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As it approaches the middle of July, I noticed that some bizarre things are starting to appear on the Internet again...
It's not the singing in the middle of the night or the woman in red, but a group of people who seem to have traveled back to the Qing Dynasty, always dreaming of returning to the Qing Dynasty... ...become a prostitute, a concubine, and give birth to a son for the stepfather.
Are they really living in 2020?
I don’t know if I’ve watched too many time-travel dramas, but the recent Internet has always given people a trend of “thinking back to their ancestors”.
. "Yangzhou Slim Horse"-style preparatory class for wealthy families
During the Ming and Qing Dynasties, there was a huge profit investment in Yangzhou. Businessmen invested in buying back good-looking girls from poor families and training them. They taught them singing, dancing, music, chess, calligraphy and painting, and they grew up Later, they were sold to rich people as concubines or sent to Qin Tower and Chu Palace to make profits.
The "Tianwangsao Preparatory Class", which has been criticized by netizens recently, has the flavor of "Yangzhou Slim Horse".
When Wilber Pan announced his wife's identity, Wang Sicong posted a mysterious message on Moments, naming her by name and saying, "Sister Amy is still very powerful. She has two generals beside her, one is married to the king Aaron Kwok, and the other is married to Wilber Pan. She is so powerful. "
There are rumors that this sister Amy is the introducer between Luna and Fang Yuan.
Some netizens revealed that such a "Tianwang Sister-in-Law Training Camp" does exist, and even said that "it only takes four steps for a mortal to become a Heavenly King's Wife."
Source Hong Kong media
The first step is appearance. Students will build themselves according to the standards of Internet celebrities;
Then, under the leadership of "mentors", they go to hotels or attractions to check in. Due to limited resources, they often share one piece of clothing and one handbag. , a hotel, an afternoon tea, a journey.
Because it is an assembly line operation, the photos that come out are very similar regardless of the angle and pose.
It is said that in addition to creating a "white, rich and beautiful" character, "virtuous skills" such as cooking and flower arrangement are also required courses.
luna had posted a set of cooking pictures before, but the results were exactly the same as those posted by another internet celebrity, and he was suspected of stealing the pictures.
As a result, the "stolen picture" internet celebrity came forward to clarify, saying that "neighbors cooked a meal at home and shared each other's food... I don't understand why society is so malicious towards women."
But it is clear that both of them wrote the same thing. : Today’s Kitchen.
The third step is to follow the instructor into nightclubs or private parties, sneak into celebrity private rooms or booths, and get closer to the "target". After obtaining the contact information, a tutor will guide you step by step on how to reply until the other party is completely "hooked".
Source Hong Kong media
At Wang Sicong’s ultra-luxury private birthday party held in Sanya in 2015, more than a hundred Internet celebrities and models gathered at the scene, including Luna.
As for the fourth step, the celebrity is required to express his feelings publicly, with the purpose of letting other "students" see the results of the instructor's training.
According to netizens, the threshold for this training camp is not low. The entry level is 1 million, and girls with 2 points of appearance and figure will be the first to be persuaded to leave. However, there is also another saying that the tuition fees can be "arrears" first, and after the students successfully get married, they will be Commissions are charged based on the student's target's status or net worth.
Regarding the rumors of the "Tianwang Sister-in-Law Training Camp", Wilber Pan issued a statement through his studio to protect his wife, saying that it was defamatory remarks. Later, it was rumored on the Internet that he divorced because of his wife's dark history, which was also denied by the person involved.
Such "training camps for the king's wives" are indeed incredible, but "training classes for wealthy families" are nothing new.
As early as ten years ago, training courses for marrying rich people had already emerged in major cities.
At the beginning, the trainers were based on women's virtues, and mainly taught how to get along with mother-in-law, and what clothes to wear when meeting parents for the first time.
Obviously this does not meet the needs of students, and only a few people signed up. Until the school launched the concept of marrying a rich man, everyone started to sign up enthusiastically.
The registration fee for such institutions is around 20,000 yuan. When you first become a student, you need to fill out a 16-19 page form, which includes your body measurements.
Source: Southern News Network
This kind of institution does not accept everyone. A certain 21-year-old girl had acne on her face and was rejected by the person in charge to ensure the quality of teaching.
From: Southern News Network
The teaching content of the course covers more than 30 kinds, starting from Western food, makeup, golf, after-sales service, honoring parents after marriage, and how to deal with the husband's extramarital affair.
In fact, the courses of this kind of training institution are similar. What is learned in the courses is not important. What is important is the personal connections behind the course organizers.
In these training classes, you can attend some high-end social receptions from time to time to increase your chances of getting acquainted with multi-millionaires, and some "diamond kings" will also take the initiative to find suitable wives through these institutions.
They believe that "marriage is the second reincarnation of women", so they hope that by marrying a "multi-millionaire", they can achieve a class jump and gain admission to the upper class.
. If they want to take a male fetus or turn a female into a male, they must give birth to a son for their stepfather!
I don’t know how many of the girls who participated in the “Marry a Multimillionaire” program have gotten what they wanted, and may be working hard to have sons.
According to Hong Kong media reports, after Fang Yuan married Aaron Kwok, because she gave birth to two daughters in succession, King Guo set up the "Kowloon Chasing Formation" and the "Kilin Formation" to facilitate the birth of children.
Although Aaron Kwok's style and dance moves often lead the trend, he is born in the 1960s after all, so it is understandable that he has more traditional ideas. However, He Youjun, who was born in the 1995s, is obsessed with the son of his eldest grandson, which makes people suspect that he has passed through the previous dynasty.
After Xi Mengyao gave birth to his son, his long articles emphasized the eldest grandson, male son, and son. So He Youjun also had a new certification-the father of the eldest grandson.
In fact, most of the gambling king's family business was inherited by his daughters He Chaoqiong and He Chaofeng. This unique practice of "passing on from daughter to son" is rare among wealthy Chinese.
There are many ordinary families who are more obsessed with finding a son to inherit the throne than the King of Gamblers.
Looking through various maternal and child forums, there are always young mothers who are keen on confusing behaviors such as "picking up a baby boy" and "turning a girl into a boy."
The so-called "receiving a boy" means that after pregnancy, without knowing whether the baby is a boy or a girl, one can leave comments or likes on the photos of mothers who have given birth to a boy, as a way of "praying". I hope that The baby in my belly is also a boy.
What's even more ridiculous is "female to male", that is, after knowing that the fetus is a daughter through various illegal means, they still hope that the fetus will undergo a gender mutation and become a boy.
In fact, many young parents know that the gender of the fetus has been determined as early as the fertilized egg. The so-called "successful comeback" is nothing more than a misjudgment of previous predictions.
Some mothers even choose to abort their fetuses in "pain" after confirming that there is no hope of "turning over". There are many reasons, such as second marriages, already having two daughters, husbands carrying mortgages and foreign debts, and not being able to support them. They just give up. reasons.
It seems that if you are pregnant with a male fetus, all these difficulties can be overcome.
In 2020, we are still living a life like "Mother's Way", but the heroine in "Mother's Way" at least treats her daughters well. Many young mothers treat their biological daughters like nothing.
. Are famous prostitutes and concubines of warlords fighting over each other?
If Yangzhou's bad habits of thin horses and favoring boys over girls have been around for a long time, then the "concubine makeup" that has become popular on major platforms recently is even more confusing.
They wore fancy cheongsams and retro makeup, lovingly assuming the roles of "warlord and concubine".
There are also confusing comments on Weibo about wanting to be a prostitute in ancient times, not the top-notch kind, "knowing some obscene poems and songs, good at serving people with sex... an ordinary benefactor, collecting money to do things, a handsome young man, working hard" "Point", reading between the lines, intoxicated in his own fantasy.
Such a time-travel dream, I don’t know whether to call it stupidity or ignorance.
Why do people born in the 1990s show signs of "returning to their ancestors"?
From the popularity of "concubine makeup" on the platform to the confusing "wanting to go back to ancient times to be a prostitute", many passers-by are quite puzzled. Why do these young prostitutes start to dream of the old days?
When "common sense" is not common sense at all, a girl who wants to be a warlord's concubine or a prostitute is essentially because of ignorance.
I have watched too many romances, and my knowledge of prostitutes and concubines is limited to a few costume dramas with beautiful paintings. I thought that I could enjoy Ruoxi's treatment even in the past. My childhood sweetheart was a prince, and my partner was either a prince or an emperor.
Looking at the women living in brothels on the screen being picked up and run away by the male protagonist, the "confidantes" of the dignitaries who have no status, their gorgeous outfits, the concubines who are more prosperous than their real wives at home, some girls who are very confident in themselves think, I If her appearance could go back to ancient times, she would be a beloved concubine, right?
There have always been works that reveal the true face of old society. Zhang Yimou's "Raise the Red Lantern" is a movie that talks about the plight of "concubines".
You are the little wife, which means that there is a master in this family, and you are the high-level slave responsible for serving the night life. In "Raise the Red Lantern", the KPIs of several aunts and wives have to be publicly executed. If the master goes to whichever aunt's room he works in, he will hang more red lanterns at the door.
Don't think that just because you are young and beautiful, you can soar into the sky with the help of the master and kill several other concubines. The eldest wife is sitting and asking questions, but you have to stand.
Do you think that poor performance is at best a lack of light? Wrong, she would also put a black cloth bag on the lantern and announce to the whole family that this concubine has fallen out of favor and everyone should stay away from her.
This is not the most desolate thing. If you don't live a satisfactory life in this lonely deep house and have no interest in the bad old man, so you have an extramarital affair and are caught, you will be punished by the family law and you will not be able to die in peace.
The so-called concubine is just an object to the rich and warlords.
Zhang Xianzong, the representative of warlord appearance, feeds Yue Qiluo to his concubines from the first few houses; Mr. Hua like Yang Sen has no idea how many wives he has. He usually beats a few to death with a whip and throws them into the homeless pile when he escapes. ...If you follow this kind of person, can you have a good life?
If you can't be a concubine, how about you be a considerate, charming and charming brothel girl in a land of fireworks?
They probably thought that the girls in the brothel were all the fragrant girls in "Golden Boughs of Desire", who grew up in the mire but remained untainted, played the piano and practiced calligraphy when they had nothing to do, and occasionally entertained romantic young men like Sun Baiyang, who only came to her to drink and express their feelings.
The movie "Sisters, Sisters Stand Up" in the 1950s is a true portrayal of prostitutes. A concubine is a fixed service to one person and has a basic salary, while a prostitute has no limit on the number of people she can serve, and her wages are unstable.
What should I do if I am infected with an infectious disease? To treat poisonous diseases, just apply a hot iron to your crotch to warm it up.
This is not to throw cold water. There are so many exposure platforms now, and only those people who have become famous in the Internet celebrity circle. Who gives some people the confidence to be oirans in the past?
Most likely, it is daily work + infectious disease + miscarriage. If you are sick, you will be rolled up and thrown away. When you go out, you will shout heartbreakingly, "Mom, I can also help you make money!"
I don’t want to study, I don’t want to study... In the old society, people would not refuse to pick up guests just because they were young.
At the end of the story of "Sisters, Sisters Stand Up", the prostitutes who turned over became the builders of new women. They had the opportunity to control their destiny, and also had higher pursuits and consciousness than ordinary women; Women who suffer from the pain of undervaluing their daughters, the sun never shines into their minds. When they grow old, they pass on the feudal remnant thoughts and continue to encourage others to suffer.
In addition to spreading incense, the three aunts and six wives who have never achieved any great achievements in their lives love to persuade the younger generation, "The most important thing for a person is to have children."
This is another level of ignorant of - their parents educated them this way, so they copied it to educate their children.
I suffer from the preference for sons over daughters, and then I long for my daughter-in-law to have a son. I can only live around the pot all my life, and then block my daughter from making progress.
The daughter-in-law and daughter back then are now mothers-in-law and mothers, and they want to copy the same life for their next generation.
Women are easily affected by the environment. Even female celebrities will be induced to give birth when they return home.
The difference is that female stars have seen the world better than many ordinary girls. They are forced to get married and have children, so they can digest it on their own.
After more girls were forced into marriage and had children, they unknowingly chose this step and even became "preferring boys over girls".
Those who dream of returning to the Qing Dynasty also have one thing in common, that is Mu Qiang.
They believe that a warlord has status, and being his accessory is higher than that of ordinary people; it is more comfortable to be a dignitary's wife than to be a peasant woman; sooner or later, you will get married and have children, so it is better to marry a rich man in one step. of.
Clinging to a man who is more capable than yourself will be more reliable, easier and faster than working alone. It is the most cost-effective shortcut. Once you succeed, you can win.
Many women have this idea because of more realistic economic problems.
When society generally believes that women are not worthy of inheriting property, then naturally many people think that having a daughter is not cost-effective. When society generally believes that men are more likely to succeed, then there will be more women who want to cling to men.
Sister E’s conclusion:
I think what we should be wary of is that there are always people trying to muddy the water, and then selling consumerism in the noise.
The overall thinking of the public tends to be conservative. This is an objective fact. Simply rejecting and attacking their views may bring some likes and gain some traffic, but in the end it will be difficult to contribute to social progress.
What's the point of laughing at Wilber Pan? He may not be ignorant at all. For the media, it is better to put down their dignity and say some common sense that they thought everyone knew before.
If girls don’t know what a warlord’s concubine is like, tell them about their concubine’s suffering. If people have misunderstandings about "famous prostitutes", they should objectively explore the status constraints of brothel women. Tell them that in the towering "Colorful Houses" in "A Picture Along the River During the Qingming Festival", prostitutes under the franchise system have almost no control over their bodies, and their lives are like grass and have no dignity...
If we can do something, go We should work hard to eliminate the impact of flat characterization in literary and artistic works and make common sense truly become common sense. Then the world may get better, right?
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