Today is the birthday of Elva Hsiao . This special day is suitable for listening to some special songs. is with you on the 236th day of "Listen to a Song and Talk About Love". Let's listen to Elva Hsiao's " The Most Familiar Stranger " , and go back to the autumn when she first debuted.
The Most Familiar Stranger
Singer: Elva Hsiao
Lyrics: Yao Qian Music: Xiao Ke
Do you still remember the ocean dyed by the moonlight outside the window?
Do you still remember? It is love that makes each other light up the night.
Why did we later use Silence replaces dependence
The once bright starry sky gradually becomes gloomy
The heart breaks and leaves, turning around and returning to the original desolation to wait.
In order to be lonely, should I find someone to fill the blank space in my heart
We have become the most familiar strangers in the world
From now on, we will each have twists and turns and each will be sad.
It is only our fault. The love is so violent
The love is so deep
So I woke up from the dream, I was stranded, I waved my hands
But I couldn’t return to my senses
If I could have held back when we met
My excited soul
Maybe I won’t let myself miss you tonight Falling into
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For lovers, which ending is worse, "the most familiar stranger" or "friends become lovers and then friends again"?
The above emotional issue comes back to our endless love attitude.
Some people are relatively sincere. The deeper they love at first, the less able they are to face it calmly after a breakup. Even if you can understand many of her little tempers, it may be a blessing to become the "most familiar stranger".
There are also some people who can always find a perfect fit between emotion and reason. They believe that "there is no buying and selling in love." Since we were able to fall in love at the beginning, we can naturally return to being friends after breaking up. There is no need to act like that. The pretentious look of severing ties with each other.
You can't say the former is too cold, nor can you say the latter is too casual. These are both attitudes towards love. People with different personalities will inevitably make different choices.
What's more, many people nowadays believe that whether it is "the most familiar stranger" or "a friend turns into a lover and then becomes a friend", it will bring hidden dangers to the future love between the two, and is not a suitable opening for breaking up. Way.
They feel that even if you and her have become strangers, the three words "most familiar" are the original sin. And "friends turning into lovers and then friends again" will only make an already complicated relationship more troublesome.
So, even if we all feel that we can face our past relationships calmly, your partner may not always cooperate with your performance. If nothing else, when you two went to watch "Spider-Man: Far From Home" sweetly, you were excited about the growth of Spider-Man, but he thought sourly that the person who accompanied you to witness the first ten years of the Marvel Universe was... Someone else.
As you can imagine, when we hear Elva Hsiao singing in "The Most Familiar Stranger", " We have become the most familiar strangers in the world/We will each have twists and turns/We will each grieve ", we must not care. She sang " for loneliness/Do you want to find someone to fill in the blank in your heart" in the previous sentence, but she firmly believed that the person walking hand in hand with her at this time is your real destiny.
Of course, if you are single at this time, just pretend that I didn’t say anything.
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On November 17, 1999, when the market was going crazy with high notes, Elva Hsiao released the album of the same name "Elva Hsiao" under the name of charming alto and bass.
has mentioned many times before that 1999 was the year when a new generation of female singers broke into the music scene in the Chinese music industry. Many of the Golden Melody Award-winning singers in the years to come were new singers from this year.
Among them, although Xiao Yaxuan only officially debuted at the end of this year, the performance of this new singer is amazing: she first became a blockbuster with the song " no one " full of RB rhythm, and then with the lyrical hit "Familiar" "Stranger" has become popular in the streets and alleys, creating a new audio-visual sensory path.
It is precisely because of the stunning performance of the "Elva Hsiao" album that Elva Hsiao won the first place in Taiwan's MTV Chinese website Internet Lover, the top ten most popular Taiwanese singers in the first Hong Kong "Friends Music Awards", and the top ten most popular Taiwanese singers in Taiwan Minsheng Newspaper Millennium Big idol, Malaysia first Asian Chinese Golden Song "Most Popular Newcomer Award", China Times "2000 Entertainment Top Ten Super Popular Singers" and other honors.
Although Elva Hsiao lost to Ji Xiaojun who was at the peak of her debut in the Best Newcomer Award at the 11th Taiwan Golden Melody Awards, after entering 2000, her career has reached a higher level. Not only did the new album "Red Rose" continue the magical performance of the first album, it also won the "Best Selling Chinese Singer in the World" at the World Music Awards from 1999 to 2000.
It can be said that among the four Hong Kong and Taiwan queens composed of early Zhou Hui , Jolin Tsai , Elva Hsiao and Stefanie Sun, Elva Hsiao is definitely the most star-like person even if he is not the first.
In the years that followed, Elva Hsiao continued to release high-quality albums.
Whether it is from " Love's Title Song·Kiss " to "1087" to "Miss Chic", or from Virgin EMI, to Warner Music and then to Sony Music, Elva Hsiao has been able to transform from the "Four Little Queens" back then. Becoming one of the "Four Queens of " is enough to witness her talent, luck, as well as their persistence and hard work in the music industry.
03
In recent years, singer Elva Hsiao has become a protagonist in the entertainment industry in another gossipy way.
Rather than appreciating her musical works, many melon-eaters are more willing to discuss Elva Hsiao's awesome love story of harvesting young meat. In the first half of this year, there were rumors in the world that she contracted an indescribable hidden disease precisely because she was too open.
Such remarks are tantamount to malicious slander, and they also show society’s prejudice against women.
Otherwise, there would be no Leonardo frequently changes supermodel girlfriends, but is regarded as a true character by the world; and Elva Hsiao is judged to be immoral once he dates a new young girl.
Even though we have entered the 21st century, our country's traditional culture still dislikes Elva Hsiao's view on love, and few people think about it: This willful woman has not betrayed anyone, and can quickly start a new relationship after getting together and breaking up. , is this not allowed by nature?
Therefore, the most disgusting thing is those defenders. They hope that all women can live forever. Even if they are hurt by men, they will have to spend a long nightmare to prove that they loved so deeply.
For Elva Hsiao, everything is in the song " Dashing Miss " released in 2010.
On the 21st anniversary of her debut, she used this song to calmly sing her views on love, declaring that she must live a chic and unrestrained life.
Looking at Elva Hsiao’s stories over the years, she can at least be considered as a person who unites knowledge and action.
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Finally, I wish Elva Hsiao a happy birthday again.
Maybe not every girl can be a chic lady like her, but she allows girls to see a different kind of life!
Tomorrow’s preview
Tomorrow is August 25th. I plan to talk to my friends about Xu Wei, who was not yet open-minded and "became a Buddha" that year. I hope everyone can like this extremely despairing song.
