Hello everyone, I am Sicily.
Early this morning, Elva Hsiao posted a message that seemed to announce her breakup with her boyfriend Huang Hao.
"It's over. Both parties have different ideas. Both parties have their own ideas. The woman has her own dreams, and the man also has his own ideas. I wish each other peace and health, and both can find the direction they want. Thank you. Goodbye to everything."
In fact, when participating in "Daughters' Love" last year, Elva Hsiao and Huang Hao confided that the third year of their relationship was a bottleneck period, and the two began to argue endlessly and almost broke up.
Therefore, Sicily is not surprised that the two will break up.
Talking about Elva Hsiao's love life, netizens highly summarized it in one sentence: "The iron-clad Elva Hsiao, the flowing little fresh meat."
In 2003, she dated Wang Yangming, who is known as "Taiwan's most handsome guy". She grew up in the United States and has a strong family background.
In 2010, he dated the second generation star Zhou Tanghao .
In 2012, I dated Ke Zhendong, a popular idol of the new generation. His parents are in business and he is a rich second generation.
Huang Hao, the 25-year-old ex-boyfriend who just broke up with him, is a recent graduate and returned to Taiwan from Vancouver .
According to incomplete statistics from netizens, Elva Hsiao has had 15 boyfriends, and almost every one of them was a "best in the world."
And according to Elva Hsiao's "list of previous boyfriends" given by netizens, you will find that except for " Li Wei" and "Elrox Shi Zhengxiang", none of them were over 25 years old when they were dating her.
(Note: The first three are the partners Elva Hsiao dated before he was 24 years old. According to the picture, they should not be over 25 years old)
No wonder, no one can stay young forever, but Elva Hsiao’s boyfriend can!
Some people joked that Elva Hsiao is breaking up now because Huang Hao is going to be over 25 and she is looking for the next young guy who is under 25 years old.
No kidding, let’s be honest.
Huang Hao is the one with the biggest age difference between Elva Hsiao’s previous boyfriends, with a 16-year age difference between them.
After falling in love, the combination of dashing lady + sunshine puppy is indeed very sweet.
Many of the moments they spent together made everyone feel that love is really beautiful.
Age is not an issue.
However, falling in love with an immature boy is sometimes really tiring.
Some netizens once uncovered the "Ten Principles of Love" proposed by Elva Hsiao in " Kangxi is Coming ".
It can be seen that Elva Hsiao does not care about the evaluation of the outside world at all, he just wants to be himself and enjoy the process of falling in love.
"Tokyo Love Story" said: "The interesting thing about love is to participate in it. Even if it fails, it is still very interesting."
Elva Hsiao can afford to love and let go.
Therefore, she always adhered to the principle of pure love. It was not until Huang Hao wanted to enter the entertainment industry that Elva Hsiao broke her past principles and worked hard for him.
not only asked his company to sign him, but also used all the resources at hand to pave the way for him, took him to various variety shows, and organized numerous tutoring classes for him to improve his personal abilities.
(But it is not advisable to go to the hospital if you are stressed out)
When Elva Hsiao took Huang Hao to participate in the "Tucao Conference", on the surface it seemed that she was flirting with Huang Hao and feeding the audience dog food, but in fact it was for Relieve Huang Hao's tension.
Before the program started, Huang Hao was so nervous that he had a stomachache and went to the bathroom alone to adjust his pressure.
Elva Hsiao seems to be more worried than happy in this relationship.
If you love someone too much, you will naturally want to take good care of him and even plan the future for him.
Maybe this is love, I always worry about him unconsciously.
Before he realizes it, you have already planned this in your mind many times.
However, this mode of getting along is more like a mother's care for her children, rather than a mutual support between lovers.
is right to care, but planning everything in detail will only make him feel controlled and constrained.
Long-term control will form an invisible ranking of status. The more this happens, the more the controlled party wants to subvert this status and prove its own value.
You think it is for his own good, but this good will slowly turn into a rift in the relationship between the two.
Please remember, you are in love, not raising children.
Love is free and equal.
Huang Hao once said in a variety show: I am a man and can also be relied on.
You see, sometimes, you have done enough, but you only moved yourself.
I watched a video by chance. Han Xue talked about his views on mate selection, and Sicily agreed very much.
She said:
"I like boys who have seen the world, but I don't like boys who are still eager to move around the world. Because only those who have understood life and seen the world will cherish what they have in front of them."
Just like Elva Hsiao and Huang Hao .
Elva Hsiao tried his best to pave the way for him, but he didn't seem to cherish such an opportunity.
A dashing young lady with a career and ideas cannot stand there forever waiting for a little boy to grow up.
So, never fall in love with a boy who is younger than you.
The so-called small does not mean young age, but whether it is mature.
Some boys are quite old, but their actions are not mature enough.
Even if he has a family and children, he still prefers to be a prodigal son who wanders around the world and never stays at home.
is like Cao Yunjin who loves to "see the world". He is not very mature and failed to protect his love and family later on.
When Cao Yunjin fell in love with his ex-wife Tang Wan, she had just started her career due to "In the Name of the People", and ended up getting pregnant and getting married. She herself had a falling out with her agency because of this and lost her job. .
At that time, Sicily felt that if this girl dared to love and hate, there would be a good result, but she did not expect that she would meet a scumbag, and this determined relationship would also end in failure.
During Tang Wan's pregnancy and breastfeeding, Cao Yunjin's gossip news never stopped.
Tang Wan was pregnant for ten months and had to work hard to breastfeed. She had no job or income because of her marriage, childbirth, and company breakup. However, Cao Yunjin complained on the show that he had spent a lot of money and felt that he had spent the money unjustly.
Obviously, Cao Yunjin is a little boy who refuses to grow up, and he is also a selfish "big man". He indulges himself in this prosperous world, but cannot bear the responsibility of marriage.
People who only know the taste of being loved will slowly lose the ability to love others.
There is a topic on Zhihu: What is it like to fall in love with a boy who is younger than you?
has an answer from Sicily that is very impressive: Falling in love with immature people, mature people, will be really tiring.
The throbbing caused by hormones is short-lived, but the gap in life experience and ideological depth between the two people will come out to cause trouble at any time.
But Sicily still believes that age is not an issue.
If a man really likes you, no matter how young he is, he will still pay for you and know how to give in when quarreling;
And "love" will make him learn to take responsibility, he will work hard for you and work hard to grow. .
Therefore, sibling love has never been a problem, and there are many sibling relationships that have achieved positive results.
is like xiujiekai and alyssa .
There is a 9-year age difference between them, but he holds Alyssa in the palm of his hand and dotes on her like a child.
was recording a variety show. He was worried that Alyssa Chia's body could not bear it, and his eyes were filled with pity.
A family of four was camping in the wild. Alyssa Chia accidentally burned her hand, and Xiu Jiekai beside her was anxious and distressed.
Alyssa Chia wanted to challenge herself to take care of two children. Xiu Jiekai couldn't bear that Chia Jingwen was too tired, so he ran home every time to prepare three meals a day for his wife and daughter.
will also thoughtfully leave sticky notes before going out, explaining where to put good things and how to cook them.
When he came back in the evening, Xiu Jiekai was cleaning up the housework in the kitchen again.
A man who truly loves you will definitely cherish you.
Therefore, Alyssa Chia, who was clearly supposed to be the "sister", was spoiled like a child by Xiu Jiekai.
This is not because of age, but because I love you enough.
- written at the end -
Falling in love is not raising a child, and you don’t need to rush to the front to protect him from the wind and rain.
You will never learn to grow by hiding under the wings of others.
He is an adult and has enough knowledge to solve difficulties.
Whether it is love or marriage, what is more important is to go hand in hand and create the future together.
And you don’t have to think about others in everything, love yourself more first.
A good love must not require too much understanding.
Because people who truly love you will love you, tolerate you, and are reluctant to let you be wronged in the slightest.
In front of him, you can always be like a child.
Sicily I hope you can all meet the person who can make you a kid again.
