In the past few days, the headlines of major media, Weibo and WeChat Moments have been dominated by the news of the death of a person, she is Yao Beina. An excellent singer who is only 33 years old may not have many people paying attention or even knowing about her at the beginning. Even if people know her, they know that she has participated in The Voice of China and has sung the theme songs of several popular TV series. Others may receive little attention. So why did Yao Beina's death attract so many people's attention?
Not afraid of terminal illness and persistence in music
The reason why Yao Beina's death has attracted so many people's attention is not just because of the songs she left behind, nor is it because of the public's curiosity about a star. People are I am mourning a person I have never met, why am I not moved by her story?
html started practicing piano at the age of 04 and debuted on stage at the age of 9. Singing from behind the scenes to the front of the stage, from the beginning of life to the end of life. Yao Beina is well-known in the music circle. She has sung the theme song "River of Life" for Feng Xiaogang's movie "1942", the theme song "The Legend of Zhen Huan" in the TV series "The Beauty Tribulation" and all the episodes in the drama, etc. He became popular again after participating in the second season of "The Voice of China" and appeared on the CCTV Spring Festival Gala three times in 2007, 2010 and 2014.was diagnosed with breast cancer when he was 29 years old. Instead of conservative treatment, he chose to undergo surgery and the highest intensity chemotherapy after surgery. During the chemotherapy, he started taking traditional Chinese medicine. When he knew that there might be "bad things" growing in his left breast and was waiting for surgery, he once I have never cried. During the chemotherapy period, I went to the recording studio to record the theme song and interlude of "The Legend of Zhen Huan". A new album was released a year after the operation, and she participated in the highly competitive "The Voice"... Yao Beina said that even her mother was very happy. I was surprised at how strong she showed after getting sick, "I don't think it's strong, I just think that even if I get sick, I won't have to change my life."
"I have had a "pretentious" spirit since I was a child, and I have a stubborn spirit. , If everyone says something is scary, I don’t believe it. I want to know what is so scary. “In Yao Beina’s case, looking directly at the disease and working hard to defeat it is the only option.” If you have a cold or appendicitis, you have to go to treatment, so why should you avoid it if you have cancer? "
There is a permanent scar on her left breast. Be careful when wearing a dress. Yao Beina "doesn't want others to see it", as if it is hers alone. A personal medal. "I think this scar is pretty cool. It's full of my experience. Not everyone has it. Breast cancer makes women feel scary. Part of the reason is that they worry about the changes in their bodies. This may be the most difficult thing for girls to overcome. Fear. In fact, I want to say that the appearance will not change much. You must listen to the doctor when it comes to treatment. If it is not suitable for breast conservation, don’t do it.”
Yao Beina said something she believed in several times. If you die in a well, you won’t die in a river." This never worried her too much. Of course, she did not have the "pressure of long-term fight against cancer." "From a risk perspective, no one can say what will happen tomorrow. Why, so I said that the present moment is the most important thing."
In her story, we have more or less found some inspirations about life. Death is not scary. What is scary is that when death comes, you are not ready yet. Be prepared, you still have too many things to regret.
Behind strength is a kind heart
She is not afraid of death, she knows that people will always die, but what scares her is the pain caused to her family, friends and fans when parting. This is a woman who leaves hope and smile behind. Yao Beina left us with the world. There was no crying or sadness on her Weibo, but there was laughter and hope. She showed her best self to everyone who cared about her.
It is said that when she first discovered that she was sick, she never cried. She took on the responsibility of educating others every day, and she also laughed and called herself a tomboy. "While I was hospitalized, I saw all kinds of things in the world, and it was not without emotion that if I want to find a healthy body, I can't drag around a broken heart."After
finished her treatment, she became the spokesperson for the Pink Ribbon Movement. She used herself as an example to remind women to take care of their bodies; the last photo she left to the world was a bright smile; the last update she left to her friends was warmth. Heartfelt relief: "Actually, it's not what the outside world said, but I really have to rest this time, and WeChat is not always open, so I didn't reply to everyone in time. Feel sorry! I look forward to having a good time together next time when I am discharged from the hospital. Love you guys! "The impression she left on the people around her was not like a patient at all.
The girl who first sang "Maybe Tomorrow" on the stage of The Voice wearing a red T-shirt and jeans. Music is the greatest happiness, and her bright smile makes people forget She had gone through so much pain when her old illness relapsed, and she sang on stage until she coughed up blood, and she was still apologizing for not being able to reply to her friends and fans in time - it was not a cuckoo-like sadness, but more like burning her life. Her optimism seems to come from the strength of her character, just like her singing voice, which is as innocent as velvet and as strong as armor, so she signed an agreement before she fell into coma to donate the only eye suitable for cancer patients. Cornea. Until the end, she left her best things to the world, and continued to illuminate the world of others with her eyes. Although she has passed away for a long time, she is remembered by us and is no longer just a good person. Sound.
Yao Beina's Pink Ribbon tips
1 Physical examination is very important, even when you feel healthy.
Because sometimes you don't feel any strangeness or pain in your body, but lesions may have occurred, so regular examinations are required. Breast examination is very important. You can also easily perform self-examination by observation and touch. If you find breast hyperplasia, don't ignore it. Traditional Chinese medicine believes that breast hyperplasia is "blockage of qi and blood", and you can see a doctor for relevant treatment.
2 Breast health knowledge reserve
I think every woman should have enough breast health knowledge. It is not difficult to obtain this knowledge now. There are specialized books, open online resources, etc. After you have accumulated this knowledge, if you are physically healthy. When there are subtle changes and some health signals are released, it is easier for you to detect and catch, which is helpful for early detection of problems.
3 Comprehensive conditioning of the body
I was able to leave the hospital and get better quickly. I think part of the reason is that I was undergoing chemotherapy. Traditional Chinese medicine conditioning begins during this period. The treatment plan of Western medicine is more focused on the focus of the disease, while Chinese medicine will make a comprehensive adjustment for your entire body.
4 Listen to the body's needs. Don't deliberately diet or lose weight. Give your body the energy it needs. I think it's wrong to do anything that goes against the laws of nature and science. Sometimes you may be fatter because of your genes. Don't go against it. Only when you are in a happy mood, a good mood is definitely the basis of health. We see some people who eat in compliance with the "health rules", but they may not be very healthy. This does not mean that their approach is wrong in itself, but They may have ignored the "spiritual needs" of the body.
Celebrities mourned
Liu Huan: It hurts to lose Yao Beier!
Zhang Ziyi: Hold those notes, the flowers that will never wither!
Sun Li: How should parents bear this pain? It must be good, this must also be my daughter's wish.
Huang Xiaoming: I like your singing! A kind-hearted girl, the voice of an angel will always remain in people's hearts. Have a good journey...
Zhao Wei: Your voice will always be left to us, rest in peace!
Fan Bingbing: Beautiful girl, people are warmed by your voice and continue to sing in another world.
Li Bingbing: A beautiful angel with a heavenly voice, you are the shortest flower and the longest amber.
Wang Feng: Some people live as if they are dead, and some people leave but remain in our hearts. Good girl, may you be well in heaven...
Tong Dawei: Your life has been burned to the fullest. You let me see an artist's love and persistence for his career, which made me admire and move him.
Liu Yifei: I hope her family and friends who love her know that she and her singing will always be in their ears and hearts, and will never be far away.
Sun Nan: Yesterday I saw the song we sang together on TV, but we have no chance to meet again in this life. I feel very sad and lament the impermanence of life! Dear Yao Beina, I wish you peace and happiness in heaven!
