli and Huang Jiaqian's marriage has reached the state they described, divorce would be the best choice.
Rather than letting yourself and your children endure the cycle of low pressure, conflicts and arguments, it is better to say goodbye in style and let everyone breathe a sigh of relief. However, it is better to avoid public opinion wars before divorce as much as possible. This will really hurt people...
