Those who have made a difference whether academically or in life,
there may be a great woman standing behind them,
she may be a wife,
or a mother.
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Li Changyu , known as the Sherlock Holmes of the East,
is the most famous criminal expert in the world.
It is said that his salary is calculated based on 10,000 US dollars per hour.
He also appeared in "The Coming of Kangxi".
Little S asked him "How to judge whether your husband has cheated?"
He responded domineeringly: Let your husband come and see me for two minutes.
Wang Luodan posted a photo of the balcony,
40 minutes later he gave the detailed address.
He has solved more than 8,000 cases since he became a police officer.
He was the one who solved the "Oimpson Simpson murder case" that shocked the entire United States.
But such a detective said:
In this world, the person I admire most is my mother.
Li Changyu's motherWang Shuzhen,
because she believed in Buddhism,
got the Buddhist name "An Buddha", so she was also called Li Wang's An Buddha.
She was a lady from a scholarly family,
but in order to support her family, she gave up her original worth and became a servant;
In order to obtain immigration qualifications when she was 62 years old,
she studied English hard and finally passed the immigration exam;
She Married at the age of 19 and widowed at the age of 40,
raised 13 children in her life,
13 of her children received doctoral degrees;
She is an ordinary Chinese,
received praise from two presidents (Clinton, Bush),
called her As the "Great Mother".
She is Wang Shuzhen,
the mother of the famous Chinese detective Li Changyu,
a great but ordinary woman.
13 children and 13 Ph.D.
Wang Shuzhen was born in 1897 in Rugao Town, Nantong County, Jiangsu Province.
She comes from a wealthy family and went to a girls' middle school.
She likes poetry and music and has believed in Buddhism since she was a child.
At the age of 19,
The flowery Wang Shuzhen married Li Haomin, the second-generation local rich man, and
lived a life of caring for her husband and raising her children.
In that era, people advocated having more children and bringing happiness.
Wang Shuzhen gave birth to 8 daughters and 5 sons to the Li family.
Li Hao runs a grain store outside the country,
Wang Shuzhen is the housekeeper, looks after her husband and raises her children,
has a well-to-do family, with 8 girls and 5 boys growing up healthily,
the family leads a life that is envied by gods.
In 1948, the Li family moved to Taiwan.
Before the Spring Festival in 1949,
Li Haomin, who was about 50 years old, bought a batch of fish fry in southern Jiangsu.
He was transported to Taiwan on the Taiping ship, but unfortunately he died.
After the "Taiping ship" incident, the Li family lost its backbone,
The whole family began to decline.
The family's financial resources were completely cut off.
Wang Shuzhen was alone with her 13 children in a strange environment without any friends.
The burden of the whole family of 14 fell on this weak woman.
When she was the poorest, she often had to eat. Before they could finish their meal,
’s death was so close to them.
But Wang Shuzhen, who lost her husband, is not discouraged.
She not only wants to have enough food for her 13 children,
she also wants them to go to school and receive a good education.
For this reason, this former rich lady,
humbly worked as a helper to make a living.
In order to support these 13 children with food, drink and school,
Wang Shuzhen also tried her best,
taking care of the children and doing laundry in the homes of the rich. Cooking, tutoring music,
as long as it was a job that could earn money with one hand,
she did it day and night,
the river water was cold in winter,
her hands were often soaked and stung and swollen,
but she still bit her Hold on with gritted teeth.
At that time, Wang Shuzhen lived with her 13 children in a deserted suburb of Taoyuan District, Taiwan.
The children went to school in the city, and
had to walk dozens of miles back and forth every day.
Seeing that it was almost impossible to open the pot,
she insisted on sending the children to school even if she tried to sell the pot.
At first,
the younger children did not feel the impact of their father's absence.
later found that life became more and more embarrassing.
worked hard and worked hard to bring up her children,
told them with emotion and reason:
"In the future, you must have the ability and be successful."
Wang Shuzhen has strict requirements for her children, almost harsh.
’s son Li Changyu became an inspector after graduating from the police academy.
The job and salary were good.
But she said to her son:
"You have to continue studying. A master's degree is not enough, so you have to get a doctorate."
So the detective listened to his mother's words and achieved his current achievements.
She hopes that her children will become outstanding and top-notch talents as much as possible.
They will not only grow up to adults, but also grow up to become talents.
Under this educational philosophy,
the Li family has produced 13 Ph.D.s.
This is absolutely a miracle in the world!
The children are engaged in various industries:
scientific researchers, businessmen, designers, engineers, artists, advertisers, securities workers, IT elites, etc.
They are:
- Li Changquan (male):
- graduated from Shanghai Business School and is engaged in business.
- Li Changduo (male):
- Taiwan Agricultural College, New York University in the United States engaged in scientific research.
- Li Changgang (male):
- United Nations African farming consultant, American environmental protection water conservancy engineer.
- Li Changyun (female):
- graduated from Taiwan’s Central Political School and works in an American stationery company.
- Li Changlong (female):
- graduated from Shanghai Home Economics School and is an American fashion designer.
- Li Xiaofeng (female):
- Department of Agricultural Chemistry, National Taiwan University, Master's degree from Edwards University, USA,
- PhD from University of Pittsburgh, USA, and tenured professor at New York University, USA.
- Li Changfan (female):
- Soochow University in Taiwan , graduated from New York University in the United States,
- served as the vice president of Berlin Securities in the United States and the president of the American Petrochemical Company.
- Li Changxia (female):
- graduated from Drew University in the United States and worked in computer design for an American insurance company.
- Li Changping (female):
- graduated from the Law Department of Soochow University in Taiwan and serves as a court judge.
- Li Changxin (male):
- Ph.D. from the University of Maryland, USA, and serves as deputy dean of the University of Virginia Research Institute.
- Li Changyu (male):
- Ph.D. from New York University, Commissioner of the Connecticut Police Department, and an internationally renowned "detective".
- Li Changru (female):
- graduated from Taiwan National Defense Medical College and engaged in nursing work.
- Li Changzhi (female):
- graduated from the Taiwan Journalism Institute and the American Fashion Institute of Advertising, and is a well-known advertising design expert in the United States.
Among the 13 Ph.D.’s she trained,
3 were awarded “Top Ten Outstanding Young People in the United States”.
The Jiaozi Jing has only 15 words.
Wang Shuzhen is very successful in educating her children,
but her children's scripture only has 15 words.
This also fully confirms our ancient saying:
The great road leads to simplicity.
Wang Shuzhen often tells her children:
"Be nice to others, be attentive when doing things, talk less and do more."
Although Wang Shuzhen's Scripture on Teaching Children has only 15 words,
it contains the four major aspects of life.
It can be said that The words are rich in meaning, and the words are concise and concise.
Being kind to others means that you should be kind-hearted,
and cultivate a field of blessings and make good friends.
This is the first important thing for us to be a human being.
People can be without talents, but they cannot be without virtue.
People cannot have sinister intentions.
Therefore, the old man puts "treating others well" first.
To do things with concentration means that we must be sincere and respectful.
Be attentive when doing things,
That means first of all, be sincere about what you do,
Do things sincerely,
Don't think about the reward for doing things.
Another meaning is to be respectful.
Respect means to have respect for what you do.
You should do it "as one thing".
You can't do it casually or half-heartedly.
Speak less to encourage people to be restrained and self-restrained.
It is also necessary to avoid attracting attention with words.
People who talk too much,
On the one hand, they tend to offend others without realizing it,
They also bring trouble to themselves;
On the other hand, if they talk more and do less, they will become frivolous and superficial.
Lu Xun once said:
"When I am silent, I feel fulfilled,
I will speak, but at the same time I feel empty."
Doing more requires people to do it,
use actions to turn ideals and ideas into reality.
Doing things is not only a way for us to dream in advance,
it is also a channel for self-cultivation.
"The Book of Changes" says that a gentleman cultivates virtue through fruitful conduct,
which means that people can cultivate noble morals through actions and work.
The
phrase in "Dream of Red Mansions" that "knowledge of worldly affairs is knowledge, and understanding of human feelings is article" also has this meaning.
Not only that, Wang Shuzhen practiced hard and set an example for her children.
She also had very high requirements for herself.
She was already 62 years old at that time.
She still studied English hard and
and finally passed the US Immigration Service English test,
and obtained permanent residence.
She hoped that her children would become outstanding talents as much as possible.
In order to live up to her mother's ardent expectations, all 13 children studied hard.
In the end, they all succeeded in their careers.
inherited her mother's indomitable perseverance.
What is true aristocratic education? This is!
The real aristocratic education is not to let the children live in villas and drive luxury cars.
It comes and goes as soon as people call it.
This is not an aristocratic education, it is a nouveau riche-style education.
True aristocratic education is to cultivate children's perseverance and will to make progress.
You must know that wealth and honor are not the same thing at all!
The famous writer Hodin Carter Jr. once said what he hopes to leave to future generations:
"We hope to have two permanent legacies to leave to our children.
One is the root and the other is the wings."
As the famous German philosopher Jaspers said:
The essence of education is that one tree shakes another tree,
one cloud pushes another cloud,
one soul summons another soul.
Convey a kind of faith to children,
Coupled with parents' precepts and deeds, it is difficult for children from
such families to be outstanding.
Lin Zexu said,
"If your child is worse than me, what's the use of leaving money? If your child is not as good as me, what's the use of leaving money?"
If you really want to do good for your child, don't leave him a mountain of gold and silver,
Instead, give him the right to create,
let him sweat, shed tears, and bleed,
let him run in the rain without an umbrella,
let him desperately pursue the "best self",
you just He needs to be conveyed to him a kind of perseverance and faith, so that he can drink the most beautiful soup in the world with his own "golden spoon"!
A Chinese heart.
Although Wang Shuzhen moved her family to the United States,
she still has a Chinese heart in her heart.
Usually at home, she communicates with her children,
insisting on using Jianghuai Mandarin and Rugao dialect.
On the one hand, hearing the local accent in a foreign country relieves her homesickness.
On the other hand, it reminds her children not to forget that they are Chinese.
On her 100th birthday,
President Clinton, his wife and the mayor of New York City went to wish the old lady "Happy Birthday"!
can have such high-standard treatment,
's respect for her can be imagined!
At her birthday party, her children asked her what gift she wanted.
She said: "I want to go back and build a school for Chinese children."
In one simple sentence,
she revealed her deep love for her motherland and her inseparable affection for her hometown. .
On March 6, 2003,
Wang Shuzhen passed away in New York, USA, at the age of 103.
was born in Guangxu, grew up in the Republic of China, matured in the Republic, and died in the 21st century.
This Chinese old man who spanned three centuries,
gave birth to 13 children and trained 13 Ph.D.'s.
Her educational mantra of "Be nice to others, be attentive when doing things, talk less and do more" is worth learning by every parent and child today.
The best education parents can give their children is to pass on a spirit to them.
The greatest wealth parents give their children is the "person" of their children.
Transfer to him an optimistic, positive and
unyielding spirit Better than anything material!
