There is that kind of personnel in the workplace now, and this emphasis is on looking at people and judging whether they are suitable for the position. To some extent, it controls the fate of some people, especially those who have just graduated from college.

There is that kind of personnel in the workplace now. This emphasis is on looking at people and judging whether they are suitable for the position. To some extent, it controls the fate of some people, especially those who have just graduated from college. Modern people have their own opinions on how to measure this person, but the ancients also had their own standards.

is like a popular saying today, which represents how people in the past judged this person. What does the saying " a good man has hair but doesn't show off, a good woman has fat but doesn't look at the light" mean?

The ancient people’s unique skill of recognizing people

Regarding this person, some people have very poisonous eyes, and they can tell how this person is at a glance. In " The Legend of Zhen Huan", Princess Duan , in order to judge whether Zhen Huan can help herself, she came to watch Princess Wen Yi 's birthday party. Sure enough, he "fell in love with the other person" at first glance and concluded that this person could definitely help him. This was indeed the case. If we investigate it seriously, it turns out that Concubine Duan has a long-term experience in palace fighting and has a unique view on looking at women in the harem.

Since ancient times, those who have been in power have been very accurate in judging people because they have experienced many things. Even if some people are careful and hide it from so many people, they cannot hide it from the superiors. In The Legend of Zhen Huan, the queen Yixiu did so many bad things that she could not hide from others. Even the queen had been deceived by her for so many years and did not know that her beloved woman was killed by her. Only the Queen Mother, the last "Palace Fighting Champion", was very clear about what she was doing and knew what kind of person the other party was.

In the officialdom, those high-ranking officials have unique experience and generally do not trust others easily. Zeng Guofan of the Qing Dynasty was very good at this knowledge. You can tell a person's future officialdom destiny from his face. Although he could not say that he had all the answers, he saw that most of the officials were accurate and were regarded as wise by future generations. Legend has it that the most powerful person is Yuan Tiangang , who once predicted that Wu Zetian would become emperor, and the consequences would be true after decades.

A good man has hair but not sex

Regarding this sentence, it starts from two meanings, representing the standard for judging a good man. This means that a man who is in particularly good physical condition does not have to be like those beggars who have to pick up food left by others to eat. Ancient farming society has always emphasized agriculture and suppressed business. Naturally, it was hoped that the men in the family would be strong, so that they could at least ensure food and clothing for the family. "A good man with hair" refers to a man with a strong body, who looks very healthy and quite strong.

In that kind of small peasant society, generally having a strong man in the family is definitely a good thing for the family. At the very least, the family will have enough food and clothing, so they pay great attention to the import of new children. The flute is played in the sky and jade is used as a building, and the peaches are ripe and there will be no worries. is about marrying a wife and is very popular in the local area. In rural areas, if a family has several men, it is really a fortune, and it is relatively easy to get a wife at home.

As for the "spring whip" mentioned in the article, it has a lot to do with Chinese history and traditional culture. Just like "Spring Festival", " cold food ", etc., they all have a lot to do with our daily lives. It was first traced back to the Sui Dynasty. Because Emperor Yang of the Sui Dynasty was a cow, it was strictly forbidden to kill cows among the people, and even the use of cows was not allowed. It seems to be somewhat similar to the cattle culture in India. However, considering that cattle were an important productive force at that time, not allowing cattle to be used would invisibly increase farmers' workload. In order to vent their anger, many farmers will use cattle as a tool to vent their anger.

"Spring Whip" is a farming custom in my country, which first originated in the Sui Dynasty. Emperor Yang of the Sui Dynasty Yang Guang because he was born in the year of cattle, he did not allow farmers to enslave cattle. This made many farmers dare not speak out. At home, he often whipped the farm cattle, treating them as Yang Guang's anger. This kind of tradition has been completely passed down among the people, and it has not changed even after the demise of the Sui Dynasty. But he couldn't bear to actually beat the cow, so he tied the cow with paper and filled it with grain. This is the origin of "whip spring".

For women’s health standards

Today’s society’s restrictions on women are relatively less severe than in the past, and they can go out and play at will. But in that era, this kind of fundamentalism would not be allowed by the secular world, and it was often " three obediences and four virtues ".Emphasizing that "a good woman doesn't look at the light when she's fat" means that the woman has a strong figure and is basically a lady. Strictly speaking, it means "you can't get out without taking one step through the first door". This system is perfectly interpreted strictly.

The emphasis on "fat" does not mean meat, but plumpness. Tang Dynasty Beauty Trial means that fatness is regarded as beauty, but not that kind of fat person. The most well-known is Yang Guifei . She is a dancer herself, and she is very familiar with various dances. If you are really too fat, you won’t be able to jump at all.

Strictly speaking, it is a state of wealth, which at least means that the person has a good quality of life. If life at home was not good and he would be starved and skinny, how could he still be in this state? In ancient times, women from poor families did not have enough food and clothing, and had to work every day. There was no such thing as "fat". At that time, people wanted to marry a rich girl when they married. The real reason was that they were well-educated, and educating future generations was very important.

Going out to play was not popular.

In addition, people at that time did not have many rules for women, and they were not allowed to go out to play at will. The same is true even on major holidays. For example, it is the custom to go out and enjoy the lanterns during the Lantern Festival. For our ladies, it is a rare moment to relax. There is also a chance that you will meet some outstanding men, which can be regarded as an opportunity to meet some crazy men and resentful women. In modern terms,

is nothing in itself, but in the past, it was a big deal. Ever since Master Zhu proposed the "three obediences and four virtues" for women, women's life has become even more difficult, emphasizing that obey the father before marrying, obey the husband when married, and obey the son after the husband dies. Basically, in this life, I don't have to say anything, and everything is obeyed by men. If you are not married, you cannot go out at all, and you are strictly prohibited from meeting men other than those from your natal family.

Song Dynasty If a woman went out to play during the Lantern Festival, it was considered a corruption of customs, and it was like insulting the lintel of the family. Therefore, there is a custom that "a good girl will not look at the lamp if she is fat". In other words, there will be no rich girls at all that day. Under certain circumstances, becoming a bad guy is a way to assassinate a rich lady, and it is easy for others to take advantage of her.

Summary

As for the ancestors leaving these words to future generations, at that time, there was indeed a reason for their existence. But today's society is not very suitable for today. The criteria for judging wealthy families are not limited to physical condition. It also depends on whether the family works together and has a wise mind.

These things have become a distant era and have become the "standards" for others to judge good men and women. Of course, they do not represent everything. But these rules are not recognized by the world. In the new era, for female friends, there is no need for so many restrictions, and it is okay to go shopping on the street. Still using the same standards of the past to measure women is really disgusting and not worth promoting.

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