In the finals of the popular variety show "Qi Pa Shuo", Qiu Chen said: "Perhaps what we should do throughout our lives is not to regret, but to discover, to reminisce, and to chat with friends. , talk about the shining points you have had. "The rest of life is short, and time wai

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The famous German writer Schiller once said:

There are three steps of time: the future is belated, the present flies like an arrow, and the past stands still forever.

If you stand on the road to bid farewell to the old and welcome the new, you can taste this sentence carefully and appreciate the philosophy in it.

01 A year passes in an instant, and emotions and sorrows are intertwined.

Time flies by, and another year passes without knowing it.

The calendar has been unveiled until mid-February 2020. Do you still remember what you were looking forward to in 2019 at this moment a year ago?

There is a popular question on a certain Q&A platform: One year has passed, what have you gained?

Netizens collectively turned on the self-deprecating mode.

Some people say that they gained a piece of abdominal muscles.

Some people say that in addition to going from eating meat to eating pork once a week, they also gained new career aspirations.

Some people say that their IQ has reached the "top", the kind of bald top.

Some people say that over the course of a year, the temper becomes softer and softer, and the cervical spine becomes harder and harder.

There are also some people who answered this question seriously.

Some people say that when his grandfather passed away, his mother cried like a child while holding him. He, who had been rebellious for a long time, suddenly thought that his mother had lost his dearest father, and he had to take over from his grandfather to protect her. As a result, my mother gained a filial son this year.

Some people said that they just started working this year and used their own money to travel, find guides, and ask about locations. Their family never rejected their ideas again, and they suddenly felt that this was when they had truly grown up.

Some people say that they have been non-marriageists since childhood and have been in love with their boyfriend for 10 years. If it hadn’t been for the nth marriage proposal in front of the Eiffel Tower this year, they would not have discovered that marriage can be happy.

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Have you discovered it? Those decisions that are right or wrong, those beautiful or sad changes, those great or small discoveries often happen in an instant.

Looking back at one year, it seems like it was just a moment.

The joys, sorrows and joys of this year are intertwined in memories, turned into sheets of work reports or study summaries, selfies or group photos one by one, and video frames frame by frame, frozen in the life experience.

02 In the blink of an eye, every moment has thousands of possibilities.

If you can live a hundred years, even if you are still in your prime, there are still 80 years left, which is actually less than 30,000 days.

A moment in a year, 80 moments, a lifetime in a blink of an eye.

There is a lyric in Li Zongsheng's "Song to Myself" that deeply touches my heart:

If you want it but can't get it, what will happen to your life?

I couldn't bear to let go, just talking about the past.

By the time you realize that time is a thief, it has already stolen all your choices.

There are thousands of possibilities in every moment. Every time choice can affect a period of your life or your whole life.

Don't wait until you are old to regret why you didn't make good use of your time to do something memorable when you were young;

Don't wait until your hair turns gray to remember the good things of your youth, and forget how wasted your youth is.

In the finals of the popular variety show "Qi Pa Shuo", Qiu Chen said:

"Perhaps what we should do throughout our lives is not to regret, but to discover, to recall, and to talk to friends." Let's chat and talk about the shining points you have had. "

The rest of life is short. Time waits for no one. Only by cherishing the present can you be treated gently by life.

03 Cherish the present and discover that beauty is worthy of time

The outcome of your life = current status + your time usage efficiency * the time you have.

In this equation, the current status is a foregone conclusion, and the time you have is uncontrollable.

Therefore, the only thing that can change the outcome of your life is the efficiency of your time use.

I get up every day and tell myself what I must accomplish, but after checking Moments until early in the morning, I find that nothing has been accomplished;

I decided to go out for a walk during the holidays, but after watching dramas for a few days, I found that I have to go to work tomorrow;

What does the boss say? I wanted to use the plan book for Zhou's meeting, but I accidentally hit the deadline.

Where did the time go?

When we face the context of "a year in a blink of an eye, a lifetime in a blink of an eye", we should not fall into a pessimistic situation, but should face the same 24 hours a day as others, and face the 365 days shared by everyone every year, and tell ourselves: Be quiet. I have to make up my mind to cherish the present moment, improve the efficiency of time use, and do something meaningful.

For example, to discover the beauty.

Gorky said: In life, all the beautiful things we encounter in our lives are measured in seconds.

Time will not stop, nor will the pace stop.

We work hard and struggle in order to meet wonderful people, create a wonderful life, and experience a wonderful world.

In the coming year, it is better to read less gossip, play less games, be less ignorant, care less about other people's opinions, and be less influenced by others in the limited time; make more close friends, spend more time with your family, and spend more time with your family. Get active for your health, work harder for your dreams, and go out more to see the outside world.

Even if the future is long overdue, it will eventually come.

"There will be times when the winds and waves break, and the clouds and sails will sail directly across the sea."

There is still a long way to go, and the future is promising.

Cherish the present, discover the beauty, and live up to your time.

About the author: Ruosi, freelance writer, new media author. The sun is rustless and thoughtful. Write true words with a sincere heart.