For children
Mother is the biggest growth background in our lives
The mother has the longest contact time with her children every day
It is also the earliest template for children's enlightenment
Many parents have had this idea:
I can't do it myself We have no choice but to place our hopes on the cultivation of our children. The correct logic of
should be: if you want your children to be able to do it, you must first do it as a parent.
has been struggling for his dream career; for his beloved children, he has tried his best and constantly surpassed. The children educated by such an independent and strong mother will also be excellent.
How many outstanding children can such a powerful mother educate?
Wang Shuzhen was born in Nantong, Jiangsu. She lived to be 106 years old. She was a great but ordinary mother. She gave birth to 5 boys and 8 girls, 13 children, 13 of whom are Ph.D.s, all of whom are elites in all walks of life.
▲ Bronze Statue of Wang Shuzhen
Among her 13 children, 3 were named "Top Ten Outstanding Young People in the United States". Even President Clinton and President Bush wrote letters praising her as a great mother. When she was 100 years old, On her birthday, President Clinton and the Mayor of New York City went together to wish her a happy birthday.
She hopes that her children will become outstanding and top-notch talents as much as possible, not only when they grow up, but also when they grow up. In ancient times, it was said that "Meng Mu moved three times", but today there is "the Queen Mother who is good at teaching". Under this educational concept, the Li family has produced 13 doctors, which is absolutely a miracle in the world!
The children are engaged in various industries: scientific researchers, businessmen, designers, engineers, artists, advertisers, securities workers, IT elites, etc. They are:
Li Changquan (male): graduated from Shanghai Business School and is engaged in business.
Li Changduo (male): engaged in scientific research at Taiwan Agricultural College and New York University in the United States.
Li Changgang (male): United Nations African farming consultant and American environmental water conservancy engineer.
Li Changyun (female): graduated from Taiwan’s Central Political School and works in an American stationery company.
Li Changlong (female): Graduated from Shanghai Home Economics School and American fashion designer.
Li Xiaofeng (female): Department of Agricultural Chemistry, National Taiwan University, Master's degree from Edwards University, USA, PhD from University of Pittsburgh, USA, and tenured professor at New York University, USA.
Li Changfan (female): Soochow University in Taiwan , graduated from New York University in the United States, served as vice president of Berlin Securities in the United States and president of the American Petrochemical Company.
Li Changxia (female): Graduated from Drew University in the United States and worked in computer design for an American insurance company.
Li Changping (female): graduated from the Law Department of Soochow University in Taiwan and serves as a court judge.
Li Changxin (male): Ph.D. from the University of Maryland, USA, and serves as Vice President of the Research Institute of the University of Virginia, USA.
Li Changjue (male): Ph.D. from New York University, Director of the Connecticut Police Department, and an internationally renowned "detective."
Li Changru (female): Graduated from Taiwan National Defense Medical College and engaged in nursing.
Li Changzhi (female): graduated from the Taiwan Journalism Institute and the Fashion Institute of Advertising, and is a well-known advertising design expert in the United States.
She has a son named Li Changyu , who is known as the Sherlock Holmes of the East and is the most powerful criminal expert in the world. It is said that his salary is calculated based on 10,000 US dollars per hour.
▲Pictured with his son Li Changjue
He has solved more than 8,000 cases since he became a police officer. It was he who solved the "Ompson Simpson Murder Case" that shocked the United States. However, such an awesome detective said, in this world, I The person I admire the most is my mother.
How does this great mother educate her children?
His mother, Wang Shuzhen, although she did not graduate from middle school, taught by example rather than by words. Her actions throughout her life were the best education for her children.
She was born into a well-to-do family, and she was considered a lady. However, her husband died unfortunately due to the "Taiping Wheel" incident, and she lost her mainstay. The family was completely cut off from their financial resources, and the burden of the whole family of 14 fell entirely on this weak woman. , when they were poorest, they often had too much to eat, and death was so close to them.
In order to support her family, this former eldest lady was willing to do anything, including washing dishes, doing laundry, and doing odd jobs. In winter, the river water was cold, and her hands were often soaked and stung and swollen, but she gritted her teeth and persisted.
But no matter how difficult life is, she always adheres to high standards and strict requirements for the education of her children. Even if she puts her life on the line, she still has to let her children study. She knows how important studying is to a person, so none of her 13 children drop out.
She also had very high requirements for herself. At the age of 62, she still studied English hard and finally passed the US Immigration Service's English test and obtained permanent residency.
She hoped that her children would become outstanding talents as much as possible. In order to live up to her mother's ardent expectations, all 13 children studied hard and eventually succeeded in their careers, inheriting their mother's indomitable perseverance.
An independent and strong mother is the most beautiful mother no matter in which era or country.
The world's supermodel Meyer Musk , his marriage is not very happy, and his family is not very happy, but he has raised a son worth 60 billion. At the age of 65, he is still the darling of the covers of major magazines.
This cool aunt has many identities: a model with more than 50 years of experience, a lecturer, a company owner, a master of nutrition , registered nutritionist ... But she feels that her most important identity is always that of a Mother.
Her eldest son is the CEO of Tesla, founder of PayPal (foreign version of Alipay), founder of Space Elon Musk (Elon Musk).
The second son Kimbal Musk and the youngest daughter Tosca Musk, one is the owner of the chain restaurant the kitchen, and the other is a director and producer.
was able to raise three such outstanding children because she herself was outstanding enough and confident.
Aunt Meyer was born in Canada in 1948, and her family moved to South Africa when she was two years old.
The African continent is a paradise for adventurers. What Meyer’s parents like to do most is to fly a plane and explore with their children. Spending the night in the desert and running on the grassland... Such a childhood planted the seeds in Meyer of daring to take risks and dare to move forward.
When she was in school, Aunt Meyer was a top student, with good looks and a good figure. When she was 15 years old, under her mother's instigation, Aunt Meyer went to a modeling agency run by her mother's friend and started working as a small model.
I shot my first commercial two years later.
Three years later, she was shortlisted for the Miss South Africa beauty pageant
and then married engineer Errol Musk. Within three years, Aunt Meyer gave birth to two sons and a daughter, and was officially upgraded from a young girl to a hot mother.
Next, she shifted the focus of her life to educating her children. Because work can be put on hold, but children's education cannot be put on hold. This is a matter that affects the children's entire lives.
Aunt Meyer is a person who lives by intuition. She will do what she thinks is right and never procrastinate.
This idea also runs through her parenting scriptures:
Parenting Tips No. 1
Let the children discover their own preferences and never give up halfway
The eldest son Elon likes to stay up late and read science fiction novels, so let him read them, provided that tomorrow You have to get up on time to go to school; your second son Jinbao is more active and loves all kinds of sports, so he should try it, but once he starts, he must stick to it and not give up halfway.The younger daughter Tosca loves beauty, so she is exposed to more beautiful things, such as taking her to watch shows.
In our family, no matter what we do, we must think about it first. Once we start to do it, we should not give up halfway. Our moms did it, so we should too.
Aunt Meyer’s three children
Parenting Tip 2
Respect others and take care of each other
4. When I was 5 years old, other children were clamoring for their mother. They were already sitting in a row, waiting for the mother on the catwalk to work. Go home together.
I often tell them that society is fair and the harder you work, the more you can get.
So they respect my work and my time very much. Sometimes I need to work at home and they stay quiet; if I go to the catwalk, I take them with me because I don’t have a nanny at home. At the venue, the three brothers and sisters would sit nearby obediently, reading by themselves, waiting for me to go home together.
Unfortunately, the relationship between husband and wife is not as smooth as the relationship between parents and children. Ai Luo has such a strong personality that he hopes his wife can stay at home and be a housewife. But Aunt Meyer didn't want to.
After discussing to no avail, the two chose to divorce peacefully. The two sons belong to their father, and the daughter belongs to their mother.
Instead of staying in an unhappy marriage, it is better to end it happily. It will not be good for the children or both of us.
Article 3 of Parenting
Support your children’s choices and bear due responsibilities
After graduating from high school, Elon decided to leave South Africa and go to Canada to study. This was a lot of expense. In order to let his children receive a better education, Meyer decided to give up the career he had established in South Africa and took his three children back to Canada to settle down.
That year, she was already 40 years old, divorced, and had three children. Her assets in South Africa were frozen.
had to start all over again.
The four of them, mother and son, had to live in a low-rent house. At their worst, they couldn't even afford meat.
Aunt Meyer doesn't have so many petty emotions. She worked hard for her three children and wished she could use them 48 hours a day.
The nutritionist certification in South Africa did not work in Canada, so I re-took the master's degree in nutrition from University of Toronto , with 6 classes per week, and passed the registered dietitian examination recognized by Canada and the United States;
was still in Toronto while taking classes. Work as a researcher at the university;
goes to the university to give lectures two nights a week, and performs in a modeling company to gain experience on the other two nights;
goes to a clinic to help during the day, and can see 25 patients a day...
compares with the future of children Get up and realize that your hard work is nothing.
There is always a stage in life when you lose control. In this case, you really have no time to be sad. You have three children to raise. If you are not strong, what will they do?
What's more, Aunt Meyer is still facing a group of "naughty kids". Especially Elon, he has been an atypical devil from childhood to adulthood.
When other children are playing games, he has developed his own games. For such a technology-savvy person, school life cannot attract him.
had just arrived at Stanford University to study for a PhD. After only two days, Elon had other plans. It was 1995, and he decided to drop out of school and join his younger brother in joining the Internet wave.
As the mother of a boy who takes an unconventional path, Aunt Meyer is of course supportive - after all, her educational philosophy is also to support the child's nature. After
returned to Canada, she bought Elon a computer with her first salary. Now that her child wants to start a business, of course she will also provide money to support it.
The two brothers started a company called Zip2 together. Starting a business was not easy. In the beginning, the two brothers were so poor that they had to eat, drink, and sleep in the office.
Seeing her son working so hard, Aunt Meyer saw it in her eyes and felt pain in her heart. She used $10,000 of her savings to help her children pay for their office rent.Whenever she has free time, she helps her son handle company affairs, including intern management, printing, and handling office expenses. She does her best.
Because she has always believed that her children will become special people.
’s hard work pays off. In more than three years, this small company, which had nothing at the beginning, was finally acquired by another large company for US$307 million and US$34 million in stock options.
Since then, Elon has continued his legendary life, developing PayPal, building cars, building rockets... and now preparing to go to Mars; Jinbao has also opened his own chain of restaurants, and his daughter has become the director of her dreams.
Aunt Meyer stood in front of the Tesla car
The pride in Aunt Meyer's heart is her children; the pride in her children's hearts is their mother.
50 years old, Meyer came to New York to continue his modeling career; he still gave speeches and wrote articles non-stop to popularize knowledge about diet, health, and nutrition to the public.
life is endless and endless tossing.
conveys a kind of faith to children, coupled with parents' precepts and deeds, it is difficult for children from this kind of family to think about being outstanding.
How does mother affect our life?
A family, even if it is poor and has only four walls, as long as there is a kind, frugal, optimistic and tidy mother taking care of it, such a family is still a temple of the soul and a source of happiness and power.
The image of mother will affect everyone's life from beginning to end! When a person grows up, as long as his or her mother accompanies them during their growth, everything about the mother, including the image of the mother; the mother's principles of life; the mother's thoughts... will always be there unconsciously. affect their children.
Strong mothers teach their children not to be timid in the face of difficulties
In real life, those who are able to persevere without fear of hardships and hardships when encountering real difficulties are often those women who seem to be weak. They even have some problems in some aspects. Stronger and more persistent than men appear.
A mother with a broad mind allows her children to learn to look forward to the future.
There are many women whose minds we admire. It is the minds of these women that make us understand how much a mother's broad mind can play a role in their children.
A kind mother helps her children understand compassion.
Bill Gates once said that what he received from his mother was "piety and kindness." We can see his mother in Bill Gates' large donations to poor areas around the world. mark.
A well-educated mother will build the quality of her children.
The word "cultivation" is reflected in everyone, that is, a person's quality. Excellent quality of a person seems to be able to achieve his or her career. So how to "build" self-cultivation even after adulthood? In fact, most of the self-cultivation is "watered" bit by bit from the mother.
A well-educated mother will influence her children's profound thinking.
The famous writer Jin Yong once said that his exploration of the innermost feelings of the characters in his novels was largely influenced by his mother's culture. Jin Yong's mother Xu Lu was Xu Zhimo's aunt. She attended high school at that time and could write beautiful calligraphy. Every mother affects her children with their own image.
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