#人世故事# Zhang Ailing said, "When you meet the person you meet among millions of people, in the endless wilderness of time for millions of years, there is no step too early or one step too late. It just happens that you meet the person you meet." When I got there, I had nothing els

A cat said in "One Year Makes Ten Years", "To upgrade better, you must become a qualified time investor. You need to think carefully, choose carefully, and try your best to spend most of your time. Invest in high-value people and things.”

Time is your life, I firmly believe that.

Where we spend our time, the results will appear.

From 2015 to 2016, I wrote 6 novellas and more than 100 poems. At that time, my daughter Chage was just one year old. Every day after my daughter fell asleep, I would turn on the computer and start coding.

One day, my friend Yuanyuan suddenly asked me, how can I take care of my children and write a novel at the same time? I responded to my friend that I coded quickly when my daughter fell asleep, and I took her to the park to play as soon as she woke up.

My friend was extremely surprised. Her son is the same age as my daughter, but she has a nanny and a driver, and her husband has to help after get off work. However, she is still extremely busy every day, exhausted, physically and mentally exhausted, and depressed.

shows how important it is to be a qualified time investor. If you manage the same time reasonably, you will make many unexpected achievements.

The author of this book is a fierce cat, and he is not a person who knows how to manage time at the beginning. He was not a qualified time investor at the beginning.

One night in August 2014, he was holding a quilt and crying secretly in an old house with a monthly rent of 1,200 yuan. Cry the injustice of fate, cry the bleakness of your own future.

As he cried, he kept asking himself, is he going to be so unknown in this life? Be an ordinary middle school English tutor? The cat asked this answer. At that time, he felt deeply melancholy about his future.

But soon the cat gave the answer. Being mediocre all his life is definitely not his dream in this life. He wants to be a person who stands out. Be a household name. Be an ambitious person.

So, in September 2014, Mao took out all of his net worth of 9,000 yuan, and Mao gave 5,000 yuan to the training class, and from then on he walked out of his own small circle. Having your own team brings you all kinds of impossibilities in life.

Before attending the training class, when he was a teacher, Mao was a good person and was never willing to refuse other people's requests.

is always responsive to everyone's requests for help, and often goes to some unnecessary gatherings and does some thankless things. But then it slowly changed because he was too busy and didn't have enough time.

Mao said that he must price his time. Mao went from paying a few hundred yuan an hour at first to 30,000 yuan an hour now. Therefore, he stopped many people with money, thus saving himself a lot of time.

Cat does not refuse to pay, nor does it refuse to charge. Cats effectively control and utilize every moment of their lives.

We should try our best to spend our precious time on people who like us, people who recognize us, people we like, and things we like to do.

"The strong conquer today, the coward laments yesterday, and the lazy waits for tomorrow." This is the favorite sentence of a fierce cat, and it is also what I use to encourage myself and share my encouragement with my friends!

Not all gold can shine. If gold is buried deep in the soil, no one can see it.

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About the author: Lan Lin Xiaozhu, who won the 2007 Best Newcomer Award from Beijing Education Media, the 2017 Hundred Cities and Hundreds Magazine Jiangxi Division Readers' Favorite Poet Award, the 2020 Toutiao Qingyun Project Award, and the 4th World's Most Beautiful in 2021 Love Poetry Competition World's Most Beautiful Love Poetry Award. In 2017, he published a personal poetry collection "Love in the World", and in 2021 he published an e-book and novel "I Met You in the Red Dust"...

❤ There is scenery in the eyes, but there is no right or wrong in the heart.The text is Fuliu, waving to wait for the return of spring❤

My only daughter’s tea grid

The author of this article is Lan Lin Xiaozhu