Early this morning, Elva Hsiao announced that she and her boyfriend Huang Hao had broken up.
's reason for breaking up was that "the two parties have different ideas", so "I wish both of them can find the direction they want."
Huang Hao is 16 years younger than Elva Hsiao. He seems to be her boyfriend with the biggest age difference, but is he also the longest-lasting boyfriend she has dated in recent years?
In 2017, when Huang Hao was still in college, Elva Hsiao’s driver picked him up in a luxury car and took him back to Elva Hsiao’s home.
When their relationship was exposed in 2019, Taiwanese media said that the two had been secretly in love for a year and a half.
I thought that the Taiwanese media was just trying to catch the wind and put the title of "Fresh Meat Harvester" on Elva Hsiao, but I didn't expect Elva Hsiao to make her relationship public on her own.
It wasn’t until we saw the scene of the big sister kissing the little wolf dog that we 200% believed that Elva Hsiao was happy.
At that time, Elva Hsiao was 40 years old and Huang Hao was 24 years old. Although they did not look like siblings 16 years apart in love, many people wanted to watch the excitement and wanted to see how love could work under the huge age difference. How long to hold on.
Unexpectedly, the two of them persisted from 2017 to 2021. They even appeared on "Daughters' Love" last year, showing the love process in 360 degrees.
At that time, Elva Hsiao’s status as the “Fresh Meat Bodhisattva” became even more stable – believe Elva, she can control all the little meats as she pleases!
After Ke Zhendong and before Huang Hao, Elva Hsiao briefly dated several boyfriends, but she would hardly say anything publicly about those romantic relationships.
But it can be seen that Xiao Yaxuan is really interested in Huang Hao, and he does not hide the state of being devoted to Huang Hao at all.
For a period of time, Elva Hsiao's physical condition was very bad, which once made her prone to depression - she would be so depressed that she would forget to breathe, causing cerebral hypoxia headaches, and she would lose control and throw things, and become autistic.
Elva Hsiao said that it was Huang Hao who helped her get out of the low period of stomach problems and bipolar disorder.
A person who has absolutely no interest in getting married. He even loved Huang Hao so much that he wanted to give birth to a child for him.
If Elva Hsiao and Huang Hao hadn't been bitten by a dog at the beginning of this year, maybe they wouldn't have broken up so quickly?
In February this year, it was revealed that Elva Hsiao and Huang Hao went to the emergency room late at night because they were bitten on the face by a dog. Elva Hsiao's later "report of safety" also showed that she was "not very safe":
Elva Hsiao said that she was very world-weary during the more than two months in the hospital. She could only lie down and not move. It hurt when talking, crying or laughing, or picking her nose. The facial cells are necrotic and the skin is still recovering. Her boyfriend Huang Hao is in better condition and the skin has not fallen off.
According to the account of Elva Hsiao’s friend, Elva Hsiao suffered an emotional breakdown because of the scars on her face, and often huddled in the corner of the toilet and cried violently.
Since that period of time, Elva Hsiao and Huang Hao basically stopped interacting.
In March this year, Taiwanese media sent a message to greet Elva Hsiao, and Elva Hsiao returned a heart to the media. However, when the media asked about her boyfriend Huang Hao's injury, Elva Hsiao stopped replying.
html In April, Elva Hsiao and his younger brother's family went out for the holidays, and Huang Hao did not show up, which was far from the original inseparable appearance of the two.
Some time ago, some netizens discovered that Elva Hsiao had unilaterally unblocked Huang Hao's Instagram, which should have been a breakup warning.
Taiwanese media broke the news that the reason why Elva Hsiao and Huang Hao broke up was that one was the generation gap due to the large age difference; the other was that Elva Hsiao was not in good condition after being bitten by a dog.
The brokerage company said that the two were only temporarily separated, but no one can say whether there will be a future...
In our impression, Elva Hsiao is the dashing young lady she sang in her song - what is a breakup? Goodbye, bye bye, the next one will be better, anyway, immersed in the world of fresh meat, there will be more happiness than you can imagine.
When promoting the show last year, I also made a joke about "I want to experience Elva Hsiao's happiness".
However, is Elva Hsiao really that happy?
Happiness definitely exists, but it is short-lived and fleeting. Looking back at Elva Hsiao's love process now, it seems that it is really not as happy as we imagined.
I have to say that the young fresh-faced brother is really good at playing tricks. He can make the big sister look full of love with just a few words.
Give a very typical example:
At the beginning of "Daughters' Love", the program team set up such a question: "When was the last time I told the other person that I love you?"
Elva Hsiao was thinking while reading the question, and Huang Hao blurted out without even thinking: "I love you".
Huang Hao's demeanor and eyes were as calm as if he had succeeded in his routine, while Elva Hsiao was already stumbling around and looking at Huang Hao with starry eyes.
Then Huang Hao answered the question from the program crew:
"When was the last time you said I love you to the other person?"
"Just now."
Let me ask, there are really not many girls who can escape this kind of suddenness. , a natural way to flirt, right?
However, how can life be an idol drama every day? In the process of getting along day and night, problems will slowly be exposed.
It may be due to the lack of father's love since childhood, and the death of her mother caused a heavy blow to Elva Hsiao, so that Elva Hsiao is very emotional. In the "Female Love" program, you can feel that she is very sensitive and insecure.
Previously, Elva Hsiao said that she and Huang Hao had been dating for nearly three years and had broken up more than 10 times, and they broke up "according to the seasons"...
Huang Hao did not buy what Elva Hsiao wanted to eat. Elva Hsiao closed her eyes tightly and took a deep breath, and the atmosphere immediately dropped. to freezing point.
was asked in the program if they had ever felt pressure from each other? Huang Hao blurted out: "Sometimes you have to be angry even when you are breathing. It really depends on your mood."
Huang Hao said that when Elva Hsiao was happy, he would hold him and call him baby, and then sometimes ignore him completely. Elva Hsiao also admitted that he is emotional and "it depends on my mood."
For Elva Hsiao, in a relationship, she needs to confirm that she is loved at all times before her emotions can calm down.
An extremely sensitive physique requires an extremely delicate and considerate partner to complement the other half. Perhaps Huang Hao was indeed considerate enough in the early stage of the relationship to help Elva Hsiao get out of that emotional dilemma;
But as the relationship goes longer and longer, it can be clearly felt. In the later period, Huang Hao already had a state of "writing his perfunctory face" towards Elva Hsiao.
For example, when Elva Hsiao sang her famous song in her early years, Huang Hao applauded without emotion;
For example, when Elva Hsiao reminded Huang Hao about some of his mother’s instructions he had forgotten when cooking, Huang Hao said he didn’t want to hear it all over his face;
For example, Elva Hsiao cried and said, " I want to feel loved." Huang Hao subconsciously dodged his eyes, not even pretending to be empathetic, and said perfunctorily: "I know."
For another example, after saying "I love you", Huang Hao looked indifferent, and there was a sharp contrast between the two people's expressions.
netizen said that this is the obvious contrast between feeling love and not feeling love.
Not to mention it has been refined to daily trivial matters such as watching TV - Xiao Yaxuan can't sleep and wants Huang Hao to watch TV with her. For her, this is companionship and love; but Huang Hao believes that this is a selfish behavior .
In addition to having different feelings when they are together, it is also difficult for them to synchronize their thoughts due to the huge age difference and intergenerational relationship.
During the relationship between the two of them, Elva Hsiao would teach Huang Hao earnestly and meticulously. There was even news that Elva Hsiao asked Huang Hao to practice until he vomited blood. It gave him a sense of "Haidian Mom Online Chicken Baby".
But Huang Hao was only in his early 20s at that time, the age when he had just escaped from the control of his parents, but Elva Hsiao took over the role of mother and continued to control him. At this time, if you say "Elva Hsiao is doing it for his own good" ten thousand times, the two of them probably don't understand each other.
So, there is a daily relationship between the two that was broadcast on the show:
Huang Hao wanted to eat fried chicken. Elva Hsiao smiled and said, "You have so many acne today and you still eat fried chicken?"
Huang Hao was a little a little bit tired of eating. Quick, Elva Hsiao told him: "You can't eat too fast, your stomach has to help your mouth chew, hello, did you hear that?"
Huang Hao stood up, and Elva Hsiao saw his back and said: "You can walk. Don't you want to hump ? "
Is Elva Hsiao too much? No, and it is entirely from the perspective of poverty alleviation "for his own good".
Huang Hao wanted to be an artist, so Elva Hsiao gave him acting classes, dance classes, and told him to practice piano; he also taught him the strict management methods of an artist: don't walk with a hunchback, don't eat fried foods if you have acne, and eat too fast. sick stomach.
But as for Huang Hao, as an artist, he has no advantage over others at all. For him, the signal he received from Elva Hsiao's sincere words was probably "She has to take care of everything I do"...
Another problem caused by the huge age difference is that it may be difficult for Elva Hsiao to heal himself if he is stuck in a relationship, but Huang Hao is still young, and his trial and error cost is low, so he can quickly get out and heal himself.
Even though they have broken up, there are still love records related to Huang Hao on Elva Hsiao's Ins.
But Huang Hao’s Instagram already looks like a single person, and there is no trace of Elva Hsiao at all.
It is said that falling in love with a little fresh meat brings endless happiness. If you forward this Elva Hsiao, your man will be young, handsome and rich.
But the people who cheered and watched the excitement of Dream Nian Xia Lian ignored that being with a little fresh meat with a big age gap is like raising a son, which is hard work and thankless. You hope that he will become a man soon, but people think that men will be young until they die.
The final outcome is likely to be - I wasted several years teaching him how to love, be sensible, be gentle and considerate, and finally make a wedding dress for someone else.
After Elva Hsiao officially announced their breakup, the attitude of netizens was much more free and easy than hers.
said that the next little fresh meat is on the way. You can’t imagine my sister’s happiness!
Someone said that Elva Hsiao should stop helping the poor all day long, and hurry up and start a career!
Some people say that Elva Hsiao must hold on. How many girls’ dreams does she represent?
Everyone is immersed in Elva Hsiao's happy world. They feel that she has strong self-healing ability and may be able to enjoy new happiness in a few days.
But in fact, her current state is very bad!
Do you remember when she suddenly posted a strange video in 2019? In the video, she fell asleep, woke up suddenly, cried and said she missed her pet puppy, and then suddenly fell asleep again.
At that time, everyone was very worried about her. They felt that something was not right about her state. They were afraid that she might be depressed and that the situation would get worse.
However, after she disclosed her relationship with Huang Hao, her mental state improved for a while, and she even released a new song for the first time in a long time.
But since the end of last year, her state has become extremely unstable, sometimes good and bad, and she will post some weird videos.
She would post videos of herself staring at the camera, whether she was drunk or awake;
During a live broadcast with her friends at the end of last year, she looked at the camera with misty eyes, as if she was trying hard to smile, but couldn't. ;
When her friend brought the food to her, she moved very slowly, even holding the chopsticks unsteadily, and she was very confused;
When she stuffed the food into her mouth, it also felt very mechanical.
After being bitten on the face by a dog, she often posted some negative-looking photos, saying that she didn't like the way she looked now and hoped that God could help her.
In the breakup article early this morning, Elva Hsiao said in a deep voice to the camera in a dark room: "I am done".
Moreover, she seems to have been injured frequently in the past few years.
Before, she often had stomach problems and had a hoarse voice↓
Later, she suffered a chest injury in an accident in the bathroom↓
She broke her scalp in April last year and needed several stitches↓
She was bitten by a dog on the face at the beginning of this year↓
Often in a trance, Often confused and often injured, this seems to be the impression Elva Hsiao has given everyone in recent years.
I don’t know if it is because of the lack of father’s love since she was a child. Elva Hsiao longs for love very much. She needs uninterrupted relationships to fill some gaps, so she has been in love all these years.
Falling in love is a big deal to her, so she could give up such a great future as " Memoirs of a Geisha" for the sake of Wang Yangming who later reduced her to pieces.
Moreover, whether she is 20 years old or 40 years old, in love, she has to be the kind of little girl who is loved and coaxed by others.
Her mother once taught her that love will never stop because of setbacks, and she must love more and more courageously the more setbacks she has.
But in Elva Hsiao’s current state, let alone her career, can falling in love definitely help her regain her strength and get out of some low moods?
In fact, Elva Hsiao does not necessarily have to be the "little genius in love" that others call her. What everyone hopes is that she can heal herself first and then start a healthy and positive relationship.
Whether she is a handsome guy or a handsome guy, she needs to get better first.
